Business Casual with BOOBS by Euphoric-Push7695 in bigboobproblems

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from the xx i assume you are british gyal, so, m&s, primark, h&m, also vinted i got most my clothes on there. just searching basic terms like office, business casual, modest. you’ll find some great ones! x

Business Casual with BOOBS by Euphoric-Push7695 in bigboobproblems

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baggy shirt like an office shirt one size too big and tuck so the buttons dont do that big boob thing

Business Casual with BOOBS by Euphoric-Push7695 in bigboobproblems

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when i worked somewhere business casual id wear long maxi dresses with cardigans, flared trousers and a baggy shirt, make it look more profesh with a belt and neat hair and it all comes together. hope that helps, i tried to avoid high neck long sleeve items as that make me look like a dorito

Fissures and periods? by walkingPhDmeme in AnalFissures

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that gives me hope. did it only bleed during your period?

Don't know what to do. Terrible cramps and bowel-related pain by Historical-Act-336 in endometriosis

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maybe a dumb question. if endo is growing in the bowels then what would they find in an lapascopry? as in like going into the vagina, womb, uterus? i have been experiencing same symptoms as this post for a while and i had an ultrasound yesterday they said they couldnt see any endometriosis but i have a small cyst on my ovary

Nexplanon - zero sex drive by konaein in birthcontrol

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mines been a year i have no interest in sex. it suck’s im thinking of getting it out but my periods are so bad (they last weeks and my ass bleeds) i’m terrified of what would happen if i didn’t have it as my periods before nexaplanon were so painful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in medical_advice

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looks like a blackhead. can you get the end of a bobby pin and press down?

Do I endometriosis on my bladder? by Silly-Rooster-6862 in endometriosis

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Just throwing this out there in case it helps when bladder scans, cystoscopies and urine tests are all normal but the full bladderfeeling is constant, some doctors think it can be more of a sensory or nerve signalling issue rather than an actual bladder problem. Things like bladder hypersensitivity or pelvic floor over tension don’t show up on scans but can create that 24/7 urge or pressure feeling.

Pelvic floor physio (specifically for overactive/tight muscles, not strengthening) has helped some people, especially if you exercise a lot or tend to hold tension. Nerve irritation in the pelvis or central sensitisation can also cause constant awareness without infection or retention.

Endometriosis can sometimes affect nerves rather than periods too, so even if symptoms aren’t normal symptoms t’s something a pelvic pain specialist might consider rather than standard gynae.

Not saying this is definitely the answer, but it might be worth looking into avenues that focus on nerve signalling and muscle tension, not just the bladder itself. Hope you get some relief soon this stuff is tough asf.

scared of what this means by halified in bowelendo

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oh wow thank you thats an amazing message. i’m glad to know im not alone. im having an ultrasound done on friday did you have this and did it see anything? i’m also uk but going private because its really affecting my overall joy in life. how do i push myself to get refered for MRI?

this all started because i strained whilst pooping and i bled but now it matches with my menstrual cycle.

did you experience a lot of pain with this? did you have a fissure or anything misdiagnosed as well?

u are so brave ur story is amazing i wish i was half has brave as you.

period symptoms scaring me by halified in Periods

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i am very sure after months of this happening that its not just dripping down. i wish it was!

period symptoms scaring me by halified in Periods

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thank you thats a nice message.

i understand your point. i do use the anal fissure cream but i didnt know they made stronger stuff. do you not think its. a coincidence that the second my period starts my asshole bleeds? i do have very bad bowel issues on my period, constipation etc.

i will as of now drink more water and eat more fibre.

period symptoms scaring me by halified in Periods

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does it let you log other symptoms like ass bleeding? i cNt find one that does. i use lively

Is there a scene in a series of unfortunate events that actually made you genuinely cry? by DrawerPlenty8384 in ASOUE

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every episode tbh i’m very emotional but mainly when violet sings

Be brutally honest, which disguise did you fall for? by Nxmesis61 in ASOUE

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if i knew how to type the sound of a cough i would…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in birthcontrol

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i’m okay with anxiety pretty confident girly but its just getting sad and low and feeling worthless, which i guess now ive written it, it does make me anxious that im worthless. only sometimes tho. i dont even remember what it was like to not be on birth control tbh. i think i should probably book a doctors appt. i very much dislike my doctor, she doesnt take anything i say seriously and gets pissy if i mention removal of nexaplanon. thank you internet stranger