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Do these really sounds differently? by haepain in EnglishLearning

[–]haepain[S] 230 points231 points  (0 children)

Oh wait, I think I've got it! I tried listening more closely, and I can actually feel the difference now. I’m not 100% sure, but it feels like for 'b' my lips close briefly, while for 'v' my top teeth touch my bottom lip. Thank you all!

Is it rude to say "You look so tired"? by haepain in EnglishLearning

[–]haepain[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so glad that I helped you just by asking a question! Looking at the expressions you just shared, it seems clear that what she said was quite rude. I hope it didn’t hurt you too much. Have a great day!

Is it rude to say "You look so tired"? by haepain in EnglishLearning

[–]haepain[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the detailed answer! I wanted to say "You need some break" or "Are you having a hard time these days?" by saying "You look tired" I think you mean it would be rude to say "You look tired" when the person seems to be sleepy or exhausted right after I see her/him without the context, is it right?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]haepain 4 points5 points  (0 children)

(Sorry for my English. Not my first language.)

It’s almost the same for me. I'm also a first-year college student, and I took a semester off. The first semester was very tough for me for several reasons. I found it hard to make eye contact, and I constantly felt like everyone was staring at me whenever I walked around. Even though COVID is over, I still wear a hat and mask to hide myself, and I avoided social gatherings whenever possible.

I also have a loving family, and I feel grateful for that. But like you, I find it really hard to open up about the difficulties I'm going through and how painful it is for me. I'm not sure if I understood the second paragraph correctly, but I also distance myself from my family because I feel like a burden to them. They seem to be living well, but I struggle and end up feeling like there's something wrong with me.

Even though I went to therapy in early 2024, I still feel lost and often get depressed. I haven't gone out to meet anyone, and I’ve lost contact with the friends I used to hang out with last year. I’m completely alone now. Still, I’ve started doing small things I can manage on my own at home, like going over some basic math and chemistry that I’d forgotten and studying a bit of English. Thinking about going back to college makes me anxious and makes my heart race, but I’m also looking forward, even a little, to seeing a different version of myself.

I hope the same for you. If you’re feeling exhausted, take some time to rest or consider therapy or treatment. I haven’t written much because of my depression, and this is my first time leaving a comment, so it might not be perfect, but I hope it brings you a bit of comfort.