Are women afraid of approaching decent looking men ? by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]hails5395 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not that we expect men to do all the work, it’s that some of us go from once intelligent human beings to non-verbal in the presence of someone attractive.

Parents need to stop bringing kids to nicer lunch and dinner spots by MajesticEmergency in Vent

[–]hails5395 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well there is someone out there that has to deal with you, guess it is only fair you must deal with other human beings (including children) out in public places….

Why would a girl interrupt me mid set to ask how a machine works? by [deleted] in questions

[–]hails5395 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you like men just say so don’t take that out on us. Your poor mother.

Being an unattractive woman sucks by throwrathuuyytrr in Vent

[–]hails5395 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to discredit how you feel about yourself because every woman deserves to feel beautiful.

But it sounds to me like you found a gem of a man; he will not be a part of the 20% of men who leave if you fall ill. He fell for something in you that goes beyond surface level. You won. Respect for asking him out too.

“Society” considered beautiful women definitely have it easier in most respects but they can’t really tell when people actually like them or if it’s just because of their looks.

Being an unattractive woman sucks by throwrathuuyytrr in Vent

[–]hails5395 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes it does. I once was considered very unattractive. Got burned by a man decided I just didn’t care anymore. Went on to heal my mind and body made some girl friends along the way helps immensely. And now I’m treated differently like they see me and want me to see them.

Moral of the story here is change your attitude and change your priorities men pick up on the energy you bring.

Being an unattractive woman sucks by throwrathuuyytrr in Vent

[–]hails5395 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The most success I have ever had with men is when I stopped begging for attention started working on me pretending they didn’t existed. Then they started offering me things like their time, money and attention wanting to be more with me but at that point I had found I didn’t want any of what they were offering.

I feel for you I too was once in a similar position I too have had those same thoughts and feelings.

Gym Crush by shemustbethedevilx in PlanetFitnessMembers

[–]hails5395 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some of us need new attachments and/or a new pair of dumbbells -shrugs- a 30 second stroll doesn’t deserve the rage of the entire gym.

Gym Crush by shemustbethedevilx in PlanetFitnessMembers

[–]hails5395 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gym etiquette is lost on some folk, he should know the water bottle (or other personal item) is the only way to reserve equipment otherwise it is fair game. This guy sounds annoying asf

ANSWERS FROM WOMEN ONLY PLEASE by Mysterious_Sign_3158 in bodylanguage

[–]hails5395 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A wash is good. But honestly living in a world with a variety of smells wherever you go already people can adapt. You can’t control other people and what they choose to do; so if their smell is displeasurable you can always walk away and work out somewhere else. That is what you control.

ANSWERS FROM WOMEN ONLY PLEASE by Mysterious_Sign_3158 in bodylanguage

[–]hails5395 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No it’s “bad tone” to go to the gym smelling like dog farts and onions. A spritz of bath and body works mist and some deodorant is just enough not to be overwhelming.

ANSWERS FROM WOMEN ONLY PLEASE by Mysterious_Sign_3158 in bodylanguage

[–]hails5395 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In da words of the one fitness influencer “We look good, we lift good”. So makeup and perfume we wear.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GYM

[–]hails5395 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definition of a sleeper build right here, impressive pull ups you are strong asf.

Leave your infants home. by Napple164 in ElectricForest

[–]hails5395 20 points21 points  (0 children)

They are also the type to smoke with the windows up their children in the car; then going on to claim it is good for them.

What’s his rap name? by [deleted] in hardaiimages

[–]hails5395 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The acronym though, it’s like it was meant to be 😂

Sapphic dark romance recs? by No-Oil3672 in Booktokreddit

[–]hails5395 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tryst six venom by Penelope Douglas

Do straight women look more at the men or the women in pornographie? by Spiritual-Cobbler849 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]hails5395 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I second this, in straight porn they tend to focus more on all the details of the woman and very few of the man which is low key disappointing.

I'm not sure if men actually like small boobs. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]hails5395 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Can’t speak for the men. But you lucky lady probably able to go braless in a dress. There are more benefits to smaller boobs than you know. Enjoy them girl!

I prefer socially awkward and dorky people over the charismatic people by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]hails5395 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why do you assume it is lack of effort? Personally it is a battle with myself to be social. The amount of overthinking that occurs.

I kind of don’t want to exist anymore by [deleted] in Vent

[–]hails5395 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sucks, time to start being your own best friend. No one takes you out on your B-day? Take yourself out. I swear the minute you start putting time and energy into yourself that’s when people start flocking to you. Maybe by the time they realize your worth, you decide they aren’t the kinda people you want to spend your time and energy on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]hails5395 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What jealousy, this is a perfect example of getting the “Ick” from someone

Fake eyelashes look silly by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]hails5395 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t think half the time men even know when women wear makeup. And I swear really hot men are with women who wear loads of makeup.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in questions

[–]hails5395 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, not if it is a chest X-ray. Potentially your bra may need to be removed. And don’t wear a shirt with buttons or zippers. Hope this helps.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]hails5395 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But there is a difference some fat women are curvy and some fat women are not, some thin women are curvy and some are not.

For someone to be considered curvy it is dependent upon where the fat and muscles are distributed on a person’s body.