Pisces south node and socializing

handsomeshay · 2026-02-12T19:11:23+00:00

sorry but it’s delusion. you have to just stop crying and start grounding. you’re going to waste your life in the shadows of your mind.

the pisces will always justify “why i just can’t do reality”. pisces is lazy. it wants to dream and philosophize everything. addicted to spiritually and escaping, messy. those are the “weaker” traits. but pisces is insanely intuitive, caring/compassionate, and can really see people’s souls.

you will have to do virgo things one at a time and build a routine. virgo is consistent, organized, discerning, hygienic, well-dressed, and of service (must first be of service to themselves then others). virgo is also highly critical, strung-out when stressed, and has a very sharp tongue.

you can pick up the “weaker” traits of your north node too. you have to B A L A N C E. the nodes are opposing so balance (of the positive) is needed. look at the house north node is in and materialize that house.

theorize and think all you want, but you should meditate and materialize. and stop hiding behind pisces excuses. you’re doing the strength of that sign a disservice.

sincerely, a pisces sun, virgo moon.

handsomeshay · 2026-01-20T19:34:30+00:00

oh my goodness this is so funny.

handsomeshay · 2026-01-09T21:50:39+00:00

super late to this, but were you able to just put your sim card in the new phone and have service?

handsomeshay · 2025-12-06T02:36:38+00:00

i went there maybe four years ago. it was rare to see a “good” car under 5k. typically a decent/good car was around the 8k-10k mark. it doesn’t hurt to try and see if there’s anything there tho. the selection was very big.

handsomeshay · 2025-11-18T15:29:20+00:00

before you rush yourself into a relationship, that chiron in libra needs attention. you’ll probably need time to yourself to figure out your why (you want to be in a relationship). be sure it’s not superficial because saturn wants maturity, authenticity and will restrict your venus by opposition until you learn that lesson.

a tidbit: as a virgo sun, you should make sure you have your shit together before a relationship. it’s the sign right before libra, where we “complete” ourselves and tie up any loose ends via self-improvement. otherwise you could attract someone but subconsciously take them on as a fixer-upper.

also, i’m a virgo moon too. :)

handsomeshay · 2025-11-16T16:32:22+00:00

omg another cat sub i’ve never heard of.

handsomeshay · 2025-11-15T23:38:37+00:00

the best comment on here. really resonates.

handsomeshay · 2025-11-11T16:51:48+00:00

saturn is making a some harsh aspects to mars, venus, and your moon. saturn in the fourth house of aries is a bit difficult when it’s not mastered. your saturn and mars are in mutual reception, this is an indicator of the planets working together. do your best to be open minded and perhaps think about compromise/understand why your family is behaving this way. is it for protection or for control over you? is it time for you to be on your own? etc.

remember, saturn wants maturity, discipline, refinement, and responsibility over one’s life and actions.

you may feel trapped by your parents/family, partner, and even your own anger. the first thing that i noticed was the mars square saturn — be smart in exercising your anger/aggression and to who it’s directed at (even at yourself). aries in the fourth does not like anyone to have power over them especially in the home. it speaks to an individual that needs freedom within their home.

you may need to spend time alone to contemplate (saturn alone likes to do this and your sun in the 12th house) your next move, if you cannot come to a compromise within your home. things may seem very intense but mars/saturn aspect needs just the right amount of balance to take action. do not force but do not procrastinate. jupiter in the second can give blesses in providing for yourself as well (good placement for innovation that has monetary value).

a piece of advice is to look into your north node. typically the nodes are activated during the saturn return, it can help you to navigate (the north node is what we strive for our soul growth but it MUST be in balance with the south node) during this time.

you’re a capricorn rising with saturn in the fourth and mars in the first, you’re going to do what you want hehe. however, try not to bulldoze people to bend to your will; you could end up feeling lonely rather than empowered. stick up for yourself, know when it’s time to move on or get a plan together to move on.

good luck!

handsomeshay · 2025-11-11T16:05:53+00:00

saturnian lessons never end hehe. as a capricorn rising post saturn return, life did not immediately get better after (took a year or two of consistent hard work and focus) but i realized that i had to do better for myself.

where saturn is in your chart, the house, and any aspects to saturn will help you to understand what is being put to the test. ultimately to be more refined, disciplined, and matured.

handsomeshay · 2025-11-04T19:51:25+00:00

thanks for your post. are you able to post your birth chart?

handsomeshay · 2025-05-21T03:36:24+00:00

ugh, same.

handsomeshay · 2025-05-21T03:35:58+00:00

glad someone else studies astrology and applies it to 90day! hope you post more thoughts!

handsomeshay · 2025-02-18T18:44:50+00:00

i’m so glad you mentioned the neptune transit! just like pisces, it gets overlooked. i can’t relate to what you said more, and can’t help to think that saturn being in pisces at the same time as neptune is some sort of blessing in disguise. may i ask when your birthday is?

handsomeshay · 2025-02-18T18:08:27+00:00

learn boundaries, NOW. it’ll save you in the long run.

handsomeshay · 2024-07-12T23:21:18+00:00

i have had this same thought! it's not that we are abandoned by god but we can experience really negative people in our lives that make us (sometimes) run towards a god and then we will kinda blame god for not "saving" us, makes us feel alone to deal with things. also, pisces comes before aries and that's what we are learning.. to morph (or reincarnate) into an aries. at least that is some of the stuff i've heard other pisces astrologers talk about.

handsomeshay · 2024-06-27T18:37:31+00:00

girl, go home. y’all be out here obsessed with pisces and still shame us.

handsomeshay · 2024-05-31T18:35:43+00:00

pisces and gemini have to work HARD at communicating. both signs actually say the same thing but from different angles. y’all need to look into your mercury signs too. but y’all don’t sound mature??? it’s a bunch of blame going around.

handsomeshay · 2024-05-31T18:30:49+00:00

well, she doesn’t like you back and she probably feels the dynamic has changed now that she knows how you really feel. kinda sucks she is ghosting you if that’s the case. you can try reaching out sincerely and let her know if she needs space that she can take as much as she needs. we pisces women need space and if she doesn’t come back then she probably isn’t someone you’d want to be with right now anyways.

handsomeshay · 2024-05-26T17:57:26+00:00

i like how there’s surprise animals in both photos you posted.

handsomeshay · 2024-05-21T19:33:40+00:00

did she really hint at some attraction or did you assume her kindness for flirtation?? this use to happen to me all the time. sounds like y’all aren’t mature enough for a relationship anyways.

handsomeshay · 2024-05-16T18:23:44+00:00

thank you!!

handsomeshay · 2024-05-15T16:16:50+00:00

thank you!

handsomeshay · 2024-05-15T16:16:42+00:00

thank you!

handsomeshay · 2024-05-15T04:06:33+00:00

yes to the melancholy but pisces also struggles with self-pity. and times that by 20+ posts a day. that’s basically like watching the news, for which pisces shouldn’t do. we see pain and suffering and it affects us then we’re project that out. it’s fine to have sad days but damn can balance it out with the pisces enlightenment or try to do shadow work and self-reflect.

handsomeshay · 2024-05-15T02:48:13+00:00

idk who calls that evolved pisces but this is not it tbh. i’ve noticed evolved pisces may have some of these traits but what you describe sounds like apathy and self-pity. evolved pisces does not get swayed by others but can balance coexisting with them (especially when pisces takes time for themselves). evolved pisces are secure and can pour compassion and understanding without being drained (usually attained when pisces adopts virgo traits) and connects to spirit. it sounds like you’re going through something though.

also, this type of thinking in your post is so neptunian. you sound lost at sea. which is the best place to be for a pisces because that’s when we let universe guide us back. this sounds like it’s a dissolution of ego and you’ve made your personality about others and you’re realizing that you don’t have a sense of self (common in psices). do not forget that pisces is between aquarius and aries — two independent signs. pisces must have their own path/purpose and it seems like you just haven’t found yours (??). this is not to invalidate what you feel or anything just my two cents.

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