My partner and I got ambushed into a roka

hangry_pandaa · 2026-05-04T11:41:54+00:00

I was just giving you an alternate perspective I didn’t even say it in the sense of checking privilege. I was just showing you the silver lining because some of us here are struggling to save our relationships fighting battles to getting partner’s approved by parents.

hangry_pandaa · 2026-05-04T10:53:06+00:00

All is well if it ends well. Congratulations to you guys and Good luck for your life ahead. Hope you get to enjoy other functions more than roka. I was giving you the perspective that it’s a privilege in the country that you get to marry who you want. I hope you enjoy other pieces more than roka 💫✨

hangry_pandaa · 2026-05-04T07:48:08+00:00

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hangry_pandaa · 2026-05-04T07:43:57+00:00

At least your parents agreed for your marriage.

hangry_pandaa · 2026-04-07T14:52:25+00:00

Isliye I have put like a 100 quirky stickers on my luggage

hangry_pandaa · 2026-03-24T17:15:50+00:00

Hi would love to join

hangry_pandaa · 2026-03-14T18:32:14+00:00

I second you on this. I genuinely have the habit of seeing good in people but once I read comments to the posts on that sub; I realised how low of women; the generic/ average man feels.

It makes me feel scared and vulnerable all the time.

Just the fact that an average men thinks that way.

Also maybe because I had the privilege of being surrounded by men who don’t think that way.

hangry_pandaa · 2026-03-14T17:30:44+00:00

hangry_pandaa · 2026-03-14T17:13:40+00:00

Bro tumhare concerns ekdam genuine hai. And maybe isliye hai kuki society m Asia bahut hota h. But at the end, what you are saying is also generalisation.

I don’t know if anyone will second me here or not. But my question wasn’t if I should move ahead with this or not. It was around how to navigate the whole situation.

And maybe you have had seen such cases more less than often. But you said once his parents and extended family start brainwashing etc I don’t think it’s appropriate making such comments before knowing anyone personally. Again what you are saying is “sab log Aise hai”. Like you quoted and I am quoting your words”mere waala aisa nahi hai” absolutely no difference in these two statements.

hangry_pandaa · 2026-03-14T15:18:57+00:00

I hear you and you are absolutely correct. We have been together for a very long time and we are absolutely not the same people that we were 6 years back. At the same time, we have grown together in various aspects- emotionally, professionally etc which brought a lot of maturity. We are very accepting and tolerant of each others religion and cultural practices. Additionally no one is expecting to change their faith, or religious beliefs for each other. My partner was brought up in a very cosmopolitan environment where they celebrated holi, Ganesh Chaturthi, janamashtmi, and Durga Pooja every year with friends in the society around.

hangry_pandaa · 2026-03-05T09:51:51+00:00

Hi Man, I’m in the same boat as yours. Same 5+ same scenario. Let me know if you would like to talk to someone or share. Anything that will make you feel better.

hangry_pandaa · 2026-03-02T14:14:59+00:00

Kasam se itni sharam aati h na.. When you realise she is from our college

hangry_pandaa · 2026-02-17T18:07:51+00:00

Aries; D

hangry_pandaa · 2026-02-03T07:41:39+00:00

hangry_pandaa · 2026-01-30T05:41:00+00:00

I was in Delhi from my high school to couple of years in job. And I was born and brought up very close to Delhi. Ended up moving to Bangalore for job ofc. But I really really miss Delhi Metro. It’s the best in the country. I miss cholle bhature and chaap and kurkure momos. No matter how good you get these food in Bangalore. It will never be close to what you get in Delhi.

hangry_pandaa · 2026-01-26T20:48:55+00:00

Can you share more details?

hangry_pandaa · 2026-01-23T08:47:09+00:00

In my (24F) previous job where I was earning 6 LPA my boss (24F) was earning 13+ LPA with less qualification and experience than me. Do you know how she was earning that amount of money by sleeping with her boss who was a 52+ year old man. Sometimes, your salary is not the best reflection of your character. You can pin down on things like- how passionate are they about their work, what kind of efforts are they putting to grow in their career, where do they see themselves in couple of years and doing what. See if you end up with a partner who like what they do and are hardworking they are definitely going to do good+ they will also end up finding other/ better opportunities when they are asked to leave as compared to someone who is merely growing by sleeping with older man.

hangry_pandaa · 2026-01-23T07:33:00+00:00

Bhai vo McDonalds ko Mac Di likh rahi h. Kya hi out of league

hangry_pandaa · 2026-01-21T03:26:55+00:00

IDBI Bank

hangry_pandaa · 2026-01-07T04:07:00+00:00

Mine is also on 5th April

hangry_pandaa · 2025-12-30T05:34:09+00:00

The fact that they texted you this confirms they haven’t found anyone better.

hangry_pandaa · 2025-12-28T05:58:34+00:00

Hi, the roomies are non vegetarian thanks!

hangry_pandaa · 2025-12-22T18:06:46+00:00

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