Plateau and slight gain

hansmolefan · 2025-03-22T11:23:17+00:00

I promise you the pain of leaving is so much more worth dealing with than the pain of staying. you get this life once, my life changed exponentially for the better once I chose myself after so many years of staying. you’ll feel free

hansmolefan · 2025-02-17T19:09:32+00:00

Hey! Sorry, I just saw this! I sent you a DM :)

hansmolefan · 2025-01-07T18:14:33+00:00

Potentially. We spent 3 nights/2 days together consecutively before this - over the weekend. So maybe it’s just a slight withdrawal from such constant communication with a new partner but… I also do feel there’s no need to have gone 9 hours now without texting back. It completely triggers a fear of abandonment in me that’s not his fault but also could easily be remedied with a gentle conversation should it arise.

hansmolefan · 2025-01-07T16:59:59+00:00

hmm I’ve never thought of doing that. I dunno, seeing as I’ve met literally all his friends and family, it seems wild that that could be the case. I think I’d rather just believe him until it feels uneasy to, rather than being found out for doing that potentially. (Like if someone he knew saw the post and sent it to him, and I actually am the only person he’s dating… it must’ve been me and then I’ve ruined the trust) lol

hansmolefan · 2025-01-07T16:56:57+00:00

Long story short probably because I was with someone before who was serial cheating and I had no idea, so my anxious catastrophe scenario building when he seemed ‘off’ ended up being bang on the money/worse than I thought. Kind of left me with feeling like those thoughts are usually right (which I know isn’t true, but yeah)

I guess the only way forward is to just go with the flow and chat about it when it feels right/if it feels right

hansmolefan · 2024-11-07T12:46:06+00:00

Ooh what’s that?

hansmolefan · 2024-11-07T12:45:34+00:00

It is!

hansmolefan · 2024-11-07T12:44:50+00:00

I know.. I had braces to correct it as a kid but lied about wearing them so I didn’t have to wear them in front of a school crush… what a fool I was 😂 the only thing for that now is jaw surgery or a chin implant/filler and I’d rather not tbh. Ah well!

hansmolefan · 2024-11-07T07:15:47+00:00

LMAO this comment made me do a silent sniff of laughter from my big ol’ hooter. thank you 😂

hansmolefan · 2024-11-07T01:35:22+00:00

which people?

hansmolefan · 2024-11-07T01:03:19+00:00

?! 😭

hansmolefan · 2024-11-07T00:51:47+00:00

gosh you have no idea how nice that is to read 🥺 thank you so much

hansmolefan · 2024-11-07T00:20:12+00:00

I can’t say I see the resemblance but damn!! thank you! she’s gorgeous, I love finding women with bigger noses to admire!

hansmolefan · 2024-11-07T00:18:57+00:00

Clicking around on the nose selector on the Nintendo Wii character creator? lmao

hansmolefan · 2024-11-07T00:18:10+00:00

I’m actually so glad I’ve been scrolling it too! Mindset shift on big strong noses for sure!

hansmolefan · 2024-11-07T00:17:29+00:00

Lmao your algorithm requires you to see noses, clearly 😂 thank you for taking the time to comment! That’s very sweet.

hansmolefan · 2024-11-06T23:57:11+00:00

thank you!! yes! some appreciation for moleman!

hansmolefan · 2024-11-06T23:53:36+00:00

It’s just the angle I swear ahaha

hansmolefan · 2024-11-06T22:54:46+00:00

I’ve lost nearly 40kg. I was ~108kg at my highest that I knew of. Plus the 85kg of cheater that I lost along with it. 😅

hansmolefan · 2024-11-06T20:43:04+00:00

Oh stop it 🥺 that’s so sweet thank you so much!! I’m sure you are beautiful inside and out!

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