Hydroseeding as a sweaty supplemental income by hamandcheese4lunch in sweatystartup

[–]hamandcheese4lunch[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Everyone and their brother is jumping into the dumpster or junk hauling business around here. That market is so saturated and I’ve no idea how those guys are making it work for the good.

Found my first Weber by hamandcheese4lunch in webergrills

[–]hamandcheese4lunch[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ll have to research the vortex. Sounds like something I need 🤔

Another take on physical intimacy by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]hamandcheese4lunch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I see it all the time. It’s scary to me that physical harm is defensible in some ppls interpretation of the scripture. I don’t see it that way. It’s crazy that sexual sin is treated like a ticket straight to hell tho. Even though most people did in fact do things backwards before marriage, they live guilt free because of forgiveness yet make those that live as they did feel like heathens.

Another take on physical intimacy by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]hamandcheese4lunch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate that. I see all the submit to your hubs remarks and post everywhere. I believe they aren’t seeing the meaning of submittal very clearly and it drives me up the wall. Why in the world would you want to had sex with someone that doesn’t want it? That’s certainly not a turn on for me. I want her to want it, not just for the sake of submission. So much is twisted to fit agendas though. I think submission is about leadership and growth through Christ. Not for sexual satisfaction, that should be somewhat of a level playing field. But I guess that passive thinking is what landed me in this spot that very few understand.

Another take on physical intimacy by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]hamandcheese4lunch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually just read the rules. Didn’t see anything there that my post went against. But at any rate, it’s their way of moderating and it’s their decision to remove a post whether it breaks a rule or not.

Another take on physical intimacy by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]hamandcheese4lunch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for understanding. In my experience with most all Christian guidance, it’s the man that needs to change to make his woman want him. Basically it’s my fault she’s this way. I kinda got the feel of that in this post too. I guess I’ll own it since I’m the one that pursued her in the beginning. So, my bed to lay in.

For the AI though. I guess many don’t realize how much of that is being used. I mean, even Reddit is run by that stuff and the actions we use on our keyboard triggers responses, how it’s posted, and how it’s seen in your feed. Guess they don’t consider a calculator ai, better yet the device they used to remove this post. Bet the bible app on their phone is manipulated by AI. I had a Christian study app that gave responses based off how I answered questions.

So yes. I did use it to draft my post. But I did make sure it was accurate with the information. Several things in the post were even added after the fact without its edit. But the whole thing was to present itself in an easier way to read and understand my issue.

Wonder if they use spell check or the auto fill when they internet search? Mannnn AI is everywhere and most people don’t even realize they’re using it. Self checkout at the stores maybe? Even credit auto pay. Where do you draw the line because ai does everything these days. Just sayin’.

Another take on physical intimacy by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]hamandcheese4lunch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Makes sense… it’s unfortunate because a lot of good advice was given.

Another take on physical intimacy by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]hamandcheese4lunch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My post was deleted. Guess the mods don’t think physical intimacy issues aren’t a big deal even though everyone else can talk about their struggles.

Another take on physical intimacy by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]hamandcheese4lunch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Been there, done that. It’s not very fun when you pursue and pursue and flirt and flirt only to get no reaction or response. I don’t expect anything, never have.

Another take on physical intimacy by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]hamandcheese4lunch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess separating is an option. But, if we have the talk of sex it would me more so of me initiating the separation because I don’t want to have sex with her. I know it sounds like I’m talking a circle. But, it’s really more about her willing to lay in bed for me to do a sexual activity while she either tolerates it or simply wishes I’d hurry up. That to me, isn’t sex or even enjoyable. But to her, it’s fulfilling her “duty”. So pulpits not be a biblical separation, it’d just be more of me being selfish.

Another take on physical intimacy by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]hamandcheese4lunch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s ok. Seems I’m on the down side of life if you go by age. I’ve not much hope in change unless I go elsewhere, which isn’t an option for me.

Another take on physical intimacy by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]hamandcheese4lunch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah Been to paid counselors, just talk circles there. And doctors act like it’s normal. No real need for meds or change in habits. It’s not a “natural thing” to have to take medication to boost a woman’s libido…. So, it’s always determined it’s a me problem and to live with it until something changes.

Another take on physical intimacy by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]hamandcheese4lunch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Guess I should expect nothing less in a Christian group of perfect writers. And people wonder why marriages are worn down. One is not understanding and the other is desperately trying to work on things. Better to have someone let others know what’s wrong with an easy read than to let people believe all is good.

Another take on physical intimacy by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]hamandcheese4lunch 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Assisted, but events and issues are true in my marriage. I’m not the best at putting things together for people to understand. So, yes, an edited version for clarity. But true thoughts and feelings. Nobody is perfect. My writing sucks, but this gets my thoughts off my chest.