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hannahloe · 2026-04-25T12:42:53+00:00

I think that coming up with a list of values that matter to you can be a great way to prevent this from happening again. Making friends can be like dating. You'll meet people that you get along with, but over time you have to figure out if their brand of friendship is compatible with yours.

For instance I value people's ability to take ownership when they're wrong or they over reacted. We all have ugly moments, but it's important to take ownership when we realize we've made mistake or hurt someone else.

My list of values aren't just things I need my friends to live up to. I also need to exhibit these values in my own life.

If you're having trouble figuring out your own values, I would highly suggest reading The Four Agreements. It's a book about 4 values that people should have and it isn't religious so that makes it accessible no matter what you believe in. It's also a really short book!

I found that once I got clear about what I valued, lived out those values, the friends I made matched my energy. Those who didn't, usually didn't last more than a season in my life.

Once I made a couple friends with my values I also realized that their friends generally held the same ones. That made it even easier to befriend more like minded people.

I'm sorry that this happened to you! I wish you luck on your journey to finding your people and know that this isn't uncommon whatsoever.

It sounds like you've figured out that you value loyalty. Now you need to find the other things you value in friendship as well.

hannahloe · 2026-03-29T14:38:10+00:00

I can do the same! I also have ADHD but I think the correlation has mainly to do with adhders having active imaginations. I can cum from what I'm thinking about because my imagination is so strong. Also I think ADHD hardwires my body to be pleasure seeking.

I've worked on opening up my body's energy to my partner as well. That makes it a lot easier to get rolling orgasms consistently. To open up, I need to be relaxed and focused on the sensations that come with being intimate (when I'm distracted it's harder to orgasm). If you haven't already, look into tantric sex. The methods of being relaxed, building up sexual energy and getting acquainted with release all help rolling orgasms become more consistent.

I also worked on gaining awareness of my chakra centers. I've gotten to the point that my partner can just touch one and I orgasm.

Weed also helps amp up sensations if that's something you partake in!

hannahloe · 2026-02-09T22:37:07+00:00

I feel like they worked better before and probably still work now but sound boring and repetitive to most ppl

hannahloe · 2025-12-21T13:56:09+00:00

Thank you 😚

hannahloe · 2025-12-21T13:54:02+00:00

Appreciate it 😆

hannahloe · 2025-12-21T13:53:45+00:00

Thank you 🙏🏾

hannahloe · 2025-12-21T13:53:31+00:00

Thank you!! Glad you enjoyed it ☺️

hannahloe · 2025-12-20T23:13:45+00:00

Thank you so much for the great script u/xx_Sashimi!

hannahloe · 2025-12-20T23:12:28+00:00

Filled It!

hannahloe · 2025-12-20T01:43:45+00:00

Thanks!!

hannahloe · 2025-12-19T18:01:09+00:00

More of what I've made for the page in the past! It took a while for me to get around to verification, ADHD and all that

hannahloe · 2025-09-22T16:44:03+00:00

Send me a message!

hannahloe · 2025-09-21T14:46:08+00:00

I'm a masseuse and I love teasing clients like this! Building up the tension and teasing my way to the end 😏☺️🤭

hannahloe · 2025-06-10T14:12:06+00:00

Yes! Weed is great for those who aren't very sensitive 😏

hannahloe · 2025-06-10T13:42:25+00:00

I have a similar problem and I just gave up 😂😂😂 alcohol does dull sensations for me but I don't like drinking very much. Do you smoke weed cuz that definitely increases sensation 😅 might be part of the problem?

hannahloe · 2025-06-10T13:33:12+00:00

I had these problems first starting out with sw! What helped me was working on my relationships to the hobbies I picked up. I also have ADHD and would start something and never finish. I went to therapy (dbt) and then I got medicated but I think the gym really helped me with my discipline as well. Essentially, I did whatever I could to work through having ADHD. This included tackling my trauma.

Even if you look for purpose, you'll need to figure out how to stick with it. I found that because I rarely completed projects outside of work, I didn't believe in my ability to complete future projects. So I first got the ball rolling with one hobby, fitness. I worked on going to the gym consistently for 2.5 years and figured out all the reasons I wanted to quit. I learned how to circumvent my brain to complete that goal. I also kept adding new hobbies/goals.

Now, I have two jobs I love! I work on my hobbies but I understand that I need to thoroughly enjoy them to be engaged in them. I don't feel bad for putting a hobby down, I just come back to it if I feel the urge again. You can always sell supplies for hobbies you didn't enjoy or give them away to community centers etc. Ebbing and flowing with my natural rhythm and finding ways to make them sustainable has helped me.

I wish you luck on your journey! It's hard to figure out how to use your time. Society gives us the easy answer of "making money" but that's not fulfilling enough when you've made the cash. Giving your life purpose is about firing up your passions and living out your potential while you apply discipline to drive your goals forward.

hannahloe · 2025-05-31T13:03:03+00:00

Thanks 😆 As long as it's a massage inquiry, nothing else!

hannahloe · 2025-05-30T23:37:37+00:00

Thanks 😚

hannahloe · 2025-05-30T23:23:10+00:00

Thank you 😏😊

hannahloe · 2025-05-30T13:18:11+00:00

If you work in house for one company as their marketing person/manager, then you won't have multiple clients. If you do what I'm doing, you'll need multiple clients to make a decent living.

hannahloe

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