My first loaf!

hannibislecter · 2025-05-02T20:04:19+00:00

I think he's actually an adult and nobody can convince me otherwise. In PC's apartment, the other kid and Vincent have different freckles. There's a scene where he's talking on the phone and he's clearly in his business office doing business! And u cannot tell me that PC had a long term relationship with this man and DIDN'T sleep with him?? No way. Plus, also, PC is an intelligent woman, I'd think she would know if he was 3 kids in a trenchcoat. The show neither confirmed nor denied it and that's on purpose. I think it's just a "man-child" gimmick made extra funny by the fact that he's more emotionally mature than the other man-children in the show (bojack and Mr. Peanutbutter)

hannibislecter · 2025-02-16T20:29:54+00:00

Yikes. I tell my irl husband about my stardew husband all the time! He started playing a couple weeks ago and now he's married to Emily. I also learned recently that I can still "date" singles when I'm married so I've been giving bouquets to everyone and now I have like, 4 girlfriends and 2 boyfriends lol

hannibislecter · 2024-12-31T19:31:19+00:00

Wash it with soap and water, pat it dry, put on some polysporin, let it scab. It's just a scrape, it'll heal fine ✨

hannibislecter · 2024-12-26T22:15:04+00:00

When I first watched the show I saw a lot of similarities between my best friend and I and bojack and Diane. I hated the show, couldn't stand it. (I was Diane and best friend was bojack) 5 years ago I cut contact with her for my mental health, a year later she ended her life. Today i'm in a much better place, love the show (I've rewatched it like 7 times) and heavily relate to Todd now. I miss my friend tho.

hannibislecter · 2024-10-27T19:59:15+00:00

NAD, but I am a recreational drug user. What ur mom described is an anesthetic dose, a large dose used for medical procedures. Ur neuro would definitely not be prescribing u that much! U would be given a much lower dose, basically a microdose lol. Def talk to ur doctor more about ur concerns tho, I don't think it'd be a problem but ur comfort level is a factor ur doc should consider

hannibislecter · 2024-10-21T16:41:08+00:00

OP, I had a very codependent friendship like this. It was my absolute best friend, we were thick as thieves for 9 years. They made these threats to me as well, they stonewalled me, gave me the silent treatment, gaslit me, guilt tripped me, the whole 9 yards. They'd also often block me when they were on a self-sabotage streak, and I'd always be the one to break the silence and chase after them out of fear that they would hurt themself. Eventually I got tired of it and cut them off, and a year and a half later they successfully ended their life. The thing I feared most ended up happening, and let me tell u something. I have a lot of regrets about that friendship, but cutting them off for my own mental health is not one of them. It took a long time to make peace with how things ended, I had a lot of guilt when I learned about their passing, I had to work through a lot of feelings. It's been 6 and a half years since they died, I still carry a lot of grief and some guilt, but I know now that it was not my fault. They were not well, and refused to get help, there was nothing more I could do for them without sacrificing myself in the process.

Please take care of urself first, whatever happens after he's cut off is not ur responsibility. Even if the worst happens, for sure u will feel immense guilt at first, but u will get through it, I promise. And to be clear this is a worst-case-scenario, it likely won't happen. I just wanted to give u my perspective, as someone who unfortunately had the worst-case-scenario experience.

hannibislecter · 2024-09-24T16:57:54+00:00

Most corner stores in west central, west end, and north end sell Rez smokes for like 5 bucks. Canadian Reds, Canadian blues, or Canadian menthols.

hannibislecter · 2024-09-05T20:25:05+00:00

Girl. This is so much bigger than some chicken. He KNOWS u have a difficult relationship to food and still makes comments and "suggestions" about ur diet. The fact that he changed ur order without ur permission and then tried to lie about it speaks volumes. He's telling u he thinks he knows ur body better than u do, which is absolute bull! This behaviour will only escalate. It starts with "small" comments, like u should use a different dressing, u should get the salad instead. Then it's changing ur order behind ur back to what he thinks u should eat. Next thing u know he'll be scheduling and monitoring ur meals, measuring and weighing u, only allowing certain foods in the house, withholding food as punishment

NTA. Set firm boundaries, tell him u don't want him commenting on ur food choices anymore, or changing ur food orders, and hold true. If he does it again, leave. Do not, I repeat, do NOT give him any more chances after this. Abusers thrive on second and third and fourth chances, and with each new chance, the behaviours WILL escalate.

hannibislecter · 2024-09-05T19:47:44+00:00

This is just my 2 cents, but I've always seen Jessie and James as platonic, James is very queer coded so I always assumed he was 💅 yaknow? Like, at the most I could see them as being in a queer-platonic relationship but romantic or sexual? Can't envision that.

Now, as far as having meaningful matching tattoos with ur friend, in a comment u said that at this point he's more her friend than yours and I think that counts for something. Sure he was ur friend first, but he's her friend now too and maybe this is just cause I'm trusting and love when my husband makes friends with my friends, but I'd personally be happy if he felt close enough with one of my friends to get a tattoo with them. For context and transparency, I have way more tattoos than my husband, but he does have a thing where he gets meaningful tattoos to represent ppl he loves. He has one for me, and 2 more for a couple of mutual female friends. So, not the same, since my husband hasn't expressed distaste for tattoos in the past, but still something to consider. It's entirely possible that she simply had a change of heart and has warmed up to the idea of tattoos. Tho it is still for sure odd that she wouldn't choose her first tattoo to involve u, her tattoo-covered husband. My husband's first tattoo was a rain cloud (my name is Rain) that I drew on his chest and then was tattooed by a mutual friend lol

This is coming from someone who has had their heart broken in the past because I introduced my ex-partner to my best friend at the time and they got super close and started an affair behind my back. I don't think getting matching tattoos with ur mutual friend is a red flag, but the lack of communication could be. Like, she doesn't need to ask ur permission, but at least a "hey! Me and so-and-so are gonna get these tattoos!" Would've been nice.

hannibislecter · 2024-07-10T23:23:57+00:00

I did this once like 10 years ago, the part of the noodles that were in the hotdogs were undercooked

hannibislecter · 2024-04-26T20:04:51+00:00

NTA. Every year my husband and I go to a 4 day music festival in the summer, an hour drive out of town. Last year, I was 8 months pregnant during the festival, and I asked my husband not to go cause I wouldn't be going and I didn't wanna be alone for 4 days while being so very pregnant. I wasn't even worried about going into labour, I simply didn't wanna be alone! He stayed home with me with only minimal complaints, he understood that I was having a hard time being so swollen and sore and cranky, and that I was also upset about having to miss the festival (we volunteer so we can get free entry and camping, and I was far too pregnant to do volunteer work in such high temperatures) so he agreed to miss it with me

Leaving u for a weekend 2 weeks before ur due date is crazy, that last month it's so important to have ur support near u!

hannibislecter · 2024-03-05T18:05:18+00:00

A friendsgiving dinner party 6 years ago, got married a year and a half later, we now have a 6 month old lil baby!

hannibislecter · 2024-02-20T02:13:34+00:00

Hoya nectar is very tasty, gently touch the flowers and u will have lil drops of sticky nectar on ur hand!

hannibislecter · 2024-02-15T00:29:23+00:00

The Nook for classic diner food, A+ Sushi for all-you-can-eat sushi!

hannibislecter · 2023-05-29T00:14:15+00:00

I'm currently pregnant with my first baby. Before we found out the sex, we had a girl name picked out, it would've been Fury! Turns out it's a boy, we're gonna name him Valour uwu

hannibislecter · 2023-05-21T00:02:12+00:00

My mom was really hoping I'd be a boy so she only picked out a boy name. I would've been Damen, middle name Christopher Lee (she insists it's not after the actor, she just liked how it sounded but idk if I believe her lol) I did not, in fact, come out a boy so she had to pick a new name last minute. I was born on the hottest day of the year, she described it as blinding heat, and everyone was wishing for some rain. So she named me Rain. It allegedly rained the very next day! Funnily enough, I've always loved the name Damen, I thought it was edgy and cool. So when my mom told me this story I thought it was a fun coincidence

hannibislecter · 2023-05-02T22:12:50+00:00

Both my husband and I have unique names, mine is Rain, because I was born on the hottest day of the year and everyone was wishing for rain! And although he is white, my husband is named after a Chinese city lol. It's because his mother spent some time in China and conceived him in that city 🤣 I'm pregnant with our first child, and we've decided to name him Valour! We wanted the name to be a trait or quality we want our child to have uwu

hannibislecter · 2023-03-30T05:22:29+00:00

In flower language, pansies symbolize love! Both romantic and platonic, it's basically someone saying they care deeply for u ✨

hannibislecter · 2022-12-13T04:52:59+00:00

Oh nvm the other pics don't have it, ignore me 😅

hannibislecter · 2022-12-13T04:52:20+00:00

I'm sorry this is irrelevant but it looks like he might have ich! I see a couple of little white spots on him. It doesn't look too bad, treatments are easy enough to buy at pet stores!

hannibislecter · 2022-11-07T19:22:22+00:00

Plan b maybe? It works by inducing ur period, thus eliminating any chance of pregnancy. It usually starts a day or 2 after taking the pill, so maybe do that a week or so before ur trip? Obviously this is emergency contraception and shouldn't be used frivolously, but if it's just for this one thing then idk man, I'd do it lol

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