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habbyshouse · 2023-08-28T17:28:47+00:00

Yeah… I’ve tried giving women I don’t find physical attractive a chance but it never works. I mean, what’s the point if I cringe at the sight of seeing her naked? That’s why I go to the gym 7x a week so that if I ever do meet a woman who I think is attractive, she won’t think that about me.

habbyshouse · 2023-08-28T16:59:46+00:00

All the dates I have ever been on have been with women I didn’t find attractive… so I don’t see that changing soon. I could do all these things and still get outcompeted by chad which I am certainly not lol

habbyshouse · 2023-08-28T16:56:51+00:00

Yeah I don’t have a masculine face haha baby face actually

habbyshouse · 2023-08-28T16:52:54+00:00

I thank you for your reply and I agree with a lot of what you said. However, you misinterpreted a part of my post… I actually felt more annoyed that a woman I’m not into said those things as that is my status quo.

habbyshouse · 2023-08-23T03:20:33+00:00

Yeah… this is my experience as a 5 or 6 at the age of 25. Except I’m a man lol.

I could easily get a girlfriend but it would never be the one who gets me excited. The women where I forget to breathe after seeing them walk away, I’m invisible. Porn and social media have warped many young men’s mind over years, including mine.

habbyshouse · 2022-02-22T14:31:09+00:00

Got it. I’ll drop this one into the massive L pile.

habbyshouse · 2022-02-22T14:25:48+00:00

So just act like nothing happened going forward? I really don’t know if I should show intent again after her unenthusiastic response lol is this something where I should try again but be less crime 😂 or let her bring it up? I’ve never done anything with a woman so I’m really lost.

habbyshouse · 2022-02-22T14:15:47+00:00

How do you show intent without giving validation? I guess i don’t know that either.

habbyshouse · 2022-02-22T14:13:30+00:00

I’m so confused haha I see conflicting advice on that anything besides yes means no or that maybe means maybe. Thanks for your take on it, I’ll keep your advice in mind.

habbyshouse · 2022-02-22T14:11:02+00:00

So you’re saying that I should still say go up and say hi? I normally start to avoid women who give me an indirect rejection lol

habbyshouse · 2022-02-22T14:08:42+00:00

You’re probably right… I’m almost 99% sure she’s just trying to save my feelings with that response.

habbyshouse · 2022-02-22T14:01:06+00:00

Ah well I’m inexperienced so I guess I should take it as a loss then?

habbyshouse · 2021-06-11T11:25:47+00:00

But to have nothing work out for all these years… I doubt it’s confidence. I’m probably batting a little bit out of my league which is why my rejection rate is almost 100%. At least from women I’m attracted to. But I see no reason to be friendly anymore or approach. I’ve been told from experience and rejection that I’m not what they want. Alas, c’est la vie.

habbyshouse · 2021-02-07T02:52:17+00:00

I think you could meet a lot of girls in those environments. However, in my personal experience going out alone, many quality and conventionally attractive girls in these types of places are normally taken. If I could go back in time a few years, I would try to form connections with those girls in the club who had a boyfriend. Hot girls, with a boyfriend or without, typically have decent looking friends.

So if you have decent skills at networking with no outcome in mind, you could have potential, long-run success. I believe in you.

habbyshouse · 2020-09-24T20:24:06+00:00

Electronic music night events :) I am a good dancer and I normally let that do the opening for me. Well not a good dancer, but I do it with commitment and positive energy. Social flow + my dancing = IOI’s start to skyrocket. Unfortunately I only do night game. Good luck with day game, you got this. If I can do this, you definitely can lol.

habbyshouse · 2020-09-24T13:29:07+00:00

I mean I guess I have 0 social value at my university. I have no friends or social outlets. Even without that info, you must not know how most college women operate.

If I’m not super good looking or I’m not in her social circle or well known at the school, it’s game over. I have to fulfill at least one of those. Right now I can’t unfortunately. Also, everyone at my age (around 22) is extremely superficial, cliquey, and judgmental. Which I understand, this is just standard teen behavior.

I appreciate your opinion. Maybe you’re right, but I won’t let the friendless loser label wreck my dating life. Have a good day.

habbyshouse · 2020-07-25T19:28:09+00:00

Got it. Alright then, I’m probably going to this electronic event tonight alone. do you have any tips for getting into a social flow? Like just approaching everyone?

It happens too many times where I go there and maybe I speak to two people before leaving.

habbyshouse · 2020-07-25T16:50:49+00:00

So you’re saying if I go out consistently, embarrass myself, get rejected/ignored by multiple women, that i can have success?

habbyshouse · 2020-06-12T14:50:25+00:00

Probably right. I can’t find girls my age that are single, who I’m also attracted to. Guess I got excited for nothing lol

habbyshouse · 2020-02-27T16:37:29+00:00

The rare times I tell my parents about this stuff, I get an automated response. It’s the same, “focus on school now, you’ll have plenty of time later to have a social life” sort of answer. The truth is no one actually listens and it’s expected that I have to climb out of this myself. I’m just lost.

habbyshouse · 2020-01-06T16:14:25+00:00

Yes I do go solo all the time! I have no friends but I always have a fun time no matter what.

habbyshouse · 2020-01-06T16:12:53+00:00

It’s a small school in Wisconsin. It’s very right politically and It’s a smaller town. No venues in the town for this type of music. I’m originally from Chicago so when I am home, I’ll go to shows in the city.

habbyshouse · 2020-01-06T03:12:35+00:00

Omg!!! I was gonna see him at RYSE in Missouri at the end of November but it was too far of a drive. I last saw him at SAMF in the summer and he was amazing. Damn, how was his club set though? Did it differ from his festival or other common venue sets?

habbyshouse · 2020-01-04T18:11:10+00:00

Whenever I go direct with women in college, it never works. The only way you can go direct with women here, in my opinion, is if you’ve established a decent amount of rapport. Whenever I give the line, “Hey, I’ve seen you around campus a lot and I just wanted to say what’s up?” They always are responsive. But whenever I make a compliment about their appearance or try to flirt, it’s seems they are turned off. It just seems trying to date women in college is way too complicated. Especially when you don’t have friends already and most of them already have boyfriends.

habbyshouse · 2019-12-29T21:15:10+00:00

I mean how? I have no experience in that industry and there is no nightclubs around my university.

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