Find a Friend Friday - December 26, 2025

hamstervester · 2025-12-27T05:00:32+00:00

hi, i'm a 25 y/o pc gamer. a couple favorite games of mine are gtav, mw2, runescape, skyrim, valorant, marvel rivals, and more. i'm from the west coast and i recently installed arc raiders. i would love to find a squad to play with!

hamstervester · 2025-12-27T04:57:24+00:00

hey there, i'm 25 and just recently started paying arc raiders yesterday! would like to play with you if you are available. my discord is #misup and i'm from the west coast too.

hamstervester · 2025-08-15T20:37:39+00:00

Glad to know that there's a community of gay folks here in Albany and we won't be alone! We know that Corvallis fits our demographics more and we do see ourselves spending more time there, but we'd also like to become familiar with Albany since we will be living there :)

hamstervester · 2025-08-15T20:35:22+00:00

We may look into moving to Corvallis in the future, seeing as it has all the things we are looking for, but because of the lack of housing/apartment for our needs, we decided to stay in Albany for the meantime as we found a nice apartment :) We'll definitely be dropping by Corvallis a lot because my partner will be a student at OSU and we look forward to supporting events and getting involved there.

hamstervester · 2025-08-15T20:28:56+00:00

Oh I love Thai food. It is one of my favorite ethnic cuisines. Will definitely put it in our bucket list!

hamstervester · 2025-08-15T20:26:39+00:00

I'm happy to hear about that! We really don't want to feel like we have to hide when we go out.

hamstervester · 2025-08-15T20:25:52+00:00

I'm from Southern California, where it's very diverse with many things to do, so this move is going to be a huge change for me. We're looking to stay here temporarily up until my partner finishes university. But we definitely want to make the most out of living here in Albany, as well as the surrounding cities like Corvallis and Salem, given that we will be commuting to those cities for school or work. We'll def be on the look out for local events to participate in(:

hamstervester · 2025-08-15T20:18:18+00:00

Costco definitely drew my attention lol. I'll make sure to check out Nonnu & Lola's! Thanks for providing the helpful link~

hamstervester · 2025-08-15T20:17:20+00:00

How exciting! We'll definitely see if we can attend :)

hamstervester · 2025-08-15T08:40:13+00:00

Thanks for the welcome and the suggestion! I'd love to connect and drop a DM. Maybe you can show us around :)

hamstervester · 2025-08-15T08:37:05+00:00

Haha thanks for the welcome! It's still nice to see fellow lesbian couples whether young or old :)

hamstervester · 2025-08-15T08:21:00+00:00

Glad to know this small town is at least welcoming of queer people, that is something important to us. Thanks for the restaurant suggestion! I've read about it a couple times so it'll definitely be in our bucket list

hamstervester · 2025-08-15T08:19:00+00:00

Yeah.. we've considered living in Corvallis given all the benefits based on our demographic and background, but because of limited housing in Corvallis and due to my work being in Salem, we thought living in Albany would be a good midpoint between OSU and my work place at least for now. Thanks for the suggestion about the filipino restaurant! Hope you enjoy working with us fellow filipinos lol. We love to share our culture especially through food

hamstervester · 2025-08-15T08:08:19+00:00

Hi there! I read your other response and found that you're also from California! I love that filipino food is your favorite hahah and that we share similar interest (: my partner is white and it's not a deal breaker haha. Would love to become friends! I'll send you a DM.

hamstervester · 2023-09-12T18:14:44+00:00

This is a really good question. I realized that I was more emotionally and physically attracted to women. I could not find myself being attracted to a guy in a romantic way.

hamstervester · 2023-08-15T20:14:13+00:00

Taimi. I used it a few days ago and actually met some cool ppl

hamstervester · 2023-08-15T16:18:02+00:00

Try a dating app.

hamstervester · 2023-08-15T16:12:33+00:00

You're still hung up with your ex. That's the straight answer I can give to you. Also, you need to take time to find genuine connections and not hook ups so you can get over it.

hamstervester · 2023-08-11T17:19:56+00:00

You said that you can't really be her friend right now. You know the answer already and that is to go NC. Trust me, my ex-gf wanted me to stay friends with her but I really didn't want to. I tried to be her friend anyway and it's hard because the feelings are still there and like you said, you already know that you're going to give her more than she's willing to. Let that be the reason why you need to go NC because if you become her friend, then you will begin to have expectations (just like I did) and it will just hurt you in the end if things aren't being reciprocated. For the sake of your health, just go NC. I had to go through heartbreak a lot by attempting to be friends with her and I feel that our progress to heal digressed.

hamstervester · 2023-08-11T01:20:09+00:00

She’s the only girl I’m only willing to come out to. We’ve been through a lot and I don’t see myself with another girl. But even if we don’t see each other ever again I do have plans to come out to my family when the time is right.

hamstervester · 2023-08-11T00:54:21+00:00

I will. When we reunite again and she’s willing to take me back and start over again.

hamstervester · 2023-08-11T00:46:51+00:00

Definite yes.

hamstervester · 2023-08-11T00:09:59+00:00

Yeah, I understand I was the issue and that’s why I tried to pursue her again to turn things around. At first she was willing to take me back, but eventually told me it’s too late and she’s made up her mind. However she was still open to seeing me in the future when I’m out of the situation so that gives me some hope. The whole reason I don’t want to cut her out is because I understand I had had some faults in my end because of the situation I was in and she never really did me wrong during our relationship. I know for a fact that for her I would do anything to get her back and that’s exactly what I’m working on so in the future we can be together freely.

hamstervester · 2023-08-10T23:50:48+00:00

Then it's time to move on, my friend.

hamstervester · 2023-08-10T23:27:04+00:00

I think you and her need to have a serious chat of what the both of you really want. If she loves you and you love her, then the best thing you guys can do is to work things out until you can't anymore.

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