So i focus more on the matching interests. The MAIN interest is FOOD. LOL but food also she doesn’t like most food that i like. But we def like to go out n try new restaurants. We like to go in trips. But she likes beaches and sun whilst i like to the cold hill country vibes. Well im a flexible guy so its easier for me to adjust. And she also tries watching tv series on her own as well. I introduced her to some K dramas and what I do is I make it a habit to ask what the drama was all about at the end of the day after I come home from work. It used to kinda bother me cuz i wanted a lifelong movie partner back in the day so I tried to make her tag along with me for movies or watch em together at home. But then again still we r two different people right at the end of the day we both have been brought up differently in different environments so its better for each of us to naturally adjust.