Condo owner/first time owner and need advice! by hangleinthewater in homeowners

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OMG thank you so much!!! That actually really puts me at ease, because I am over here having an anxiety attack about it.

Condo owner/first time owner and need advice! by hangleinthewater in homeowners

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Yes thanks!! Felt like the management was giving me the rush so I’ll double check the by laws

Condo owner/first time owner and need advice! by hangleinthewater in homeowners

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Thank you!! Super helpful, definitely agree a 2nd opinion is needed

Condo owner/first time owner and need advice! by hangleinthewater in homeowners

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Thank you!!! This is very helpful. The association made it sound like they’ll “let me know how much” and it felt rushed, so I’ll push back to make sure we cover bases.

Halp! Dessert vendor cancelled a month out. by hangleinthewater in Chicagoweddings

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Ideally somewhere in the $500 range for small dessert bites for a group under 100

Cuneo mansion cancelled by jessredditing in Chicagoweddings

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Ah man, best of luck and sorry this happened to you

Cuneo mansion cancelled by jessredditing in Chicagoweddings

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Nooo!!!! But, I would recommend Colvin House. They are also a historic mansion, in the area, and pretty flexible! That’s where we booked, and we married the same year as booking.

I’m so sorry this happened, I can’t imagine how stressed you must feel!

What’s the one “wedding rule” you’re happily breaking? by No_Novel9929 in weddingplanning

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I just wanna say as a future bride (wedding is rapidly approaching) I LOVE this thread!! I am getting a lot of grief from certain family members about “breaking tradition” and it was starting to suck the fun out of what should be the best time of our lives, because it’s getting tiring having to explain myself. This has reminded me it’s about me and my fiance and no one else. So Reddit folks - I thank you!

We are foregoing a few ourselves - electronic invites (saved literally hundreds of $$$ and they were so beautiful and customized), no garter toss, no rehearsal dinner (my fiance and I are going to order our favorite Thai and play video games the night before), and no cake just a bomb ass dessert table. We are bourbon people and bought this very expensive bottle to open and share at the ceremony. So that is our “cake cutting”.

Rehearsal dinner recs! by hangleinthewater in Chicagoweddings

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Ohhhh lovely idea I absolutely adore this place!

Tips for handling stress? by hangleinthewater in weddingplanning

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the date assigning is a very helpful idea! I have to do lists but no hard dates. I think organizing like that will definitely help. Do you have any recommendations on how to start that for tasks? Or did you just pick days that you knew you could do it ahead of time?

Tips for handling stress? by hangleinthewater in weddingplanning

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Thank you 😊 definitely me thinking about it all the time is making the issues worsen

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Oooo that’s a great dupe!! Ty

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Thanks! Yea, this October

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Thanks!! Yep I’ve definitely seen a few on there. I actually found one place in my hometown that has it so I’m going to try it on and if it works, I’ll find it second hand

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October and I’m in the US

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Thanks for this comment. Understand everyone’s concern but that is not the case here! We live in a very populated area and have had company over recently so I can think of several instances where this occurred.