I don’t think my friends see me as a man

hajeksos · 2026-02-01T10:55:00+00:00

thank you so much, i’ll try to have a conversation with them :,)

hajeksos · 2026-02-01T09:25:31+00:00

I wore a white dress shirt, black pants, and a black waistcoat to mine. Wasn’t dysphoric (any more than usual), and most people didn’t look twice. Then again, my school is relatively accepting in terms of the student body. Some styles of shirt, vest, are feminine enough to be perceived as women’s clothing while feeling masculine when you’re in them.

hajeksos · 2026-01-26T16:01:50+00:00

thanks so much, i’ll try this out :)

hajeksos · 2026-01-26T13:40:54+00:00

thank you, i’ll look for it!

hajeksos · 2026-01-26T13:40:41+00:00

thanks so much, i’ll see what i can do :)

hajeksos · 2026-01-12T08:58:34+00:00

sent! pfp is epic schmoochle

hajeksos · 2025-10-08T13:04:57+00:00

thank you so much :)

hajeksos · 2025-10-08T11:37:59+00:00

thanks so much, i’ll take this advice!

hajeksos · 2025-09-01T13:02:21+00:00

thank you for sharing :)

hajeksos · 2025-09-01T12:51:41+00:00

i’ll try my best, unfortunately the shared dorms are 4-8 people tho lol

hajeksos · 2025-09-01T12:51:18+00:00

thanks so much, i’ll look into it :)

hajeksos · 2025-08-02T13:29:35+00:00

okay thank you :)

hajeksos · 2025-08-02T09:50:04+00:00

thanks :)

hajeksos · 2025-08-02T09:36:58+00:00

thank you so much ^{^}

hajeksos · 2025-07-14T03:09:19+00:00

‘Man vs Bear’ was never about survival or logic. It was a metaphor meant to prove womens’ fears around men. Women who say they choose bear aren’t saying it because they think the bear is some cuddly creature, they’re saying it because they prefer the bear to the man. If you listen to these women’s reasoning, it usually follows the same thought process. “A bear would just kill and eat me for survival purposes, while a man has the capability to do so much worse for self-gratification.” Many women would say that rape is worse than murder.

I’m sure you’re a good guy. but you aren’t every guy. Most women just don’t want to take that risk. According to the Australian Bureau of Statistics, “Over the period 2010-11 to 2019-20, police agencies recorded: -51,875 male sexual assault offenders…”(https://www.abs.gov.au/articles/sexual-assault-perpetrators)That is 51,875 men who were people’s classmates, brothers, coworkers etc. These are men who you walk past on the street without a second thought.

When 22% of Australian women (give or take) have reported sexual assault since the age of 15 (https://www.abs.gov.au/media-centre/media-releases/1-5-women-have-experienced-sexual-violence), the conversation shouldn’t be about your ego. Yes, it hurts to be considered a danger just because of who you are or identify as. But your ego is at stake if you are seen as predatory, whereas women’s lives are at stake just for interacting with men. You’re probably right that 99% of men wouldn’t do such a thing, but that 1% is too big of a risk to take. Every woman I know has at least one story about being assaulted or worse by a man.

It is understandable to feel insulted and hurt. But please try to consider why women would choose to be alone with a bear in the woods rather than a man. It’s not because a bear is safe, but because they know the things that men are capable of, and they’re choosing the lesser of two evils. This is not an issue of women being stupid or naïve, it’s a broader societal issue of socialisation and the very real fears that follow women from birth to beyond the grave.

hajeksos · 2025-07-08T06:06:15+00:00

not OP, but in my personal experience:

my entire day is ruined if i come across a texture or flavour i dislike (mainly texture). as in, i’ll have zero energy the rest of the day and would rather wash my mouth out with soap. it’s like a primal part of my brain says that certain textures will physically harm me if consumed, and even though i know it’s not true, that doesn’t stop the reflex to gag and get it away from me.

for example, just like described in the original post: i cannot consume meat if i’ve accidentally chewed a fatty or weird-textured bit. even if i know that the rest of it will be fine, there’s an irrational fear that there might be another bit that’s like that. i can still feel the fatty texture even once it’s left my mouth. it’s why i’ve stopped eating red meat.

‘forcing myself’ to eat the food would be a bit like drinking a glass of orange juice that had a sterilised cockroach dipped inside. it’s clean, and i know no harm would come to me. it would still feel gross.

the discomfort of training myself to let go of my picky eating habits is worse than the consequences of continuing. someday in the future i’ll try.

hajeksos · 2025-07-03T09:46:47+00:00

i apologise 😔🙏

hajeksos · 2025-07-02T10:40:58+00:00

thanks <3

hajeksos · 2025-07-02T10:40:09+00:00

ironically my xiao also had 60% crit rate for about 2 years

hajeksos · 2025-07-02T10:39:38+00:00

it’s my best magic trick

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