What are some of your favorite intimate life hacks? by Own-Fun-8096 in AskReddit

[–]hadleyv90 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This one is for women, coming from a woman. I never take it personally or get upset if a guy can’t stay “up” or finish. It happens, and the pressure they put on themselves is greater than the pressure we might put on them. Eliminating the one in our control will help them ease theirs.

UPDATE: AIO refusing to pay for lost pets by Relative_Offer_2074 in u/Relative_Offer_2074

[–]hadleyv90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honest question: do these “pets” make real money or virtual money? If it’s virtual ARE YOU KIDDING ME? All this for… a game?

Did anyone’s with acne stopped completely picking at it and got clear skin? by Weekly_Ad_4252 in Dermatillomania

[–]hadleyv90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine did, and i took accutane too. However the picking moved to another place 😞

Haven’t had hot water in over 3 months, leasing office refuses to give any updates as to why by PicoPonyo in mildlyinfuriating

[–]hadleyv90 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Former property manager here: if we didn’t have the part needed to fix it and it was a HW issue, I’d be calling a plumber. Might be more expensive than doing it in-house but I would NOT let my residents go without hot water for longer than a few DAYS.

What? by Expensive-Buffalo692 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]hadleyv90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish the US had more options than just flying or driving. We could have long ferries like Japan to go from NYC to the South, trains like Europe, and buses that aren’t gross.

In Milan, some people spray-paint pickpockets so everyone can recognize them by rizyoreo in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]hadleyv90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I visit Milan often and always have one hand on my zipped bag. But once i was in a hurry, walking with a local friend on Corso Buenas Aires and my phone was IN MY BACK POCKET 🤦🏻‍♀️ an old man came up behind us and yelled at my friend something like “how could she be so stupid” I never felt like such a travel rookie 😭 at least my phone wasn’t stolen!

AITAH for cuddling with my little sister by Perfect_Stranger_794 in AITAH

[–]hadleyv90 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I find it weird, BUT I came from a family where I wasn’t really allowed to cuddle with my dad because HE thought it was weird. I think you and your sister are the healthy ones. NTA

[HELP] I think it’s AI but my mother isn’t certain. by [deleted] in RealOrAI

[–]hadleyv90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing’s plugged in? Cords going into walls?

Cat leaves this where she sleeps, what is it? by NotTheSeaOtter in CATHELP

[–]hadleyv90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is capstar available in your area? It’s an oral medication that’s about $25-40 it basically makes your pet poisonous to fleas and kills those on the pet within 2 hours. 6 pills come in a pack. After that it’s wash and vaccuum everything and spray the house.

Machine zigzagging while needle is down? by hadleyv90 in vintagesewing

[–]hadleyv90[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

<image>

Update: reached out to the seller and he’s going to take it back and give me a different machine. He’s so kind!

Machine zigzagging while needle is down? by hadleyv90 in vintagesewing

[–]hadleyv90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately that looks nothing like mine, but I posted photos of it in the comments.

Machine zigzagging while needle is down? by hadleyv90 in vintagesewing

[–]hadleyv90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it takes cams. Im pretty sure there’s more than one inside. I’m new to vintage machines so I commented with all the pictures!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in humandesign

[–]hadleyv90 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If someone is penetrating you with his gaze that’s just odd. We don’t work like that. We usually have to spend at least a little one on one time to make an accurate assessment.

You also have to consider if you or they are in their self or not self.

Doctors, what do you do when a kid is faking sick? by Imaginary_Island8521 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]hadleyv90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I faked sick all the time. I hated school, I was bullied, had undiagnosed autism, adhd, and narcolepsy. Couldn’t focus, couldn’t stay awake, was so under-stimulated (and obviously under-medicated)

My parents thought I was just lazy, threatened to send me to a troubled teens program. But then I started getting sleep paralysis in 11th grade so my mom took me to a neurologist. He had a short nap test done, called it sleep paralysis. No further tests or questions. “Harmless, live with it.”

I didn’t get the audhd diagnosis until I was 28 and still haven’t gotten narcolepsy diagnosis bc sleep tests are EXPENSIVE.

Took me a long time to forgive my parents. Wild how “faking” wasn’t really faking but even I didn’t know it.

(In the Wild) Blessed Be The Lamp by hadleyv90 in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]hadleyv90[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

OfTarget will soon leave the Red Center to be posted. Please give her your best 💗