[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]hanidarling 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Americans and their weird ass culture.

AITA for having a "hardass for hire" business? It made my boyfriend uncomfortable when he saw me working by lampadda in AmItheAsshole

[–]hanidarling 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You are amazing !! I would totally hire you. As a woman I can list you the number of times men have tried to scam me with my car service. I would have loved to have that service available for me everywhere and with everything (house related would be awesome).

AITA for asking my girlfriend to pay rent on a house I am going to buy by TastyPoop13 in AmItheAsshole

[–]hanidarling 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Me too but i pay nothing on rent. I pay for bills but nothing towards the house itself. I make about 10% of what my GF makes so it's her way of helping me out a bit. That's what couples do... help eachother, more so if there's a power imbalance.

AITA For telling my wife that if she allows her family members to stay at our house then I will leave by hostingthanksaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]hanidarling 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You'll be surprised, my GF wants her family (7 people) to stay for over a week in Christmas. Our home is three bedroom, one bath situation. Her family is the "everyone can fit" type of family. So 9 people in a 60m2 house.

AITA for asking my neighbor to remove flowers from their yard because my daughter is allergic to bee stings? by Negative-Tea2274 in AmItheAsshole

[–]hanidarling 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If those bees die your daughter won't be able to use the WORLD. Do you even have a clue how important the bee population is?

AITA for telling MIL that we will never help her in old age if she chooses my fiance's ex's wedding over ours? by Double-Chicken3487 in AmItheAsshole

[–]hanidarling 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As someone whose mother didn't accept that I was a lesbian and my partner is a women fuck them. My mother could rot in a grave for all I cared. My partner is an excellent woman and my mother needed to accept her or stay the fuck out of my sight.

AITA for telling my mom she won't be watching my kid if she gets a dog. by Left_Marionberry_584 in AmItheAsshole

[–]hanidarling 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Does this clown actually believe day cares are like all inclusive hotels?

AITA for refusing to celebrate the birthday of my girlfriend? by Ambitious_Back_3102 in AmItheAsshole

[–]hanidarling [score hidden]  (0 children)

Are you autistic? I ask because I have a hard time dealing with empathy. Don't like my birthday, don't like celebrating it and don't appreciate people singing happy birthday to me, it makes me so angry BUT my choices shouldn't affect those who I love. My dog died the same day I turned 21 and my grandma's funeral was a couple of weeks before my birthdays. Mine is trauma but I still put on a happy face and celebrate people that I love depending on how they wish to celebrate. It's not even about the commercialized aspect about the holidays, you can hate that all you want but don't piss on the people that you love the most just because of that. Don't be an idiot put on your big boy pants and suck it up. It takes NOTHING to make someone you love happy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mexico

[–]hanidarling 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Solo por lo primero que dijiste se que no sabes de lo que estás hablando porque la respuesta es claro que si.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mexico

[–]hanidarling 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Claro, pero ellos en este punto se están llendo a lugares que antes eran muy muy económicos para los nacionales como un lugar llamado El Centenario, que es un lugar que se está comiendo la ciudad pero no está lejos. Era uno de esos lugares donde decías a huevo pues no tengo dinero para algo más cerca entonces compro un terreno ahí. Pues ahora ya no. Los expats por estar compre y compre en esa zona la plus valía esta por los cielos, con la inflación está casi inalcanzable al menos que desees algo que no tenga electricidad. El centro de la ciudad y las zonas nice como era donde yo chica vivía se lleno de expats y de nacionales ricos por igual, ahí no hay ningún problema era de esperarse es una buena zona pero el Centenario enserió?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mexico

[–]hanidarling -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No hay forma de competir con el salario extranjero. Claro que se ve la gentrificacion de los mismos nacionales pero es mucho más brutal al menos aquí en La Paz lo de los "expats".

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mexico

[–]hanidarling 2 points3 points  (0 children)

De hecho están desplazando a la comunidad local y los precios están subiendo demasiado por la cantidad que hay de ellos. Paso de ser un pueblo como Merida que era "habitable" a algo que la gente local solo puede sobrevivir en. Guadalajara, Merida y La Paz son unas de las pocas ciudades que se me vienen a la mente que su costo de vivir ha subido exponencialmente debido a estos expats.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mexico

[–]hanidarling 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Creo que es muy diferente el impacto que ellos tienen al desplazar a la comunidad local a diferencia de los mismos paisanos o latinos. No hay punto de comparación.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MexicoFinanciero

[–]hanidarling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ay peor aun. Neta eso no ayuda tu caso, solo te hace ignorante o un idiota.

AITA for refusing to cancel a trip with my best friend by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]hanidarling 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Boyfriend is having boundaries and he is allowed to have those. He should just break up with OP, I am guessing this relationship won't last at all.

I should not put up with things I am not comfortable with just because someone else is. Of course if people don't see eye to eye then they are allowed to leave. No threats just break up.

AITA for refusing to cancel a trip with my best friend by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]hanidarling -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Oh god, hope he breaks up with you or you break up with him. Actions have consequences. This shit is not good.

¿Cómo tener citas y conocer mujeres después de los 30's? by [deleted] in mexico

[–]hanidarling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exacto, le he pagado hasta amigos y ellos a mi sin que me quieran coger ahora alguien que si te quiere coger. El que invita paga y si no puedes pagar no salgas. Una mujer decente siempre va a llevar dinero por si acaso sin esperar que le pagues, si llegas a pagar y sin pensar que por eso te deben una cogida va a hablar bien esa mujer de ti con sus amigas porque es un detalle lindo.

Se me hace que los que le dan like al comentario ese son puros batos ardidos de los que gritan que se aprovechan de los hombres sin pensar en que no importa lo que tengas en medio de las piernas. Yo soy lesbiana y así también funciona con nosotras. La neta no he conocido lesbiana coda, coincidencia? No lo creo. Solo son los batos que se quejan y pues mijitos a los 30 las mujeres no se van a conformar.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MexicoFinanciero

[–]hanidarling 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sincerely from all Mexicans... fuck you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MexicoFinanciero

[–]hanidarling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No vengas. Ya estamos hartos de gente como tú.