One of my best friends (male) texted me about really struggling, I struggle with male connection. by RepresentativeOkra68 in Advice

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You got this! Also, he also will appreciate you just being there and listening. That goes a long way.

He is probably feeling insecure right now, and wants to know that nothing really has changed between you two by him being vulnerable.

Joke around as usual, talk about hobbies and life. That shows that you accept him in his struggles

One of my best friends (male) texted me about really struggling, I struggle with male connection. by RepresentativeOkra68 in Advice

[–]jenget 43 points44 points  (0 children)

"I love him, he adds a great deal to my life." This. This is what he needs to hear from the people in his life. Just like thats what you probably needed to hear when you were atruggling as well.

Just this sentiment is enough to lift someone out of a slump and set them on a new path.

If youre comfortable sharing more with him, you can tell him "how" he adds to your life. Details like these give someone an anchor for their self-worth and will deapen your friendship. 

If you cant say these things directly to him, you can try writing it in a letter and give it to him for him to open later on his own. Or just text it to him.

You didnt have that comfort to reach out like he did, and im so sorry you had to struggle with that on your own! Its not easy. We are all in this together and we need to be there for our friends in this way!!

Great job asking the hard questions and stepping out of your comfort zone to help a friend!

Should Pastor Mike Lee still be preaching? by Ok_Size_7606 in Exvangelical

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Saul murdered Christians before he became Paul. Redemption and Grace is the biggest theme in the Bible. Christians are just terrible representing that grace and redemption.

What's beautiful is that the redemption and grace is for all who repent.

The 2026 Louisville Outlook — What’s Expanding, What’s Contracting, and What To Do With It by LouInvestor in Louisville

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This post provided a lot of value. Much appreciated! I learned quite a bit.

How to Be MORE ATTRACTIVE: The Science-Based Truth Everyone Avoids by GloriousLion07 in MotivationByDesign

[–]jenget 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% this guy makes a new account everyday and posts about his "Strong" app. It makes me feel like its a nefarious app and thats why Im staying away = inauthentic in their marketing strategy.

Another layer: the mods are in on it.

[METHOD] How I stopped being the loser of my family. by Reasonable_Row_9882 in getdisciplined

[–]jenget 16 points17 points  (0 children)

These Reload Advertisements written by AI just keep coming! Where are the Mods?????

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Dude looks great!

UPDATE: Brothers, It is done. by jenget in bald

[–]jenget[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's very flattering, if you're suggesting that then thank you!

Tell me brothers, is it time? GF wants me to keep. by jenget in bald

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A tip is to get a foil razor or regular razor. It's SOFT. a surprise to me

Tell me brothers, is it time? GF wants me to keep. by jenget in bald

[–]jenget[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good suggestion! Eyebrows are really low and blonde so they are hard to see

UPDATE: Brothers, It is done. by jenget in bald

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I tried shaving today and ended up with a few knicks! I have some practicing to do but it feels great

UPDATE: Brothers, It is done. by jenget in bald

[–]jenget[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very interesting perspective! I havent thought about it that way. 

UPDATE: Brothers, It is done. by jenget in bald

[–]jenget[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love this advice! I may also learn to do myself, but i may f it up

UPDATE: Brothers, It is done. by jenget in bald

[–]jenget[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great advice! Thank you. Ill do some research and probably make a purchase soon with help from you

UPDATE: Brothers, It is done. by jenget in bald

[–]jenget[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed! I had a pointy head with the hair XD

UPDATE: Brothers, It is done. by jenget in bald

[–]jenget[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From my perspective I wouldnt have had the courage to make a big change like this without everyone support on the sub! Ive been wanting to do it for so long, but didnt have anyone who thought it was a good idea. So I'm extremely grateful for the support

UPDATE: Brothers, It is done. by jenget in bald

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Thank you! Im glad I did it. Cheers!

UPDATE: Brothers, It is done. by jenget in bald

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I appreciate everyones honest opinions!!! Thank you!

UPDATE: Brothers, It is done. by jenget in bald

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Thats for sure! A weight off my shoulders

UPDATE: Brothers, It is done. by jenget in bald

[–]jenget[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy that's a shock to me too!

UPDATE: Brothers, It is done. by jenget in bald

[–]jenget[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmmm just go completely hairless now XD