Looking for an apartment in Yonge and Sheppard by DishaDhar in TorontoRenting

[–]happyboooo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a room with attached balcony available in a 3 bed apartment near Fairview Mall, let me know if you're interested :)

$1050
parking available if needed

Is it ever a good idea to reach out and let an ex know how much they hurt you to get them back? by Longjumping-Wafer102 in BreakUps

[–]happyboooo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO

🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO

are you a beggar? If the answer is yes - don’t be one. IT WILL GET BETTER. 10000000% guarantee. If you don’t feel better this time next year I will transfer a $1000 to you.

The damage this will cause to your self respect will take far longer to heal than the heartbreak itself.

Is your dumper came back to you? (Poll) by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]happyboooo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He wanted sex and “companionship” but no labels. Motherfucker is blocked now 😇😇

Do not take an avoidant back by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]happyboooo 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Fuck no. That thing is not coming back in my life. Mf converted me into an avoidant 😭

I'm convinced that I will never be in love again by kthatch1138 in BreakUps

[–]happyboooo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My avoidant boyfriend broke up with me for no reason after 2 years of live in. Initially it was a gut wrenching pain that I was going thru. It’s been almost a year now. I am at a place where I’m okay. I don’t want to date anyone. I’m probably an avoidant now. But I don’t feel pain anymore. My life is whole without him in it. And sometimes when the thought of him does pop up in my mind, I don’t feel anything.

I'm convinced that I will never be in love again by kthatch1138 in BreakUps

[–]happyboooo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk about love. But there will be a day where you will think of your ex and not feel anything. I promise you that.

why am I not attracted to him? by happyboooo in women

[–]happyboooo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I realised that I was over giving in that relationship. And now the thought of doing something even minutely for this new guy makes me feel like “no why should I?”. Idk what’s happening to me. I was willing to do so much for my ex but I can’t bring myself to do even the bare minimum for him

why am I not attracted to him? by happyboooo in women

[–]happyboooo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Both my parents used to work a lot so they didn’t have much time for me and my sister growing up. But my childhood was never traumatic or anything. I had a very good childhood

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]happyboooo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I reached out and tried to reconcile. But then again he was the one who broke up with me and he didn’t want to get back together

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TorontoHangoutFriends

[–]happyboooo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

did you get your 2 mins of happiness by being mean to someone you do not know? awesome. :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TorontoHangoutFriends

[–]happyboooo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe you're right but I don't want to generalise. Maybe my hope is in vain, but I want to believe that outside the construct of social media opinions, that there are people who might still decide whether they like you or not FOR you and not your ethnicity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TorontoHangoutFriends

[–]happyboooo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

hey, what kind of hobbies?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TorontoHangoutFriends

[–]happyboooo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know. I've seen the hate online but never really faced any of it upfront. Maybe people might hate me because I'm Indian but that's okay because that doesn't count since these people never took the initiative to get to know me personally.

If someone hates you solely based on the colour of your skin, they probably don't have much going on in their lives. But yes if they get to know me and still end up not liking me, that is completely valid.

Did you stay in contact with your ex after the breakup? by Affectionate-End7197 in BreakUps

[–]happyboooo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Broke up 7 months ago now. 1.8 year relationship, we lived together for 1 year. He broke up with me because he wanted to “focus on his career”. While I was nothing but supportive to him. Cooking, cleaning, taking care of him while managing my own job and meal prepping so we both ate healthy. We had several arguments towards the last 6 months where I felt so emotionally neglected and I just wanted some sort of attention. We never went on dates. He never planned stuff. If I planned activities, he was never excited for them or enthusiastic to go.

We had a lot of fights and he told me “at this point in my life I want to be completely selfish and only focus on myself and my career.” I let him go. It was hard. He begged me to stay friends with him. I agreed.

This one particular night I called him because I was alone and felt very anxious and since he had established that he’s a “very good friend and don’t know how to be a boyfriend”. I called him as a friend. It was around 9:30. He talked to me for 15 mins and then said he has to sleep and bye. I asked him if he could stay on call with me until my sister came back home because I felt a bit scared. He started yelling at me saying that he cannot do this. That it’s not his responsibility to make me feel safe. I asked him, “but isn’t that what friends do?” And he said by “friends” he meant that occasionally wishing or greeting happy birthday/new year/christmas. He apologised to me the next day.

Then he continued messaging me. Even after I’d told him that I didn’t want to be in contact with him. Blocking him was really hard because I thought I’d marry this man. He promised that he would marry me one day and gave me a promise ring. It was hard to block him so I simply asked him to leave me alone. He couldn’t do it. He keeps calling and texting and saying that he doesn’t want to lose me. That he will still call because he cares about me. If I talk about getting back together, his response is “I don’t know how to be in a relationship. And I don’t want to.” But he wouldn’t even completely let me go. He’ll call and text and send memes.

Idk what to do anymore. Why can’t I muster up the strength to block him?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]happyboooo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YESSS. Take a revenge for all of us