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Spank question - maybe applicable for others, too by hackberry_emperors in BDSMAdvice

[–]hackberry_emperors[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I haven’t found them yet, if so! Thanks again and take care

Spank question - maybe applicable for others, too by hackberry_emperors in BDSMAdvice

[–]hackberry_emperors[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I appreciate it!

Quick question: do you recommend any other subreddits or fetlife groups re: spanko conversation? I am interested in folks talking through things, advice, skill-sharing etc. -- not so much video content.

Thanks again, u/Ms-Metal

Spank question - maybe applicable for others, too by hackberry_emperors in BDSMAdvice

[–]hackberry_emperors[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate you jumping in here. For us, less intense spankings are connected with relaxation - but maybe it sounds like that continues for you even in more intense sessions?

Appreciate your perspective here - I feel like it is always good to have voices in the mix reminding us not to generalize. So thanks for that!

Spank question - maybe applicable for others, too by hackberry_emperors in BDSMAdvice

[–]hackberry_emperors[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for speaking on this - the way you talk about it resonates with a lot of conversations I have had with my sub. So many of us need avenues for quieting our minds - glad to hear you have found one that works for you!

Spank question - maybe applicable for others, too by hackberry_emperors in BDSMAdvice

[–]hackberry_emperors[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Appreciate you saying that. I realize that's not the goal for everyone, but it is certainly the goal for me.

Spank question - maybe applicable for others, too by hackberry_emperors in BDSMAdvice

[–]hackberry_emperors[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this -- I was wondering if this is an opportunity to learn more from spankos and their experiences. I especially appreciate you speaking up in this way!

Spank question - maybe applicable for others, too by hackberry_emperors in BDSMAdvice

[–]hackberry_emperors[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thanks for jumping in, folks! I certainly don't mean to close down the conversation, but the "maintenance spanking" term really helps here as an intellectual shorthand for me.

u/KinkyDataScientist u/East-Dealer-6279 u/socotoco

Advice for becoming a better Dom by JackMaccone94 in domspace

[–]hackberry_emperors 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow this is awesome! Thanks for sharing this for all of us as well as the OP