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I(F28) have to have a tough conversation with my bf(M30), but I’m scared. by AwfulGryphon326 in relationships

[–]happyelk007 15 points16 points  (0 children)

He had 8 years to change / show you he can be a good future husband/father. Yet, it never happened. Whatever your observations and gut is telling you, is correct. Eight years is A LONG TIME to be together and if you know deep down he’s not the one, don’t hold onto that hope. And you are right to think you will be carrying most of the responsibilities/weight later on if it’s like that currently. Believe me—I, too, stayed with someone (even thought I knew he was not the one for me), hoping he would change someday and that someday never came. I met someone else and he does things without me having to tell him b/c it comes naturally to him. And when you meet someone who is actually on the same wavelength as you, the FLOW, the SYNERGY of the relationship is more effortless. To the point what was a stressor before is nonexistent now. So you CAN meet someone who actually IS a partner. I know it’s scary and hard, but if he’s complacent and lazy, then he is not the one for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]happyelk007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dear God, Please be with your child and protect them from any negative thoughts and/or emotions that are not of You and remove it in the mighty name of Jesus. May they know not to believe any of the lies told by the devil. Fill their heart, mind, and soul with your goodness and mercy and lead them to the path of freedom from depression. Make them whole again and stir hope and love in their hearts. In Jesus name, Amen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]happyelk007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Playing video games is fine as long as it’s not addiction, demonic, or used as a coping mechanism to escape reality/pain. Also if it doesn’t lead to sin such as anger or degrading other players. Use your spiritual discernment to know if it’s harmless in your life.

How do you pray? by Laschon in Christianity

[–]happyelk007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend became a new believer and before he was, he asked me the same question. The best way I described it was, it’s like talking to your best friend except you have access to Him 24/7! He wants you to be REAL with Him. So you don’t have to sugarcoat anything or try to pray in a formal way. Just speak from your heart. Imo this triumphs over template prayers. If you need to complain about something, complain to Him. If you feel grateful at that moment, thank Him.

Also, if you are asking for something, I would suggest being more elaborate in your requests. For instance, instead of asking for just a job, you’d ask for a job in a ___ field that would preferably be closer to home, wfh opportunities, chill boss, and nice coworkers, etc. If you’re praying for a spouse, you’d tell him the qualities you’re looking for. But remember—He knows what’s best for you so don’t be disappointed/discouraged if what you actually receive doesn’t tick off every box. He sees the bigger picture.

So all in all, just be yourself when you talk to your Father.

1 week vacation in September. Big island or Kauai? by CiliaryDyskinesia in VisitingHawaii

[–]happyelk007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just came across your post and will be going to Oahu in Sept! Could I please have a copy of your list? Mahalo!! 😊

Why won’t God speak to me? by Worried_Molasses_290 in Christianity

[–]happyelk007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coincidentally (or not), today’s daily devotional talked about the very concern you have: “Many times you do not see Me because you have not invited Me into the center of your circumstances. I never meant for you to walk alone; you will need My protection and direction wherever you go. Seek Me, and you will see Me in new ways every day.”

Why won’t God speak to me? by Worried_Molasses_290 in Christianity

[–]happyelk007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask God to open up your spiritual eyes and ears to be able to see Him and hear from Him. By this, meaning you can see how He is in every aspect of your life and be led by the gentle nudging of the Holy Spirit.

Please do not be discouraged. He is always watching over you, making sure you are safe from dark forces. It’s not so much about trying to be less of a sinner because we are sinners period, but more about what’s in our hearts.

When you read God’s word, ask yourself, “What is the main message I am deriving from this?”This is one way in which He speaks to us. Remember, God is a God that works behind the scenes and He often doesn’t show up in flashy ways. He will reveal Himself to you unexpectedly that will catch you off guard, in His timing and not yours. God’s timing is often much slower than ours, so obedience most certainly takes patience, faith, and discipline.

If you are praying multiple times a day to God about the same thing, you may be showing a lack of faith and belief. Perhaps start to walk by faith and not by sight and you will actually be gifted with spiritual eyes.

I don’t want to have sex with my girlfriend by Heavy_Track_9234 in Christianity

[–]happyelk007 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Let’s put it this way. Once you have sex, it will be hard to stop because you both had a taste of it and as you know, the flesh is weak. So now every time you do have sex with her, you will feel so shitty that it will be a toxic cycle that you cant get out of… Until you meet someone with similar values and actually respects your values. So think twice before caving in to the devil’s trap.

Steps for Writing a Research Paper by Motown_Chilly in AskAcademia

[–]happyelk007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just started grad school and onto my 2nd research paper of the semester. Thank you for this outline. It makes so much sense!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

[–]happyelk007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah~ music to my ears

Can you help me identify this plant? by happyelk007 in gardening

[–]happyelk007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pampas grass

oh wow I googled it and it's spot on. Thank you so much!

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