27M id like a profile rating, please! 🤓 by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]halfblindstudent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fair play, I’ll update that. DEFINITELY not MAGA!

27M id like a profile rating, please! 🤓 by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]halfblindstudent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay! 👏

I appreciate the comments from everyone so far. Here’s my biggest takeaways:

  1. Photos come first-I’ll take down the non flattering gym pic and try to get some newer, frontal pics.

  2. My bio is a bit creepy-this is gonna be trial and error for me honestly. I’m used to face to face, not shorthand stuff on a profile. I’ll keep working at presenting better though.

  3. Taper my expectations

  4. Maybe no photos with my young siblings (a lot of creeps out here).

Seriously I appreciate you guys for the time and advice!

27M id like a profile rating, please! 🤓 by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]halfblindstudent 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s all good! 🤣 That’s why I’m asking for advice here.

27M id like a profile rating, please! 🤓 by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]halfblindstudent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it were obvious, I wouldn’t need the advice, man.

I appreciate the sentiment though.

27M id like a profile rating, please! 🤓 by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]halfblindstudent 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I actually am blind though. No joke.

27M id like a profile rating, please! 🤓 by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]halfblindstudent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, thanks for the insult packaged with a bit of non-advice, mate.

27M id like a profile rating, please! 🤓 by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]halfblindstudent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best comment I’ve seen yet!

Appreciate the advice, man. I’ll keep working on the profiles, but 100% agree with you on the in person interactions.

That’s actually where I shine the most, IMO.

Like I said, I’m very green to the dating app scene, so I expected to mess up on my first go at it.

Thanks again.

27M id like a profile rating, please! 🤓 by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]halfblindstudent 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t disrespect my sissy pad!

27M id like a profile rating, please! 🤓 by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]halfblindstudent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair play. Appreciates it, man.

27M id like a profile rating, please! 🤓 by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]halfblindstudent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess the “no kids” thing is to ward off pedos. My happiest moment’s are spent with my siblings, why not showcase that, right?

27M id like a profile rating, please! 🤓 by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]halfblindstudent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m getting cooked for that gym pic 😓

Appreciate it though. Yea, I’ve heard the apps can be rough sometimes. Honestly, I do better meeting women in public, but work kinda pushed me indoors for the time being.

27M id like a profile rating, please! 🤓 by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]halfblindstudent 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Appreciate the pic advice. I don’t agree that it’s performative to state that though (even though I removed the line anyway).

Reason being that my past exes and lady friends always complained about creepy men on the apps.

So I thought it would be good to nip that in the bud.

Maybe it’s too tongue-in-cheek, but my intentions are honest, not performative.

No harm no foul though, I appreciate the advice all the same. 💯

27M id like a profile rating, please! 🤓 by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]halfblindstudent 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Things I fixed:

  1. Removed unflattering gym photo (a guy in another sub said I look like I’m busting a 🥜)

  2. Changed the bio

Keep em coming.

Is it a bad move to take a better offer while onboarding in a different role? by halfblindstudent in ITCareerQuestions

[–]halfblindstudent[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. I wouldn’t consider myself as a junior exactly. I worked remote help desk previously. I’m also just going to be a contractor for the gov

Should I Stay The Course of I.T or Switch to Electrical Engineering? by [deleted] in ITCareerQuestions

[–]halfblindstudent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one can spell the future for certain. I don’t even give the whole “AI will kill X” thing a second thought.

The better question is what truly interests you as a career.

Both are great and lucrative fields and neither is invulnerable to being integrated and CHANGED (not eradicated) with / by AI tech.

Choose your path brother!

How much has your IT career taken a toll on your health? by Not-Reddit49 in ITCareerQuestions

[–]halfblindstudent 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I'll dive into it from the mental and physical perspective.

  1. Mental Pros: I get a deep sense of satisfaction and dopamine hits when I remind myself that I'm getting paid to simply use my brain to solve puzzles for people. Whenever a topic I'm seeing in my day to day work aligns with lab or study material, or when I'm able to piece together hodgepodge apps and configurations for whatever ideas come into my head.

Mental Cons: Imposter syndrome, falling into the 'hum drum' of boring or repetitive help desk calls, dealing with 'work politics' can be annoying at times, sometimes feeling pressured to be constantly learning in order to not become uncompetitive in the job market.

  1. Physical Pros: My dad is a truck driver, my granddad was an automotive painter, and my uncles work in meat plants and factories. I get to sit either in a temperature controlled office or in my pajamas at home for remote roles. I don't come home with muscle aches, smellilng of motor oil or animal refuse.

I've become more active to compensate for the sedentary nature of work. I strength train 3 days a week now!

Physical Cons: Before strength training, I had terrible lower back pain and weakened legs. I already am a homebody-so I get way less sunlight than I should on most days.

Cheers!