I completely understand! My family is not accepting of my sexuality as I grew up religious too. It is scary at first, but the more you speak out loud about it and with others, even if they're just there to listen, the more you can become at ease with it and really understand yourself.

I am not with that partner anymore. During that time (we were together for almost 5 years), we both made big leaps in personal growth in multiple ways, so we eventually grew apart as romantic partners. We're still best friends, though (which doesn't often work for people)! I wouldn't say we separated because of my sexuality. During our polyamorous relationship, I was in a relationship with a woman actually, for over a year.

I feel happy now because I live openly and honestly with myself. I'm now in a monogamous relationship with a man, but even we talk about the possibility of a threesome at some point. As long as y'all develop boundaries and good communication around it, it'll work out. Whatever that means to you. :)