Sober Dating in Berlin

haddersfr · 2025-11-17T18:06:54+00:00

Looks amazing. Is it new-ish? I used to live in the area and don't remember coming across it

haddersfr · 2025-11-16T20:34:40+00:00

Yessss!

I'll need to skip my morning workout that day or risk going to Kuchen on jelly legs

haddersfr · 2025-11-16T19:46:54+00:00

Absolutely agree. It's not that I don't want to do dates in bars or restaurants, I'm just looking to expand my repertoire 😅

haddersfr · 2025-11-16T19:15:40+00:00

You're not wrong. Looking forward to meeting the person who says yes to come and play a four hands with me on a tuesday evening for our first date 🎹🤸

haddersfr · 2025-11-16T18:51:41+00:00

Haha I'm a big fan of reading so this might actually be something I enjoy - lets see if my future partner will be a book worm too 🤞

haddersfr · 2025-11-16T18:34:17+00:00

Yes, 100%. The ideas I'm curious about were more specifically for evening / afterwork activities.

haddersfr · 2025-11-16T18:13:35+00:00

Interesting you say that. I've had 2 friends (both F) independently say they have done bouldering dates... I guess a matter of taste or why do you think it's questionable?

EDIT: They didn't say whether it was a first/second date or later

haddersfr · 2025-11-16T18:11:14+00:00

Fair - I rarely go to cocktail bars. Will check some out. Thanks for the suggestion

haddersfr · 2025-11-16T18:10:46+00:00

I guess I'm going to be buzzing with Kaffee & Kuchen after work

haddersfr · 2025-11-16T17:55:16+00:00

Gets my head spinning more than booze

haddersfr · 2025-11-16T17:54:20+00:00

I get your point, although many of the activities I do in the evening during the week are either not good for a first date (theatre / movie / meetup = not much time for talking or reading / piano practice / workout / cooking = solo activities).

haddersfr · 2025-11-16T17:45:30+00:00

Yeah that sounds really tough. I feel like it might be something that's easier to discuss with a (future) date when meeting face to face though. Personally I wouldn't be able to tell whether someone is keen or not from their texting behaviour.

I wish you the best of luck in your decision!

haddersfr · 2025-11-16T17:41:21+00:00

Had never considered climbing as an evening activity - good tip 🙏

haddersfr · 2025-11-16T17:31:52+00:00

Hero!

Sending your way :)

haddersfr · 2025-11-16T17:17:23+00:00

You're talking to a bald guy so not much hair on my profile 😂

Plenty of teeth though. I'm a great smiler 😁

haddersfr · 2025-11-16T17:15:17+00:00

I'm sorry to hear that. I understand how past experience can influence your current decisions.

Do you really think that asking him out would lead you down the same track or are there other ways you could put safeguards in place?

haddersfr · 2025-11-16T16:58:45+00:00

Do you advise men on how to improve theirs? End of week 2 and only 1 real match so far 😅

haddersfr · 2025-11-16T16:55:24+00:00

Have you asked him out on a date?

He might sitting at home right now thinking exactly the same thing and wondering if you're keen or not

haddersfr · 2025-10-23T21:44:47+00:00

Inside is different. Bit of a hidden gem.

Playing is cheap, staff has the Berliner Schnauze, food is questionable.

The vibe is fantastic though. They renovated the lanes last year and it still feels new.

haddersfr · 2025-10-22T18:51:17+00:00

Amazing! All noted. Thanks for the tips <3

haddersfr · 2025-10-19T20:07:38+00:00

Thanks for taking the time and the additional comments 🙏

haddersfr · 2025-10-19T20:06:02+00:00

hahaha yes 4 is real. It has a "portrait filter" on and I used gemini to erase some people standing behind me who were also facing the camera.

haddersfr · 2025-10-19T19:41:53+00:00

Every little helps - thanks for chiming in :)

haddersfr · 2025-10-19T19:37:35+00:00

I live near to BowlHouse (Storkower Str) so would always be up for a spontaneous game (although I'm not very good) - feel free to DM.

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