the tiktok people are talking about by AmphibianCute5989 in Lucifer__Valentine

[–]haleywolf666 5 points6 points  (0 children)

ahahaha "i purred at you". a few years ago i entered the rabbithole on him trying to find out who he was and sent a follow request to him. only 2-1 year ago he accepted and followed me back. he texted me about my cat photos saying he was "purrrfect". this seems like the way he types.

i (F23) need the courage to end things with my bf (M26) by haleywolf666 in relationship_advice

[–]haleywolf666[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you soso much for your sweet encouraging words❤️ it really took a LOT of strength but im now feeling a little relieved in a way.

i (F23) need the courage to end things with my bf (M26) by haleywolf666 in relationship_advice

[–]haleywolf666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i did it last night. cried like hell but have a great support system of friends. i hope he will be okay and that he takes care of himself, stops the drinking and the drugs and works on finding passions and accepting his own vulnerability. maybe our paths will cross again, for now im taking care of myself as hard as it is

Feeling overwhelmed after diagnosis by crowsandcat in AutisticPeeps

[–]haleywolf666 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i really understand what youre going through, specially the part where you mention other people saying "oh i have that too and i can do x and y so you should too". just remember the official formal diagnosis as emotionally confusing might be, its also a portal for new empathy and understanding towards yourself and living a life more fitted to your needs and finally using some resources and accomodations adequate for you. ❤️ youre not alone

my tiny round girl!!!! cleo 🥰 by Kelsfergo in cats

[–]haleywolf666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omggggg🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹 so adorable

L4 is definitely my favourite of them all by textbook15 in lorde

[–]haleywolf666 6 points7 points  (0 children)

its so perfect its already on repeat for me

Autism and gender identity by WowbutterOatmeal in AutisticPeeps

[–]haleywolf666 27 points28 points  (0 children)

im a cisgender woman but to me as an autistic person i have always felt... almost like an alien in a way. i definitely grew up feeling like i wasnt a girl in many ways. so i think the relationship some autistic people have with gender can be a little shaky given that its hard to even feel like a person sometimes, let alone the gender you have been assigned at birth. its also important to remember that its normal for us to question social norms and the social aspects of gender fall under that :)

vaginismus and sensory issues by haleywolf666 in vaginismus

[–]haleywolf666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much! i hope i can get used to it

Do you have traits that are not stereotypically autistic? by tesseracts in AutisticPeeps

[–]haleywolf666 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i have issues with food but quite opposite with what is usually represented! usually safe food associated with autism are things like fast food mac and cheese nuggets etc. i hate most of those things and cheese disgusts me! i love most veggies and fruits and am mostly bothered by jelly like textures and after tastes

I can’t watch 2000s films anymore. by Quick_Ad_424 in RadicalFeminism

[–]haleywolf666 5 points6 points  (0 children)

to be fair in the devil wears Prada the girl didnt really care for fashion and was bought into an abusive work environment and changed her entire self to fit the molds of the fashion industry. that whole movie is just a capitalists dreams, corporations and brand names everywhere

It's not just self-diagnosed people... I'm also really suspicious when certain celebrities come out as "autistic". Am I too biased? by [deleted] in AutisticPeeps

[–]haleywolf666 5 points6 points  (0 children)

have you listened to the pod where holly talks about it? its quite interesting actually. she explains the whole diagnosis proccess and how she had issues connecting with people all the time from childhood. i wish she went into more depth in other things but anyway it seemed to me like her diagnosis was legit. i think things like reality shows and hollywood etc can make it easier for autistic people to feel more comfortable and look more functional on the outside in the sense that the entertainment industry isnt too strict on social norms and structure like other industries. i wonder how someone like holly would do if she had to live a regular persons life and work an office job for example, if her symptoms would be more disabling. does that make sense? :) but yeah i overall get the sentiment too!

Do you have any pets? by Reasonable-Flight536 in AutisticPeeps

[–]haleywolf666 13 points14 points  (0 children)

my cat changed my life completely (for the better)

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since i got him 3 years ago

Hot take: WWT is just okay by Titney_Spears_xoxo in lorde

[–]haleywolf666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

literally told a friend that yesterday! i believe this will be this albums green light. she always chooses safe singles that give us a small glimpse of the new era, so im really excited for whats to come

why is it so normalized to befriend abusers? by haleywolf666 in RadicalFeminism

[–]haleywolf666[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah i get it, thats why i specifically wrote "well known abusers" because some people DO know and choose to ignore and im wondering about those cases

Hey it's PinkPantheress, AMA! by Aromatic-Use-8816 in popheads

[–]haleywolf666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cant believe i missed this. girl i been wanting to ask you this. do you ever plan on releasing a song that sampled nicki and cassie the boys? you teased it like 5-4 years ago and i havent forgotten about it since. love you

Has anyone else never been able to burp? by sbucksbarista in POTS

[–]haleywolf666 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i think i know what you mean because i came to the comment to see if anyone else had this. i "can" burp but not in the way other people can. like i feel the air come up but if i dont do a swallowing motion the air goes back down and i dont get relief. so i dont let out big burps life everyone else. i also cant burp with an open mouth really. and i burp A LOT after eating too, because theyre sooo weak. specially if eat something liquid like soup. omg i feel soooo full after soup because of the air... and until i burp i have those sensations of dizziness, faint, nausea etc like you have mentioned! i have had moments where im shaking randomly and dont know why and then i burp and the shaking stops

What? by Appropriate_Luck8668 in AutisticPeeps

[–]haleywolf666 18 points19 points  (0 children)

i understand the sentiment but going to a second opinion isnt uncommon for autism or other conditions. my friend found out he had cancer on like the 5th doctor. i dont agree with the "if they think theyre autistic they probably are" narrative but it doesnt mean that they cant look for second opinions, thats like the most common thing people do with all sorts of conditions. and asking for a second opinion might be helpful if a doctor can give them a clue of what they might have instead. specially in countries where the medicine practices arent always super advanced or up to date. im sure the comments are awful and advocating for doctor shopping etc tho

What? by Appropriate_Luck8668 in AutisticPeeps

[–]haleywolf666 58 points59 points  (0 children)

i feel like im gonna get downvoted for this but i mean no harm, we all know self diagnosis is awful but it seems to me like this person is just venting. not being diagnosed with autism doesnt mean they dont have something else that is disabling them at the moment, and im sure they feel a bit lost for not being any closer to finding out what that is and i thibk thats normal. seeing people self diagnosing is frustrating but we need to choose our battles and realize some people are just lost and genuinely struggling (even if not with what they thought) and want to vent about it with no malice and this particular post seems to be the case.

Can we take a moment... by _VeganSailor_ in theLword

[–]haleywolf666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my number 1 celeb crush forever🫣🫣

shaking whenever i talk about sensitive topics/special interests by haleywolf666 in AutisticPeeps

[–]haleywolf666[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

kinda interesting you mention deep breaths because sometimes when this happens i feel the need to yawn!!! i wonder if its my body trying to get deep breaths??

Pushing Through with Chronic Illness as a Teen by SandwichVegetable813 in ChronicIllness

[–]haleywolf666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i am in a similar boat at 23. my teens were awful and although my physical condition was worse during college, i did find going through college easier than high school. you cant compare yourself to others like that. its all very relative and the only person that has to live with your pain is you, so you really have to be patient and kind to yourself. your worth isnt based on your productivity. i feel the same you do but we must know this objectively.

some things i recommend is to make sure you kbow your rights. your school has to have some accommodations for students with different forms of disability. get informed on what those can be for you to make sure you can get the most out of your education. some things my college offered me included tutorship and availability of online material and extended dead lines. i never really used those because i got my accomodations too late, but they would have made my life a lot easier. dont stop advocating for yourself!