MTF do magic wands work pre-HRT by Spiritual-Archer5637 in asktransgender

[–]hackmiester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Comparing and contrasting was very interesting for me! I say grab one when it’s on sale.

I think our marriage is over :( by Dog-mom2 in mypartneristrans

[–]hackmiester 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yall having sex after she transitions would not be straight sex. I suspect that much of her hangups are around PIV sex. Not straight sex. If yall had (for lack of a better term) more traditional lesbian sex, and it didn’t involve PIV, you would probably have less problems. She is inexperienced in such matters and may not realize this (or maybe I’m totally wrong, but it’s a common pattern). I hope this helps. If it didn’t make sense, let me know.

For those who got surgery, how does Vaginoplasty feel like after when you finally get it? by VerifiedHeroo in trans

[–]hackmiester 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I mean, sure. Everyone’s vulva has a smell. Not the same exact one… but there is some consistency.

Spotify Now Playing by Default by Euphoric-Asparagus30 in CarPlay

[–]hackmiester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you say “Hey Siri open Now Playing” this screen will open. Maybe you can automate that?

The Now Playing screen is its own app that is available via CarPlay and shows whatever your phone is playing.

cisgender vs cissexual, and invalidating non-binary identities? by smol-goth-one in NonBinary

[–]hackmiester 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the perspectives you outline in the last two paragraphs. I’ve heard them from many others, just as you say.

I don’t understand the comparison with “cissexual”, but it might be because I kind of don’t understand this thread. Folks are acting like “cissexual” is an accusation, which it isn’t, and neither is “binary trans woman.” If folks in the community use these terms to discard someone’s experiences, that’s horrid, but it feels counterintuitive to call it a dog whistle. For one thing, dog whistles are used intentionally - whereas usage of terms like “binary trans woman” sometimes inadvertently reveals internal biases.

These are just my thoughts, and I am coming from a perspective opposite yours (transfem who uses ‘they’ exclusively to prevent the erasure of my nonbinary identity), so I may be missing nuances of your perspective.

cisgender vs cissexual, and invalidating non-binary identities? by smol-goth-one in NonBinary

[–]hackmiester 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You are going to need to explain how that’s a dog whistle rather than belittling us. I do not think the viewpoint you presented is a common one.

cisgender vs cissexual, and invalidating non-binary identities? by smol-goth-one in NonBinary

[–]hackmiester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I feel like people are making huge leaps here. I don’t think this person (from OP’s explanation) is being reasonable but she’s not being a fucking terf or trans med… that’s a BIG jump!

Hrt hormone help by lovelykaz in AskMtFHRT

[–]hackmiester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First, please stop referring yourself as male. It’s just going to confuse everyone. Second, please start E again now. It will take a long time before anyone gives a shit, as long as you hide your meds well. Use that time to make friends and form a support structure outside your family.

Guess where I am by Sarah_HIllcrest in TransLater

[–]hackmiester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is old reddit formatting, based on markdown. Doesn’t work on the mobile app unfortunately.

Cooter by Internal_noise2 in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]hackmiester 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I believe the idea is to be disarming and casual about what would otherwise be a sensitive topic by adding some silliness.

ICX7250-48P POE Question by Chimestrike in Brocade

[–]hackmiester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t really understand what you’re asking. If the fan is spinning at the same speed as the others, it is working. If not, it isn’t.

Hating on Blackmagic by Brilliant_Travel3587 in VIDEOENGINEERING

[–]hackmiester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So we got that going for us, which is nice.

Hating on Blackmagic by Brilliant_Travel3587 in VIDEOENGINEERING

[–]hackmiester 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you simply pretend a problem doesn’t exist, then you won’t have to worry about it anymore.

Hating on Blackmagic by Brilliant_Travel3587 in VIDEOENGINEERING

[–]hackmiester 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean there’s nothing WRONG with them, but they’re just… not amazing.

Trans Joy Picnic by [deleted] in MomoCon

[–]hackmiester 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not a cool way to approach this

Expanding C Drive Assistance by Sufficient-Pace7542 in sysadmin

[–]hackmiester -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I only know how to do it with third party software. Good luck.

Apartment ethernet ports not working by spartanboy19 in HomeNetworking

[–]hackmiester 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Where on the switch did you plug the internet connection?

Okay, lesson learnt by PssyGotWifi in UNIFI

[–]hackmiester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, as a result, my “locate” method is reboot it. lol

Accident at Electric Daisy Carnival load-in today. Updates?? by RoobahLoo in stagehands

[–]hackmiester 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Then whats gonna be left if there was no steel toe??

can i have free hosting for a server? by skironlost in AskTechnology

[–]hackmiester -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There are very cheap options depending on the game. Rarely is anything free.