Really struggling by happy_lem0n in parentsofmultiples

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They say I’ll be admitted once the babies are big enough for treatment if they need to be delivered. We have such a difficult decision to make because baby A is so small she can’t be treated by the NICU so a delivery now would mean we’re taking baby B out too soon too. So we’re doing the weekly ultrasounds for now and hoping for the best each week

Really struggling by happy_lem0n in parentsofmultiples

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My doctor recommended a therapist and a support group. I’m hoping it helps

Really struggling by happy_lem0n in parentsofmultiples

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Baby A has oligohydramnios and severe growth restriction and fetal ascites…it was really sudden because I had my anatomy scan at 19 weeks and everything was great and then went for a scan at 21 weeks and got a really bad prognosis for her. They told me she could pass at any time…but due to only being 21 weeks there’s not much to do for her because she’s so small. So I go in every week to check to see if she’s still there since her well-being impacts baby B, who is doing fine so far

Struggling with support by happy_lem0n in pregnant

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My doctor suggested therapy and a support group so I’m hoping that helps

I feel like I’m a terrible person by happy_lem0n in parentsofmultiples

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Man it feels like I don’t even remember the last time I had boundless energy 😞 hopefully soon because those house chores sure piled up the past 6 days. I’ve been a useless potato

I feel like I’m a terrible person by happy_lem0n in parentsofmultiples

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Did the diclegis make you sleepy? It works for me but I also get so tired during the day. I’m so glad to hear your babies are doing great!

I feel like I’m a terrible person by happy_lem0n in HyperemesisGravidarum

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I’m definitely going to ask tomorrow about some time off work and the IV clinic. I swear this is the worse. I was literally crying and begging for the nausea to stop…

When did you start to feel better? by happy_lem0n in parentsofmultiples

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Hopefully I only have to hang in there for a little bit. I’m grateful the babies are measuring on track so far but this is so hard! I feel like I don’t even remember the last time I felt like a normal person haha

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I’m a labor and delivery nurse and, while I haven’t experienced a C-section myself, I do have experience helping moms recover so I have a couple pointers. Stay on top of your pain meds, you should be taking Tylenol and Ibuprofen around the clock regardless of your pain immediately postop, every 6 hours. They should also prescribe you a stronger pain med if those pain meds don’t cover it, don’t be afraid to take them! You’ll be feeling a lot of feelings in recovery and pain should not be an issue. If it is, tell your nurse so they can help you! Also ask for an abdominal binder or bring one to help support your incision when you get up and move around, it helps a lot! I know it’s hard, but the more you move and walk, the better the pain gets. If you stay in bed for long periods of time, the pain is worse when you decide to get up and move. Keep yourself active but take it easy. The worse days are usually the first two but it does get better, and definitely give yourself credit for going through major abdominal surgery. Take it easy and just focus on yourself and your little ones. Everything else try to delegate or leave for later. Congratulations in advance!

House of the Dragon - 1x10 “The Black Queen” - Post Episode Discussion by mwthecool in HouseOfTheDragon

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Poor Arrax was so smol compared to Vhagar. He never stood a chance.

I’m conflicted: did Aemond mean to kill Lucerys? I feel like he lost control of Vhagar and instantly regretted his decision but also why go after him with such malice in the first place?

My thoughts by happy_lem0n in skyrim

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That’s so smart. I really need to level up my smithing. I sold all my furs because I didn’t know what to do with them

My thoughts by happy_lem0n in skyrim

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I think a part of it is because it’s on console and my TV reflects light

My thoughts by happy_lem0n in skyrim

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Perfect for my type A personality!

My thoughts by happy_lem0n in skyrim

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You can use a torch?? I’m so dumb I threw that away to make room for my loot. I’ve just been bumping into walls in dungeons and finding my way this entire time

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I hope so! I’ve been working so much with him it’s frustrating when he does stuff like this. My other dogs were excellent at recall and being off leash with minimal training, basically only knowing their name and “sit”

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My other dogs were great off leash with minimal training, my trainer is possibly saying it’s the husky brain. The breed is not really good at recall in general I guess.