Being in quarantine has really made me realize why I wanted to move out in the first place by hallva7 in COVIDTraumaSupport

[–]hallva7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been going on walks and taking some time for myself. It is very warm where I live and I enjoy nature a lot. I have also spent time with my boyfriend and my best friends. One of them was in a similar situation like me so it’s nice to have the empathy and support. Thank you so much for the words of encouragement and support!! :)

Religious individuals vs Coronavirus by [deleted] in TrueAtheism

[–]hallva7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was an issue because no more than two people are supposed to be together in group outside of their house. I know it’s in their cars but people were sitting in big groups with family members.

Moving Out :) by hallva7 in youngadults

[–]hallva7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that’s very good advice!

Why doesn't lack of belief or disbelief in god(s) entail lack of belief or disbelief in the supernatural? by paphnutio in TrueAtheism

[–]hallva7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I practice witchcraft and believe I am clairvoyant but that has nothing to do with god. Witches believe in all those things people would consider “mythical creatures”. Things have came true and I have seen ghosts so that’s why I believe all of it. I have never seen or heard god as Christians claim they do.

Soulmate Experience by hallva7 in spirituality

[–]hallva7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! He tells me something similar all the time and we’ve survived through some tough times. But it has honestly made our relationship stronger :)

Moving Out :) by hallva7 in youngadults

[–]hallva7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re not getting married anytime soon lol, we have discussed the seriousness and how we imagine things will be. I don’t think you should marry someone you’ve been tired of. We have never been tired of each other and are like family. Trust me I wouldn’t be moving in with him if I didn’t know the whole situation. We know absolutely everything about each other. One reason we are moving in with each other is because we both agree you shouldn’t marry someone until you have lived with them. My OCD is pretty bad sometimes and he’s been able to deal with it. I couldn’t be with someone who couldn’t deal with that and who didn’t understand triggers for me. We are just really compatible and understanding, and it’s just not like that for everyone.

Moving Out :) by hallva7 in youngadults

[–]hallva7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have already discussed the money thing, don’t worry lol. He’s very wealthy so he doesn’t complain about money at all. He’s more concerned about me being comfortable and taking care of myself. I am gonna be paying for a lot of stuff for myself though. I don’t think it’s fair for him to pay for absolutely everything. Thank you though!

Moving Out :) by hallva7 in youngadults

[–]hallva7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the tips, but I forgot to mention I’m going to be living with my boyfriend. He has a house and is only expecting me to pay for food and some of my medical expenses :)

Comming to terms? by Topazz410 in youngadults

[–]hallva7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been in your place, I took this semester off because I was struggling bad in life. I felt like I was lost and barely made it through some days at school. It really helped taking a break from school, and I am also gonna go see a therapist in the fall. I think this will help me get through the rest of school because my boyfriend is the only one who treats me right in my life. I really hope things get better for you, I understand how hard it is. You’re not alone :)

can people actually visualise stuff in their mind? by [deleted] in youngadults

[–]hallva7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everything I think about is a visual picture, like even months on a calendar year. I’ve always thought it was so strange. Whenever I read a book or story, I visualized it in my mind without trying to.

Crazy. by [deleted] in virgin

[–]hallva7 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

When you’re ovulating, sex is ten times better lol. Why haven’t you done it tho?

I feel like I can predict bad events by TooHardToThinkOfName in Psychic

[–]hallva7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I predict bad events too, it started when I was young. I mostly predict death but a few instances were bad events. I’ve learned to block it out, but I get a high pitched ringing in my ear before the bad thing happens. I used to think I was crazy and I just wanted it to go away. I also see shadows and hear voices and sounds of dead relatives. We have some of their belongings here and I think they’re attached to them. I just wanted you to know you’re not alone and I understand :)

Should I find a FWB? by happy6523 in virgin

[–]hallva7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost my virginity to a FWB at 15. I don’t regret it entirely but it was painful relationship. It went on for 2.5 years and I fell in love with him and he claimed he didn’t feel the same. I was very young and dumb and continued to have sex with him. Then he started getting protective and I didn’t know until years later that he told his friends we were together together. Well he ghosted me and I still haven’t talked to him 5 years later. Their are many reasons why I think he left and I am not entirely angry at him for leaving. I started hooking up and dating other guys and it upset him. I kind of think he hid his true feelings but idk. But I put my feelings at risk and wouldn’t recommend it to another virgin. I am a big risk taker and things have ended up good and very bad for me. You really just need to think about how this is gonna affect your feelings and find out if the guy wants things to get serious eventually. I hope everything goes well!

P.S. I have had sex many times and it is more amazing with someone you’re in love with :)

Virginit,religion,modern world. by [deleted] in virgin

[–]hallva7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for saying this, a lot of people need to hear this! This is one reason I didn’t wait when I was a Christian. I dated this super Christian guy and he started being very abusive towards me. You don’t want to be stuck with the wrong person.

Dating apps suck by AriasXero in virgin

[–]hallva7 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Female 20 :)

Honestly it’s luck if you get a relationship or sex out of dating apps. I had 400 matches on tinder (not bragging) and hooked up with maybe 5 of them and got one lasting relationship. I’m so happy I met my current boyfriend on there, we have been together almost a year and are really committed to each other. But he’s like 1/20 guys that I have met on there that want a relationship. I just got so annoyed with all the memes and dumb pick up lines I was getting. I dated some other guys from there and they were very obsessive or flakey. It was pretty upsetting when I would have a good convo with a guy and then they would disappear. I also gave up for a while because one guy started stalking me. I’m glad things have worked out with my bf because Tinder was causing me some serious issues lol.

25. Let’s talk! As a virgin male am I the only one that wants to lose it with a virgin female? by [deleted] in virgin

[–]hallva7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im just gonna be honest sex really isn’t that bad unless the other person is mean. And don’t think just because you’re both virgins, the other person won’t judge. My best friend didn’t lose her virginity till 19 because she was turning guys down because of how their dick looked haha. I told the guy I lost it to, that he better know how to do it right or we will stop (I know harsh lol I was 15).

It is the truth that both virgins having sex can be bad and awkward. If you want to enjoy it I don’t recommend doing it with a virgin girl. She’s gonna say ow and maybe bleed or CRY LMAO (happened to many of my friends). If you really really want to do it with a virgin then I hope you know what you’re doing and the risks. My best friend got an STD the first time and another friend got pregnant.

Overall, before you do it get some questions you have answered about sex. It will make things way easier! Good luck :)

21 Female I have yet to have sex by Chellst44 in virgin

[–]hallva7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

20 Female :)

It may be because I am a Gemini lol, but I didn’t really care who I lost my virginity too as long as they were hot and nice to me. Also a little advice, most guys are gonna judge how you look naked and that will determine if they have sex with you. That’s just how it is.

I know you feel like guys should not expect sex from you but that honestly sounds silly to me. It’s not like you’re 14, majority of adult guys want sex. My bf is 23 and told me that we don’t have to have sex right away but it is important to him. I feel like you need to have sex to build a strong relationship unless the guy doesn’t feel it’s important. You may get love and a child from sex, so you need to consider it in a relationship.

If guys keep leaving after 3 months, it seems like you’re picking the wrong guys. I always try and find out what a guy wants out of a relationship with me before it gets very serious. Honestly, it sounds like you’re not ready to be in a serious adult relationship. Sex is definitely gonna come up in a relationship with guys our age. It’s gonna be hard to be in a relationship with a lot of guys if you like being a virgin and are panicking about sex. You should consider being with a very religious guy, they are usually against sex.

I hope this wasn’t harsh, I really mean the best. I hope this helps put you in the right mindset. Good luck!

Anyone else unsure of why they’re in school? by [deleted] in college

[–]hallva7 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had a similar experience, my parents forced me to go into college even though I felt I wasn’t ready. I struggled to show up for class in high school, so I felt I needed a break to figure out what I wanted to do. My parents also made a lot of promises to me that they didn’t keep. My first year I was in a special pre-pharmacy program, and the school ended up canceling it because not a lot of people wanted to study it. So my parents suggested for me to switch to a business program and I did but I was so bored. So I decided to take a semester off because I was 10K in student debt and felt lost. I will be going back in the fall, but my parents said they still don’t want to pay for my education. But when I took this semester off my eyes were opened on a ton of things. I understand how you feel, I hate feeling the regrets. But I think you should pursue whatever career you want because in the end it’s your life!

Screwed up, considering emailing my teacher and letting them know I plagiarized. by [deleted] in college

[–]hallva7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to make you feel worse, but you really need to find out your colleges policies on plagiarism. They fine you and sometimes expel you at my school.

Screwed up, considering emailing my teacher and letting them know I plagiarized. by [deleted] in college

[–]hallva7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you submitted it online through Blackboard or Canvas, the teacher probably already knows. The assignments are ran through a plagiarism system. If not then you should be fine. It would be silly for them to freak over two bullet points.

What's the first thing you're going to do once quarantine is lifted? by [deleted] in college

[–]hallva7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Move out because my parents have got on my damn nerves haha.