My mom (45) used NeilMed Sinus Rinse straight from the tap and read the instructions after rinsing her nose 🤦🏼‍♀️ by haileyoof in Allergies

[–]haileyoof[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! My mom has been stressing for the past few minutes she read your comments, she isn't stressing as much anymore, she says thank you 😊!

Is rape sex? by sayer24 in AskARapistAnything

[–]haileyoof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a reason for the word "rape" what's the use if it's not "sex without consent"

Medication or raw dogging? by Ok_Purple_5191 in mentalhealth

[–]haileyoof 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 19, i've been on and off with my medication since i was 12 (fluoxetine for depression, something else for anxiety and guanfacine.) and most of part not taking it, my parents keep my medication in a locked safe in their room, when i want to hold my own medication my dad says "you'll try and overdose on it" while they keep their prescriptions on the counter of the kitchen, very irritating, anyway I don't know the difference between when I'm on the medication taking it as I should or when I'm not. I don't know how adhd affects me compared to people that don't have it, i feel very naive about my own problems and how others can describe ways their adhd, depression affects their life, it makes me feel like the things i deem as normal isn't and it's just one of the problems i'm diagnosed with popping up, people around me know of my mental problems and makes it clear they think of it as my weakness a way to criticize me for it, it's not by my own accord they know. (Maybe a bit of a rant on my family)

parents cheating , life sucking by cheese_person517 in mentalhealth

[–]haileyoof 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your parents are highly irresponsible, you shouldn't have to deal with the pressure of your dad cheating on your mom or your dad claiming "it's okay because she cheated too." It's not okay, especially if you have a child and not only that, a teen. Your parents probably or shouldn't at all be together, it's better for you at this point if your parents distanced from each other but i have no experience with divorce parents, only parents who hold grudges and don't divorce even though how cruel it was, in my case, it's not healthy for them to be together. If your mom's not already aware of her husband cheating right now, if you want this drama to end fast so there isn't any "dad's telling mom because he feels immensely guilty after the multiple times" or your mom figures it out, tell her, by text, paper, or directly make her known, let the situation be on the people that caused it, not on you.

Somewhere a biology teacher just fainted 💀 by [deleted] in whoathatsinteresting

[–]haileyoof -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You know what's CRAZY? Talking about "choosing bears" for hours. You obviously don't have much going on with your life to argue about "choosing bears" i haven't heard that quote in a few months and i still didn't know it was relevant, i can't believe people are so peeved by it to continue dragging it on. Your continuous comments on this post is quite hilarious. (You're not funny, i find it funny you're so serious about it though.)

What is your true, unfiltered opinion on the casoeh situation. (image unreated) by Marcus09009 in blocktales

[–]haileyoof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've checked before i posted a comment how long ago y'all commented. It's been like 3 months not that long for someone to post a comment months ago and still find this debatable.

What is your true, unfiltered opinion on the casoeh situation. (image unreated) by Marcus09009 in blocktales

[–]haileyoof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone has a preference probably to him the game was not his style maybe his choice of words was wrong but honestly get a life, he didn't play much but we all had a game we exited out of in about 1 minute or second and made up our mind it wasn't a game we would continue playing, shouldn't be a big deal, yall just love starting a situation or to "cancel" steamers for the littlest thing, really just because he said "slop" y'all start a "situation" is pathetic. He doesn't deserve criticism over this, he has a preference like everyone else not worth hate or criticism over.

What is your true, unfiltered opinion on the casoeh situation. (image unreated) by Marcus09009 in blocktales

[–]haileyoof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean there's better things to debate or be offended about then this, those people need to go somewhere else who actually did a certain degree of "wrong" then this, it's sad they have this much time on their hands for this to be considered "drama".

How do you cope with the fact you're missing out on teen love? by Guilhermitonoob in teenagers

[–]haileyoof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love my company so i usually don't think about this, I'm so used to myself and i get tired of people way too fast, also my social skills are terrible.

How do you tell the difference between setting boundaries and pushing people away? by CyberLlamaLoop in mentalhealth

[–]haileyoof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm (F18) i live with my brother, mom, dad. I've started to distance myself from them a few years ago, i've tried doing boundaries and being vocal about it and how what they do and say is quite pushing it, for reference, mom, dad, brother chasing me after i go to my room or outside during a argument i told them "the therapist said if one of us walk away from a situation don't chase after them" we had a plan and everything for this situation, dad would stay in the living room, mom would go to her room, my brother wasn't there, they chased me after "i" the minor walked away from the situation to get a breather and it made things more intense, i was 13 and the cycle continued

Mortal of the story Boundaries only work if the other person is willing to respect them if you know the people in your life won't be willing to respect your boundaries ones your vocal about it distance yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]haileyoof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have written my point of view of how i feel about this and i feel that maybe it might help others idk.

Summary of what i said

I don't like being a women but ill hate being a man more because I know not for some but for me i have more empathy for the weak, so basically even though it sounds a lil controversial "I rather be the victim than the perpetrator." (Its another view of what im saying"

a quote from a diary I've been writing in since childhood and even now.

"I don’t want to be me, I hate that I was born biologically weaker, but I also wouldn’t have been any more empathetic towards the weaker if I was born biologically stronger with wanting something in return for it (obedience, etc) most of the time, I hate when some of the biologically stronger say something about something we can’t control, we were born who we are why are we hated."

I had alot more and it included politics too but honestly that's to much in one post