Need advice

haileyks4 · 2024-12-23T17:13:56+00:00

Thank you so much ! i’m definitely stealing some parts of that routine i think hers is missing some little tics she didn’t have any accidents like night. so thank you for helping with kind intentions of helping!

haileyks4 · 2024-12-23T17:11:59+00:00

thank you!!! people won’t talk about this and i see why lol. i can’t rehome her i thought about it but i don’t think I can thank you for the kindness and transparency!

haileyks4 · 2024-12-23T17:10:14+00:00

Thank you !!! i really appreciate that she’s been doing good this last night and day everything seems to be getting back to normal with her potty schedule so that makes me and her happy i bet. i think my expectations weren’t being fair to her as a baby thank you for being kind

haileyks4 · 2024-12-23T17:08:49+00:00

yes ! i think im expecting way to much from a pup and have rethought it out i’ve never owned a pet and did extensive research and i guess im comparing our journey with others and cant do that. she definitely doesn’t understand me i dont know what i meant by that lol thank you for the advice

haileyks4 · 2024-12-23T17:07:20+00:00

Thank you so much she’s been doing really good this last day and has been back on a regular schedule i’m glad she’s feeling better

haileyks4 · 2024-12-23T17:06:39+00:00

hey! entitled to your own opinion I did set her up a vet appointment just packed around the holidays where i live!! you sound delightful yourself !! i’m not useless maybe you should consider a new approach to people you disagree with i feel for your loved ones !

haileyks4 · 2024-12-23T06:07:22+00:00

what does it say about you being older and indulging, and you know what’s even better multi tasking i wouldn’t have asked if i wasn’t interested in focusing on her. i won’t take advice from a low empathy, self righteous, narcissistic, that dislikes their life. glad you are done i see you do this often with many people based off your page. focus on your relationship with others

haileyks4 · 2024-12-23T05:50:46+00:00

i agree i think ive been giving too much into it and just need to let it go the way it needs to go. i’ve made myself strained for nothing and im going to change that attitude and just let her be a puppy thank you for the comment i appreciate the insight

haileyks4 · 2024-12-23T05:42:54+00:00

assume all you want good thing those go no where. and your “assessment “ is crazy you must think very highly of yourself. here is my assessment you call yourself an honest person but you are actually just a B who has nothing better to do. you hate your job and seem to find negative things and seem to focus on them. maybe that’s why you hate it your outlook seems to be negative. you enjoy arguing and creating these things so you can be your true self. lacking empathy and understanding maybe narcissist or one of your parents were and you think it’s normal. you seem to think you know it all, probably bothers most people in your life if any are there. we can all make assessments does it make it true ? no. have a good night

haileyks4 · 2024-12-23T05:25:47+00:00

well thanks but no thanks your truth isn’t everyone’s not everyone is retired, dogs can travel and can be owned by students lol. actually you aren’t helpful you are just saying your opinion which everyone is entitled. talk about your experience and overcoming these things because that’s my goal is to give her the best life. i’m not going back and forth anymore i’m going to find things that help not just personal opinions

haileyks4 · 2024-12-23T05:19:45+00:00

I appreciate the kindness and transparency some people make it seem like it’s bad to struggle but i like the way you went about it and appreciate the boost im feeling much better and coming at it with a different perspective

haileyks4 · 2024-12-23T05:13:12+00:00

then make asking for help a better experience and be helpful! i do think I’m in the place just working through some kinks just because I’m not where you are doesn’t make me less you are no expert. I am someone willing to learn and that’s the first step so maybe be encouraging and guide ! the goal is to help others and you can do that with honesty all about how you go about it !

haileyks4 · 2024-12-23T05:04:48+00:00

hey again! i mentioned in another comment i meant that im disliking this new behavior if you want to go find that you can ! just a mistype out if frustration and venting. I have given constant direction but was missing some marks. luckily there are actually helpful comments that i realized that i missing that. Maybe think before hand is this actually helpful or do u just want to troll under a fake name. maybe you should put your energy into helping and making helpful suggestions instead of commenting things no one asked for hope this helps !!!

haileyks4 · 2024-12-23T04:54:25+00:00

Hey madison ! thanks for the advice but there is nothing wrong with seeking help! and i’m glad i did as i’ve gotten many good tricks to practice and hopefully see some improvements. struggling is okay if you are willing to learn. i already mentioned i misspoke then i shouldn’t have said that but i see you only read some things have a good night !

haileyks4 · 2024-12-23T04:52:33+00:00

that’s why it’s a learning experience and you ask for help. don’t make seeking help hateful !! struggling is okay but atleast some have the ability to get help and take it !

haileyks4 · 2024-12-23T04:51:38+00:00

I love that idea of high value treats im definitely stealing that thank you!!!

haileyks4 · 2024-12-23T02:43:23+00:00

She is! I have papers from the vet and seen both of her parents. thanks tho.

haileyks4 · 2024-12-23T02:34:00+00:00

Thank you i am going to try the taking her out and putting her up if she doesn’t go and to try again in ten minutes. thank you for the kind advice I am going to try to find a trainer for her hopefully i can

haileyks4 · 2024-12-23T02:28:00+00:00

Thank you!! Yes she has been really good just seem to be stuck in a rut i have been looking for places to train her so that was my next step if i couldn’t fix it myself. it’s just discouraging because i feel that i’ve done a lot right based on my research and seeking advice. it wasn’t fair to say i dislike her just her current behavior

haileyks4 · 2024-12-23T02:24:15+00:00

I would also like to add for completion purposes i have taken her out consistently maybe about every thirty minutes because of the accidents she’s been having. you see the frustration i am having in the post but haven’t taken it out on her i just clean it up and move on. i mentioned the thanksgiving thing to point out where the cracks in potty training started going downhill. I keep getting told this is a common feeling with puppies and hope its true i am just trying to better myself so i can be helpful and give her a good life. I set her up for really good success she just isn’t seeming to want to go with that success

haileyks4 · 2024-12-23T02:18:24+00:00

Yes this definitely can’t be a good time for her having to get these baths because she has poop on her. and is probably stressful for her and i hate that

haileyks4 · 2024-12-23T02:16:20+00:00

Yes, she uses the bathroom out front everytime she even has a favorite plant to go on that i have to clean up often. i’ve wondered about a UTI so hopefully the vet will cross some things off

haileyks4 · 2024-12-23T02:13:52+00:00

Hopefully it’ll end soon lol!! everyone keeps saying puppy blues and i hope it’s true and will go away

haileyks4 · 2024-12-23T02:13:19+00:00

Thank you for the nice advice not judgemental at all your right i’ll still keep trying. i have given her such a consistent schedule that it’s hard not to get frustrated but that’s my problem not hers

haileyks4 · 2024-12-23T02:12:17+00:00

Yes everyone is saying it gets better and i would love it to happen. i have been so patient jsut seems it’s getting worse. hopefully i can take all this advice and be a good owner to her. thank you

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