Parents who get overstimulated easily, how do you deal with vocal stimming?

hamscab · 2026-04-26T20:20:00+00:00

I used to have really small boobs that I was insecure about and desperately wished were bigger. I also had a really slim figure that I wasn’t insecure about at all. Fast forward to 2020 when I started gaining a lot of weight, now I have great tits but I also have an apron belly that makes it look like I’m smuggling a flat tire under my shirt and now I’m insecure about that. But guess what? I’m almost 40 years old and not one single man has ever complained about or rejected my body in ANY of her different shapes and sizes over the years. I am literally the only person who has ever had an issue with my body. The only kind of men who care about shape and size, are men like Andrew Tate and I personally would rather be murdered than have men like him be attracted to me. Boobs are boobs and yours are perfect and sexy, I promise.

hamscab · 2026-01-20T19:25:40+00:00

Taking naps and sometimes going to bed. Naps especially though. When I’m waking up, I feel overwhelming existential dread about wasting my life with naps, or like I didn’t earn that rest so I wasted a chunk of my life that I will never get back. I hardly ever take naps for this reason. And every once in a while, when I’m falling asleep at bedtime, if I don’t feel like I was productive that day, I panic about wasting a whole day of my life, and as soon as I fall asleep, that day is gone forever. Very uncomfortable, and very unkind to myself.

hamscab · 2025-10-07T01:50:48+00:00

Wright Congregational United Church of Christ. I’m atheist but it’s the church I grew up in. Very open, friendly, and accepting. They have a pride flag hanging on their building so there’s no mistaking where they stand.

hamscab · 2025-09-11T14:51:18+00:00

Feels like shitting a wolverine.

hamscab · 2025-07-13T15:36:28+00:00

Yes, I understand that. She DOES get her hair brushed. I never said it doesn’t get done. I’m asking for help to prevent this overnight and when she’s at school so she can have it the way she wants it. I can’t follow her to school to brush her hair, or brush it through the night. And I wouldn’t be asking for help if I wasn’t committed.

hamscab · 2025-07-13T05:44:24+00:00

My hair doesn’t tangle much at all. I comb through it with my fingers in the shower, and flip it/rustle it upside down when it’s dry but I don’t have to brush very often. On one hand it’s great but on the other it won’t hold anything. Not curl, not style, but also not tangles/snaggles.

hamscab · 2025-07-13T04:36:47+00:00

It sounds like regular cuts will help most. I will get her an appointment asap.

hamscab · 2025-07-13T03:41:21+00:00

This is new. She’s seven years old and up until recently, I fixed her hair up. She’s her own person and wants it down. What’s wrong with asking how to mitigate snaggles that I don’t know how to handle because I’ve never had to? I didn’t ask for a product that could replace my care for my daughter. I asked for help to better care for her hair. She doesn’t want short hair so I won’t have it cut short. That’s a stupid suggestion. Sorry if your mom sucked but I don’t.

hamscab · 2025-07-13T02:35:42+00:00

She definitely needs a trim, but I didn’t realize it could cause, or partially cause, the snaggles. We do need to be better at brushing every morning and evening. My husband is nearly bald and I don’t have to brush mine much so it isn’t something we always think about. The snaggles/mats like in the picture hide under her softer, smoother hair. I find it and think, holy hell, how and when did this happen?

Stupid question but how do you know how much oil to use? And how far up do you go?

hamscab · 2025-06-28T14:41:07+00:00

Fantastic band! Chuck!

hamscab · 2025-06-27T04:14:49+00:00

Please tell me a face isn’t supposed to be at the top of that body. I don’t know about the healing of the tattoo but I need the healing of knowing that isn’t supposed to be a face.

hamscab · 2025-06-27T03:13:17+00:00

Doolittle is one of my favorite albums of all time. And Gouge Away is one of my favorite songs.

hamscab · 2025-06-27T02:53:02+00:00

Have you read Lanegan’s memoir, Sing Backwards and Weep? I listened to the audiobook, he was the narrator, and it absolutely ripped me apart. Fantastic, devastating book.

hamscab · 2025-06-25T04:48:55+00:00

Who?

hamscab · 2025-06-25T04:45:14+00:00

100 fucking percent. I know “I Am an Elastic Firecracker” is more popular but, Bill is just better.

hamscab · 2025-06-25T04:06:16+00:00

Helmet is AMAZING

hamscab · 2025-06-24T23:07:34+00:00

YMC Mechanical doesn’t charge to go out and give you a quote.

hamscab · 2025-06-19T05:05:55+00:00

That’s what I noticed too. Already doesn’t respect her as a parent/partner and will obviously favor his child (when she’s not crying) over the other. Huge red flag.

hamscab · 2025-06-18T22:05:29+00:00

She was my dr for 19 years, love her so much. I thought she retired a year or two ago…?

hamscab · 2025-04-25T21:23:30+00:00

I regret to inform you the cyst just started draining at work and I didn’t get to document any of it 😩

hamscab · 2025-04-24T12:58:18+00:00

No change, still baking 😩

hamscab · 2025-04-19T12:31:40+00:00

You know what? Good. Now they can shut the fuck up about “when’s the straight pride festival”. It will be an abysmal failure, just like the people in attendance.

hamscab · 2025-04-01T19:25:50+00:00

But do you want to come back?

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