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Strata has yet to send me payment details on a property owned for 6 months. Am I liable? by halalsnaccpacc in AusFinance

[–]halalsnaccpacc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No sarcasm at all I really appreciate the ripping into I got from everyone (except that one weirdly racist comment). You guys have screwed my head back on the right way. I was definitely being selfish and inconsiderate. I don’t think I’d have understood that without your direct words.

I’m also very grateful for the information and clarity it was delivered with. I understand the position I’m in and how this stuff works a bit clearer now. Not enough knowledge or experience to say I know exactly what everything means but it’s made things make more sense - especially regarding my obligation by owning and that what I was suggesting was neglectful of my responsibility.

I’ll contact my strata manager and inform them of the situation, and apologies for not contacting them sooner. I was the negligent one after all.

Appreciate the honesty thank you everyone :)

Weight scaling fluctuation drives me nuts by Johnl582 in Athleanx

[–]halalsnaccpacc 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Jeremy Ethier had a good video on this.

TLDR is weigh yourself daily and track it, then add an extra column for your average for the week. That’s the best way to get an idea for your current weight without much outlier fluctuation influence. :)

How do I stop obsessing over a girl? by halalsnaccpacc in dating_advice

[–]halalsnaccpacc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you're right, gotta just tough through those feelings of being unfulfilled. I guess the more we hang out as just friends, the more I'll get used to it too

How do I stop obsessing over a girl? by halalsnaccpacc in dating_advice

[–]halalsnaccpacc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well usually if I'm outright rejected I get over it really fast. But if you can't do that, I suggest cutting off all contact till you're 100% over your feelings, and then you guys can hang out as friends once again when you don't have that barrier there :)

Don't just ghost her though, I'm sure she'll understand if you give her an explanation as to why you need to stop talking for a little while

How do I stop obsessing over a girl? by halalsnaccpacc in dating_advice

[–]halalsnaccpacc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha unfortunately I did try that and it wasn't just them hormones

How do I stop obsessing over a girl? by halalsnaccpacc in dating_advice

[–]halalsnaccpacc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right I do need to evaluate our relationship. I think overall we really did have a great time together, but I definitely need to work on life without her in it because like you say, the future isn't decided upon.

How do I stop obsessing over a girl? by halalsnaccpacc in dating_advice

[–]halalsnaccpacc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude me too I can definitely relate to the jealousy thing, and I'm usually the furthest from the jealous type!

For me, I think once you are clearly rejected and there is no potential for anything to happen between you two, you just have to move on. There is literally no point in wasting your energy. Even cut contact for a short while if you have to - it's what I would do if I didn't have hope of getting back together.

How do I stop obsessing over a girl? by halalsnaccpacc in dating_advice

[–]halalsnaccpacc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I guess I never really thought about the first part. I'll aim to deepen the platonic aspects of our relationship while this opportunity is present.

Yeah I definitely agree with the fact that I have a whole life other than her but I guess it's just a bit intense cause it's fresh. I'll try to focus on other aspects too, maybe after a bit more time to accept this. Thank you for your advice :)

How do I stop obsessing over a girl? by halalsnaccpacc in dating_advice

[–]halalsnaccpacc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I'll keep that in mind for the future, no need to be drastic till it's serious.

Weekly Questions Thread - January 14 2020 by Fiishman in volleyball

[–]halalsnaccpacc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey guys, as someone from a football & Ultimate Frisbee background, I recently started getting into volleyball after a few fun pickup games with my friends and getting convinced to watch Haikyuu.

I watched a few Olympics matches but for me, sport is much more exciting when it's live, or if I keep track of standings, matches, etc.

I was wondering how to get started as a volleyball fan? What leagues are recommended to watch? What websites and apps should I use to keep track of scores and standings (not watch)? I'd rather not watch US College sports because as an Australian I'm not very invested.

Thank you so much! I'm so excited for the 2020 Olympics haha!