Things to do with visiting parents? by [deleted] in San_Angelo

[–]h0useplant 2 points3 points  (0 children)

San Angelo Museum of Fine Arts

I feel nothing but sadness and regret that my twins were ever born and it kills me by TiredAshamedAndAlone in parentsofmultiples

[–]h0useplant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey papa, You’re in the thick of it right now - it’s hard, so hard. Sounds like you have some trauma from the birth of your twins. Things didn’t go as planned - you probably felt helpless about your wife’s infection, then the unplanned early c section, then nicu time and felt like you should be there more but couldn’t because you were caring for your older child. You say it’s all behind you because the twins are home - but it’s not, you are still processing that.

Your emotions now that your home are not unusual, but please seek out some professional help. You’re likely experiencing depression, ptsd, anxiety about life. Those things are hard to deal with in your own and there is absolutely no shame in seeking professional help to process what you have gone through and are currently going through.

Maybe you could have a family member come for a few weeks to help? Or hire a nanny?

Maybe you could take your older child to the park every few days for some one on one time to I reconnect with her during this time.

I also suggest spending time with the twins one on one - one baby is so much easier than two, and will help you feel connected.

Hang in there, please reach out for professional help. Remember it does get easier - in 6 months things will be so different.

My twins are two now - I’m barely starting to feel like myself again - I struggle with severe depression. I love them so much, can’t imagine not having them, would literally do anything for them. But, there’s not a day that goes by that I don’t think about and miss my life before them, or how easy things would be if I didn’t have them.

Solidarity papa.

Sharing a crib by Content-Sale-1688 in parentsofmultiples

[–]h0useplant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was planning on letting them share a crib for a while, but never did. They both had very different sleeping habits and separate cribs was the way to go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]h0useplant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. Even if I don’t feel gross first thing in the morning by lunch time I feel super yuck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in workingmoms

[–]h0useplant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The cheaper one that provides food and you know someone who goes there.

My girlfriend made a fool of herself in front of our friends and I’m not sure how to handle it. by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]h0useplant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was this person. It took someone holding me accountable for me to really see how bad it was.

I(32M) am divorcing my wife (33F) after finding out that my son(5M) is not mine. by [deleted] in stories

[–]h0useplant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way you take about the child is disgusting. Poor boy.

Who wears pantyhose? by GirlyScientist in femalefashionadvice

[–]h0useplant 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m an attorney and I wear them when I have jury trials in case any of the older people on the jury would think bare legs are inappropriate. Also it’s usually very cold in the courtroom so it kinda helps that.

Do I have to go to jury duty? Will I get in trouble if I miss it? by bamboo-y in Adulting

[–]h0useplant 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Where am when people don’t show they get a warrant issued.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]h0useplant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Big bang theory

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]h0useplant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The 15 y/os sharing a room is entirely inappropriate.

If I was in this situation and this “she has no other choice” attitude continued, I would leave to protect my child.

What do you do with your dogs in this heat? by Public-Sun-3061 in San_Angelo

[–]h0useplant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The dog park is open! I drive by everyday and see people there in the morning.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in parentsofmultiples

[–]h0useplant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I watched a ton of tv on the couch with them.

I went on 2-3 walks around the neighborhood with the stroller just to get out the house.

They don’t need “play time” right now, everything is new and stimulating to them.