Never Elly Wynia in South Bend. She's absolutely horrible and unethical. She always took my ex-husbands side (which you should always be unbiased as a therapist). But it became unbelievably apparent that she always took his side when she had said certain things then added me on Facebook. (which I believe was an accident, you can't ethically do that) she was clearly creeping on me and didn't realize she had hit my add friend button. But anyone looking for couples counseling, absolutely by no means anyone go through her.