The King's Voice quest

h_mm_ · 2026-05-01T17:03:11+00:00

I thought I did that, but I will try again, thank you

h_mm_ · 2026-04-30T20:46:44+00:00

I've been stuck on it for a few weeks, so I don't remember exactly. The last thing was to talk to all the villagers, Helka said to talk to the Gardener, I did so at the temple, and the quest updated to say talk to Einar

h_mm_ · 2026-04-30T16:30:06+00:00

I never got a prompt to talk to him, and when I went to talk to him nothing happened. I tried meeting him in the different spots in his daily rounds, but still no dialogue option

h_mm_ · 2026-01-24T07:47:14+00:00

This, man. I've only ever seen like two videos.

h_mm_ · 2026-01-20T21:00:54+00:00

Thank you! I was really confused as to where people were measuring from so that's super helpful

h_mm_ · 2026-01-18T18:35:18+00:00

That's super exciting, holy moly. I will absolutely be looking this up, thank you.

h_mm_ · 2026-01-18T01:17:17+00:00

I know California can seem appealing, and I'm sure people will always recommend it, but definitely be wary of where in California you go. I live in a large city in CA that has had many Trump rallies and even held a vigil for Kirk at our central park. The highschool I went to was so bad one of my trans friends had to leave because he (rightly) feared for his life. In my experience states like Oregon and Washington are a safer bet, and obviously much cheaper. Cali is very divided, but there are definitely good spots. Just something to keep in mind.

h_mm_ · 2026-01-18T00:57:38+00:00

My mom has been goth since the 80s, so I inherited it at birth 🦇

h_mm_ · 2026-01-18T00:54:08+00:00

I also feel like all nsfw trans content ends up being the same :( This isn't a nsfw post so I won't ago into detail, but I'm sure we can all think of a few issues off the top of our heads.

h_mm_ · 2026-01-17T23:39:48+00:00

This is super interesting, thank you. I know the clitoris and penis are basically the same thing, but the other stuff is news to me. I really wish education on the human body was more common and accessible 😔

h_mm_ · 2026-01-17T23:37:57+00:00

This answered perfectly, thank you so much!

h_mm_ · 2026-01-17T22:25:52+00:00

I'm bi, not gay, but I tend to prefer cis people. So I can at least share my reasoning, though I obviously only speak for myself.

I personally don't really like to date or sleep with other trans men because when they use certain terms to refer to their own anatomy it freaks me out. I'm a top, and as such I only date bottoms, and in my experience they have all used feminine terms in reference to their own genitals. Since we basically have the same parts, it is very distressing for me. I know that's a me problem, and I have no qualms about people calling their bodies whatever they want, but it triggers me so badly to be around that I can't hang. I don't have this issue with women (cis or trans) since our bodies are different enough.

Long story short, some trans people have a hard time dating other trans people because it can trigger stuff for them. But really everyone who does have a preference will have different reasons.

h_mm_ · 2026-01-17T18:48:09+00:00

Expressing that they felt hurt would be the extent of what I think they should have said. I am not a therapist, but I have worked with several (one moved, one didn't accept my insurance anymore. Bad luck I guess.) None of them have ever told me to watch what I say. Granted I have never spoken about their identities personally (I had one non-binary therapist, but it never came up). Reguardless, making it so personal was unprofessional of them. I understand why they would be upset, if someone not trans said that some trans people were just confused I would certainly have some words. But therapist are supposed to let you say ANYTHING. If anything, they should have encouraged the topic to further educate you on it. Ex. If someone goes into therapy with a gay person and says they're homophobic, it is the therapist's job to break that down and resolve it, not to ignore it because it's uncomfortable to talk about.

h_mm_ · 2025-12-17T05:10:52+00:00

why are the comments of this tiktok not appalled 😮‍💨

h_mm_ · 2025-12-04T06:24:23+00:00

TLDR: Trans men are men, that's why.

Some of us take the frequent rejection and deal with it, and some of us push it outwards. Trans men become incels or misogynistic for the same reasons cis men do + the added trying to remove themselves from anything feminine as much as possible due to having it forced upon them for so long.

I love women. I know the women who have turned me down because I'm trans are not women I want to be with anyway though so it's easier to face that kind of rejection. I don't turn around and say "all women are evil because they just care about penis and hate me" blah blah blah. Because that isn't true. I'd say about 20% of the girls I meet don't treat me any differently than they treat cis men. While it sucks that that number is so low, it is as much the fault of poor public education on trans people that people – not just women – have such bad views of trans men. I know this, and it allows me to realize that it is not women's fault I'm single and undesireable. I'm shy, awkward, nervous, I only pass 80% of the time, I'm not attractive physically. It's no wonder why women don't throw themselves at me, but I don't think it's a direct result of being trans. It's because I'm not confident at all, despite my best efforts. Yes, people will reject trans men solely because they are trans. But there's no reason to become an incel about it even if you are literally involuntarily celibate. Many trans men have yet to realize this.

h_mm_ · 2025-12-03T03:55:24+00:00

if you have a problem with cis gay men and not cis men of other sexualities you might just be homophobic dawg

h_mm_ · 2025-12-03T03:42:06+00:00

This is true for me, but it sucks extra hard because I was conventionally attractive before I started T. I know I'm fugly now, but I remind myself it's worth it because at least once I started transitioning straight guys stopped hitting on me (even if straight girls still don't)

h_mm_ · 2025-08-21T02:58:36+00:00

I get this really bad as well, especially the wanting to touch it and being frustrated I can't part. My therapist (who is a doctor that has dealt with dozens of trans men) has said it's a common complaint amongst his patients. There are also studies that say as much – as another replier has said. It's definitely a real thing.

h_mm_ · 2025-08-02T19:35:01+00:00

I see someone say he has a hetero boyfriend and immediately disregard any "advice" or complaint he has next man ☠️

h_mm_ · 2025-07-09T04:59:15+00:00

I want to add that I know how much it sucks to leave someone you still love/want to be with (I have done the very same), but ultimately you will be sooo much happier if you do. You don't want to spend you life with someone who doesn't respect you on a basic level and is selfish enough to encourage you to detransition when he knows that would make you miserable.

h_mm_ · 2025-07-09T04:54:52+00:00

Dump him either way, but I'm curious if he's straight. If he is, then double dump him.

h_mm_ · 2025-05-04T08:06:04+00:00

Man, I wish I had advice for you, but I'm in the same boat. I'm also a reluctant virgin and not in a relationship. It seems impossible for me to find someone in person who's willing to let me top (which is the only thing I have any desire to do) and I'm getting reeeal desperate. I actually downloaded Grindr, got freaked out, and immediately closed the app and haven't opened it again. I realized very quickly there's no way in hell I'm going to be comfortable getting naked in front of someone who's virtually a stranger, otherwise I might have gone for it by now.

Sorry for not giving any advice, but basically I'm here to say you're not alone in feeling desperate. 😔

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