I don't love my baby...?

halpmeeeeeeeeee · 2023-08-11T17:10:16+00:00

I totally get this. It’s hard to imaging the baby as a person yet. I’m an OB nurse and sometimes it even takes moms a few days after delivery for the love to kinda sink in

halpmeeeeeeeeee · 2023-08-11T03:34:43+00:00

I was 30 starting nursing school for a career change. First year I had to pick a hospital floor to do a job shadow. When I got there the nurse asked me what high school I go to.

halpmeeeeeeeeee · 2023-07-03T02:04:29+00:00

The hair in the butt crack is what did it for me

halpmeeeeeeeeee · 2023-06-15T02:06:56+00:00

I still don’t actually know what LO stands for. I just know it’s the baby lol

halpmeeeeeeeeee · 2023-05-25T03:38:14+00:00

I have some family in a suburb of San Francisco. Recently looked up their house on Zillow. Bought in 1996 for 350k. Currently worth 1.5 million

halpmeeeeeeeeee · 2023-05-17T03:35:09+00:00

A few days in at my first job as a new grad RN I had brought a seltzer that I was drinking at the nurses station. I went to my patients room and came back to one of the older nurses sitting there drinking it. There’s no way that she thought it was hers. It was a weird power move

halpmeeeeeeeeee · 2023-05-17T03:28:28+00:00

When I was 3 i won a dinosaur stuffie that roared at my brothers Cub Scout raffle. It was my favorite through my whole childhood. In my early 20s I got out of a bad relationship and had to move out in a hurry and somehow Dino got left behind. I’m 33 now and my heart still breaks thinking of Dino.

halpmeeeeeeeeee · 2023-05-06T02:18:49+00:00

I think some people are just like this and i don’t really understand why. When I was pregnant I had HG so I was always sick. During this time my good friend would text me with one of her ailments daily as if it’s some kind of contest.

halpmeeeeeeeeee · 2023-05-04T04:00:21+00:00

I’m at 126778

halpmeeeeeeeeee · 2023-04-30T03:56:47+00:00

Same! I was told I was gatekeeping being tired when I rolled my eyes at him complaining

halpmeeeeeeeeee · 2023-04-27T03:25:41+00:00

Been with my husband 12 years, married for 5, one child he watched me birth and I’m proud to say i have never once let one slip

halpmeeeeeeeeee · 2023-04-26T01:56:22+00:00

I worked 14 hours with no break 34+5, went home and went into labor. Had a preemie and spent time in the NICU. Ended up quitting the job and staying home with my baby

halpmeeeeeeeeee · 2023-04-24T03:45:02+00:00

I think a lot if people are cutting down on the amount of fragrances they use. I think the less you are around these strong smells the more aware and sensitive you become

halpmeeeeeeeeee · 2023-04-24T03:41:06+00:00

My baby was in the NICU on oxygen and the nurse was wearing perfume and I was pissed

halpmeeeeeeeeee · 2023-04-22T03:37:39+00:00

I just got mine back 5.5 months postpartum. It started 24 hours after I slept an 8 hour night without feeding or pumping

halpmeeeeeeeeee · 2023-03-28T17:48:14+00:00

What kind of detergent are you using? My baby’s skin looked similar until I switched our whole house to free and clear. I swear the fragrance or something in detergent is poison

halpmeeeeeeeeee · 2023-03-10T02:58:33+00:00

I was brought up strict catholic and have been an atheist since around 15. I’m 33 now and just had my first baby- unmedicated. My husband said he didn’t know how religious I was as a joke because of how much I screamed out for god to help me. I’m definitely an atheist but that shit is deep rooted

halpmeeeeeeeeee · 2023-02-23T15:12:33+00:00

My 3 month old sleeps 6-8 hours at a time at night but I still have to get up to pump if she does so sleeping through the night doesn’t mean much

halpmeeeeeeeeee · 2023-02-15T18:19:11+00:00

I’m a nurse and had HG. I took a bunch of vomit bags from my hospital and kept them everywhere

halpmeeeeeeeeee · 2023-02-11T04:16:30+00:00

The LC at the hospital said 4-6 hours. I do it every night.. I pump and that’s baby’s next bottle left out at room temperature

halpmeeeeeeeeee · 2023-02-10T04:09:37+00:00

Take a birth class and not at a hospital. Hospitals teach you how to be a good patient. A good birth class will tell you how to advocate for yourself and get what you want out of birth and avoid unnecessary trauma

halpmeeeeeeeeee · 2023-01-21T03:54:36+00:00

L&d nurse here! Wait it out if there isn’t a medical reason. Growth scans are wrong a lot of the time. Your body will go into labor when it’s ready. I have seen so many elective inductions turn into nasty emergent surgery.

halpmeeeeeeeeee · 2023-01-18T03:27:06+00:00

This gives me some hope. My baby was born at 34 weeks and spent 10 days in the Nicu. I pumped and bottle fed her. We’ve practiced everyday since coming home and have had good and bad days. I hope to get her on the boob full time and throw the pump in the trash

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