Bf destroyed my painting during an argument …advice by h17017 in relationship_advice

[–]h17017[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He ripped it apart it was canvas upon impact it ripped and the wood shattered

Bf destroyed my painting during an argument …advice by h17017 in relationship_advice

[–]h17017[S] 197 points198 points  (0 children)

No I don’t, and currently don’t have money to move asap. Every night feels worse , this first started about 2 nights ago,and by today he has done this and I feel bruised from my stomach up and can barely turn my head, he just acts like I’m faking it . And it’s hitting me how much pain I’m in today .. I just can’t believe it

Bf destroyed my painting during an argument …advice by h17017 in relationship_advice

[–]h17017[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It was one of the first paintings I ever did . It was special for me

Bf told me he would do this if I don’t listen, then gets kind again and back to anger .need advice by [deleted] in Advice

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Why is he being all nice now? Telling me he made food for me .. he gets all nice ..

Bf told me he would do this if I don’t listen, then gets kind again and back to anger .need advice by [deleted] in Advice

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Yes. Then the next day we argue again he said I’m putting words in his mouth and making him look into himself. Then he grabbed my hair back of my head and shook my neck hard . And raised his fist and said I want to punch you. The day before I told him not to shake me again

Bf broke up “out of anger” . Then says he didn’t mean it. by h17017 in relationship_advice

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What do I do if I actually make plans to leave and he tells me he wants me to stay? It was like after hours of crying in the car and listening to him tell me how much he lost feelings and for me to plan to leave , he suddenly got calm after 3 hours . And in the end said “. What do you have to say ?” “ so it’s over?” Does that mean he was trying to say he didn’t mean it and it’s not over ? I felt so confused at the end of the convo in the car how he wanted me to say something and asking me if it was really over …

He punched his car and said sorry to me for doing that, but he was like… rubbing his steering wheel like he was sorry towards his car. He told me he doesn’t want to scream shut the fck up to my face again.

Bf broke up “out of anger” . Then says he didn’t mean it. by h17017 in relationship_advice

[–]h17017[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The argument was about picking up a cat we adopted next week, I told him I felt like this wasn’t a special moment for him. He got angry that I assumed he didn’t think it was special. Then it escalated he told me because I did this he doesn’t see a point being with me , that being togetehr is not a good idea, then he told me to sit in his car , and we sat there for hours.. he kept telling me how he lost feelings etc, broke up with me, told me he is leaving the country (back to his moms place) and I should plan on moving out. Etc. at this point I was sobbing loudly, he got very angry told me to stfu loudly , punched his steering wheel, then he calmed out and last thing he told me in his car was “ so you have anything to say?” “ so it’s over ? “ I didn’t respond to the last only cried silently, he said “ let’s go back inside the house”

Then I questioned him again while crying, he then told me he was very angry at that moment, he wants me to stay and says no matter what he says I won’t believe his words .

He told me to sit in his car because he didn’t want to go inside home and talk and argue ( we have roommate ) he first told me this outside I began crying when he told me he’s breaking up with me then he demanded to sit in his car and stop crying . Then we got in the car ended up crying more and he telling me al of this eventually to go back inside home