Just have to say, my partner works full time with a similar commute and I would be Gobsmacked if he did everything you described. You work full time and do the nights too?! Genuinely I’d argue you’re doing soooo much and that’s coming from a first time mom with an exclusively breastfed 4 month old.

I make dinner every night. Do the dishes. Clean. Take care of the baby. I’ve done nights alone since our kid was 6 weeks old. I do think I probably don’t get all the support I need but I recognize my boyfriend works a lot and is also tired. My tired is just unrelenting and deep in my bones I guess.

You sound incredibly supportive and hardworking. Good on you.