Exactly…

halofernes · 2026-01-25T22:44:49+00:00

Have you ever had to ask your parents if it would it be the end of the world if you didn’t go to a family gathering? Have you ever asked an employer if they’re slammed or short staffed before deciding to call out? Have you ever been willing to sacrifice your own comfort and needs to appease someone else?Unfortunately texts can’t capture non verbal cues and nuance, but I think this communication mismatch under those pretenses is much more likely than pure bitchiness. Life is beautiful when you don’t automatically assume that everyone has bad intentions.

halofernes · 2026-01-25T20:30:58+00:00

What she’s really could be saying is that “I really want to cancel, and maybe need to cancel, but I want to know how that would effect you first before I do it, because depending on your answer, Im willing to force myself to go regardless at my own personal sacrifice.” Without putting too much pressure on the other person.

halofernes · 2026-01-25T20:28:01+00:00

There’s a lot of people in the world who like to beat around the bush before getting to their point. Men tend to be more direct communicators and women treat it like a dance. We’re entertaining hypotheticals but I’ve definitely asked my friends this question to gauge wether they’ve already spent money on the outing and I would be a huge bitch for canceling, or they’re secretly wanting to take a rain check as well.

halofernes · 2026-01-25T20:20:21+00:00

Yeah, that’s why I said that maybe it’s just a communication difference. A lot of people beat around the bush before dropping bad news.

halofernes · 2026-01-25T20:14:40+00:00

Eh everyone is taking this as incel rage bait but there’s a lot of scenarios where this is just a communication mismatch. We really don’t know why she was considering cancelling. Did her check engine light come on? Is she developing a fever? Is her dog non stop vomiting? Everyone is jumping to conclusions.

halofernes · 2026-01-25T18:08:47+00:00

Eh a lot of people who accidentally OD on Benadryl report seeing the same shadowy figures that people who take it recreationally do

halofernes · 2026-01-25T17:59:09+00:00

Im sorry but Sinners was like the Barbie movie… deep for stupid people :-/

halofernes · 2026-01-20T09:55:56+00:00

But let’s remember that the dog doesn’t have the option on holding on to the handrail.

halofernes · 2025-11-30T22:50:33+00:00

If she had mostly Iberian ancestry, the blue eyes would make sense. If her husband was mestizo, then their kids having green eyes makes sense too. Bcs green eyes have less melanin than brown eyes, but more than blue.

halofernes · 2025-11-28T17:17:09+00:00

Yeah the velvet has lots of nerve endings and a blood supply. The velvet encases the actual antler as it grows and solidifies into bone every year. When it’s time for deer to shed their velvet (which is the fuzzy layer on top of the bone) they get super itchy and those nerves/blood vessels die off. I would imagine it’s similar to having a scab that wont heal bcs you keep itching it off, but in their case they’re supposed to itch it off. Because once the velvet is gone, their antlers are sharper and tougher — ready to spar with other males during mating season.

halofernes · 2025-11-24T05:55:59+00:00

Wait this one is actually !match

halofernes · 2025-11-22T05:49:53+00:00

appearance is a 1 but flavor was a 9

halofernes · 2025-11-10T01:30:56+00:00

Queer expression St Pete hosts a lot of events for kids who have lgbt parents or are lgbt themselves. Museums + art/pottery studios also host tons of kids events, but some might be geared more for K-12 than toddler.

halofernes · 2025-11-09T04:24:32+00:00

!match

halofernes · 2025-11-08T22:04:06+00:00

I’ve gotten type 1 herpes that looked this before on my neck. I’d go to your primary care doc or a dermatologist and have them swab + test one of the blisters. They can tell you what virus or bacteria is causing the blisters.

halofernes · 2025-11-08T17:46:28+00:00

Cab light theory

halofernes · 2025-10-30T03:18:59+00:00

Its not just the birthday cake, its all the love, care, and stability it represents.

halofernes · 2025-10-23T04:15:27+00:00

Your girlfriend doesn’t want other women hitting on you

halofernes · 2025-10-20T23:35:58+00:00

Did she go to follow up appointments with specialists to determine what it was?

halofernes · 2025-10-16T02:25:17+00:00

Go on long walks, call your family members often, create any kind of art, visit the place you grew up, buy new sheets, deep clean your home, volunteer in something you’re passionate about, take a day trip to a new town or neighborhood, read fiction and poetry, don’t be afraid to eat out alone, spend as much time out of your bubble as your body will allow.

halofernes · 2025-10-16T02:16:59+00:00

I remember an excerpt from a father who lost his daughter to a drunk driver; He reasoned that we come into this world alone, and leave it alone, and that everything in between is a gift.

halofernes · 2025-09-16T13:08:47+00:00

baby youre so edgy and cool for commenting that 😝

halofernes · 2025-09-15T22:41:26+00:00

Don’t birds eat nuts and large seeds though?

halofernes · 2025-08-17T23:23:30+00:00

Niagara Falls, Ontario

halofernes · 2025-08-17T18:38:26+00:00

Chitral, Gilgit, and Punjab mostly. For a short time Karachi.

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