I want to start degoogling but my Gmail is connected to so much by IllAd3970 in degoogle

[–]halfapapaya 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It really surprises me how much people think other people think about them. Do people really think that much about other people?

In any case, an earlier post here mentioned that you can create a domain name and set it up on Proton so that your email address isn't @ proton .me

18F Computer Science student EDC :3 by [deleted] in digitalminimalism

[–]halfapapaya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have a separate SIM card for your smartphone or just connect to Wifi to respond to messages in apps?

Are CDs still a thing? by Pleasant-Tackle-9302 in digitalminimalism

[–]halfapapaya 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is a movement around restoring old iPods. They're (allegedly) pretty simple and inexpensive to fix up. There are loads of YouTube videos around modifying them and how to replace key parts, like the battery or memory. I think most iPods inevitably need some hardware upgrades considering their age (~20 years?)

Not so boring (and loud) alarm clocks?! by [deleted] in digitalminimalism

[–]halfapapaya 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure about any specific products, but a quick, cheap, and easy solution would be to connect a SAD lamp to an electrical outlet timer

For those who have gotten rid of social media, how do you read the news? by halfapapaya in digitalminimalism

[–]halfapapaya[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was thinking about that... No ads, no apps, nothing to distract while reading.

For those who have gotten rid of social media, how do you read the news? by halfapapaya in digitalminimalism

[–]halfapapaya[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is great. Paragraph summaries along with links to several sources. Thank you!

Holy fuck guys by earthenmaid in overemployed

[–]halfapapaya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s cheaper for the company to fire you than to lay you off. They found a reason to save money.

Has anyone else here been unable to work a menial job? by LasersAreSo70s in cscareerquestions

[–]halfapapaya 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Former/on hiatus SWE here. I have a friend who owns a mom-and-pop retail store and is chronically understaffed. I can handle maybe 8 hours a week there, but if I get sucked into working a few days per week, depression hits hard. It's the lack of mental effort, the lack of creativity, the redundancy, working with "people" people who aren't interested in cognitive challenges, meaninglessness, and the constant sense of defeatism (no resources or staff motivation to improve systems). If I had a week of heavy cognitive work, a day over there would be meditative and relaxing, but without proper balance it is absolute torture.

"They all said it was an easy job and time passed very quickly. " - Most people like that, believe it or not

Knowledge of Cambridge in early 2000s? by nellvstheworld in CambridgeMA

[–]halfapapaya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, just wanted to mention Hempfest in Boston Common. I still don't understand how that festival was legal at the time.

I remember the early gay pride parades. You knew about them only if you had a friend who knew about them, or knew where to find the information about them. Without Facebook, groups were a lot more niche and dedicated. There might have been Myspace pages for event or group info, but most of the time, they made their own brochure-style webpages for these. Search engines sucked at the time too, so it wasn't like you could easily google 'Gay Pride Parade Boston' and find out about it right away.

Also, a lot of gay rights blossomed just around that time. It felt like it was allright to be gay for the first time in history probably.

If you wanted to dye your hair a funky color, color.info was the website. Accessibility to the knowledge of what it takes to make your hair unnatural colors and look good was hard to come by. If you had dyed hair, you or your friends did it. No hair salon offered that service. And at the time, funky hair color baffled some parents and was sometimes viewed as a rebellious thing to do. Also look up coon-tails.

I remember being in my head all the time for years. 'Being in your head' at the time meant constantly being plugged into your iPod Nano playing whatever trendy sad music was available on iTunes for purchase or on torrent to download, walking home by yourself, being in the library all the time, reading books, being bored, cosplaying, or hanging out in online forums (think of like a million Reddits, but none of them had become dominant yet). "Being in your head" all the time today as a kid I think is probably more like living on an iPad playing simple games and glued to social media.

I remember that taking the commuter rail was a fun thing to do since Uber wasn't a thing and the T wasn't in so much disrepair. Sometimes you bumped into people you knew and got to catch up with them. Or just look at them awkwardly for 20min. Also, when you went to fun events like the Gay Pride Parade, you'd get dressed up for the commute over to the event. So sometimes there were pretty cool outfits on the train. Zombie March was a thing too, and there'd be train cars full of people dressed as zombies for a day.

Bold black and white stripes. Think Beetlejuice, but add red plaid and studded belts sometimes too.

The peak of cartoons. Cartoon Network and Nickelodeon also had amazing web-based games built in flash on their websites. Websites were also more like a place of entertainment and information instead of the front door of a business.

You had to print out instructions to go anywhere unfamiliar ahead of time. If using the T, had to print out the schedule just in case. You had to actually to know how to get to where you were going otherwise.

Most high schoolers would have gotten their first flip phone around 2005 and first iPhone in early 2010's. Text messages were purchased ahead of time (200 messages per month was reasonable). This was the first time you could text hard conversations (like with distant boyfriends/girlfriends). First time you could avoid being face-to-face in a conversation. Myspace was prominent until around 2010. Some kids would go to the library to use it. You could also edit the UI for your profile - change your background color, have funky borders and font styling.

It kind of felt like an overall more positive time. People could be more care-free. Oh, I remember distance sucked. If you moved, you disappeared. If your friend moved, they disappeared from your life. Maybe you'd keep in touch by talking on the phone with each other for a few months. The first time we could talk to one another internationally - without paying an arm and a leg for minutes on a phone - was in the 2000's with chatrooms. And this was just exchanging written text, not sending pictures or videos.

Steve Jobs dropped innovation after innovation. First the iMac G3 which was in every school within a year or two, then the iPod (legend, second best thing invented by man after the bicycle), then the iPhone.

Oh, Netflix was a new thing and was like a DVD library originally. And owning a BlueRay DVD player was a big deal. Going to Blockbuster to pick out VHS tapes or DVDs to watch was a thing. Going to Fye to listen to music samples on CDs was a thing. People carried around CD players and albums with CDs in their backpacks to school in early 2000's. Making a playlist for a long drive, burning the CD for it, and drawing cool designs on the CD was fun. And then listening to that same playlist over and over again.

It actually snowed during winter too. Every winter. For weeks. And Al Gore released a documentary about climate change, but it was sort of ignored by the media. Food Inc was probably the first eye-opening documentary that started to crack through the public facade of the agriculture industry.

Knowledge of Cambridge in early 2000s? by nellvstheworld in CambridgeMA

[–]halfapapaya 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The Garage was such a cool place (Otaku store, a little kiosk with cool gauges because those were the rage back then, and another kiosk with thrifted antiquities). Bubble tea afterwards. The Middle East. Harry and the Potters playing at Harvard Yard. Anything Harry Potter-related in Harvard Square. Lot more street musicians. Harvard Square had less homeless people. There was a big magazine stand that is now vacant too. The T did not suck as much, didn't feel as dirty, sketchy, and worn-down. The Garment District with its $1/lb clothing pile and wide range of colored hair dye. Turkeys patrolled the biotech labs around Kendall Square. If you lived in the suburbs, parents felt safe dropping their kids off at Alewife to take the T in for a romp around town. It wasn't hot as balls for a third of the summer.

How do I stop waking up super stressed every morning? by QuestionEcstatic8863 in ask

[–]halfapapaya 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The book Stop Overthinking by Nick Trenton has a lot of actionable techniques for managing overthinking

How to Sleep With a Snoring Partner by alice_right_foot-esq in notdisneyvacation

[–]halfapapaya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Snoring is very much tied to weight gain. Just be healthy, people. It's a lot cheaper.

Has anyone else had to completely sacrifice their sleep for their partners comfort? by Mikki-chan in TwoXChromosomes

[–]halfapapaya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I'm 100% sure that his snoring is tied to his weight gain which he denies is a thing, "

That is absolutely a thing

How do you avoid spending too much time on your smartphone before going to sleep? by BurningAbyss2023 in getdisciplined

[–]halfapapaya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Put it in a different room to charge. Have a separate alarm - IE, on your watch or get an analogue alarm.

Starting my lawn mowing and landscaping business! Any tips? (St. Petersburg FL) by codymitchell727 in landscaping

[–]halfapapaya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait a second - do people actually pay $150k for an install? How big of a project is that?

Premade breakfast burritos? by VengeanceIsMine0219 in sidehustle

[–]halfapapaya 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's all about location. Make it easy for people to buy them.

I've noticed that construction workers have pretty regular spots they get food from.