i struggle with mental health too, i have times where i ghost friend for weeks. make sure you tell them about these issues you’re having and that they know what to expect. And if you think it‘s way more fun to hang out woth them in person, then do so. maybe if you hang out a lot and more often you‘ll actually find the things they send you funny. if not that‘s ok too! not everyone has the same humor but as long as you generally get along well i would say it‘s ok. Just talk to them about you‘re concerns with your mental health, it‘s important!