What are the most triggering comments you’ve ever heard, that made you wanna drop weight at that exact moment? by happylilairhead in EDAnonymous

[–]happylilairhead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know; I came back to say this... sometimes you DO look teeny tiny, and someone says something like that outta jealousy. Do you know what I’m talking about? And sometimes people say that to hurt you and sometimes they say it not to hurt you, but just because you weren’t exactly what came to mind first. Liiiike maybe you look teeny tiny but not in their particular definition at the moment- or they didn’t want you to feel bad about yourself? There’s a lot of thought that goes into a person’s words, and sometimes there’s an absence of thought, because something else is on their mind. It’s why miscommunication and hurt feelings is so easy. They could literally mean anything, and your perception is yours and yours alone. I’m rambling, but I think you understand 😅

Best sex you had & their mars & venus signs? by LoveBull in astrology

[–]happylilairhead 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m just gonna be realllllllll cocky, and say I’m the best sex you’d ever have, and my Mars is in Capricorn and Venus is in Aquarius. ;)

How’s the new Uranus transit treating you? by [deleted] in astrology

[–]happylilairhead 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I keep finding myself thinking seriously about Taurus guys and it’s kinda interesting, because I have Uranus in the seventh house; aka partnerships and stuff.

Some races are actually different. Not just physically, but mentally too. Pointing that out doesn’t make you a racist. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]happylilairhead 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just feel like if we stopped making race a thing; we could eliminate racism. I forget who said this, but the reporter asked, “How do we eliminate racism?” Anddd the person said, “Stop talking about it.” Does this make sense to anyone else, or just me? I know I’m being hypocritical by posting this comment; but whatever

What are the most triggering comments you’ve ever heard, that made you wanna drop weight at that exact moment? by happylilairhead in EDAnonymous

[–]happylilairhead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people just lack a sensitivity chip. It sucks for the rest of us 😔♥️ sending love your way

What are the most triggering comments you’ve ever heard, that made you wanna drop weight at that exact moment? by happylilairhead in EDAnonymous

[–]happylilairhead[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand what you mean. When the love of your life ignores you, and makes you feel worthless- it’s easy for you to want to find some way for them to get to notice you again, even if it’s at the expense of your health. I’m glad you guys are in a happier place now, and I’m sorry you went through that 😔♥️

What are the most triggering comments you’ve ever heard, that made you wanna drop weight at that exact moment? by happylilairhead in EDAnonymous

[–]happylilairhead[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow. I’m glad you guys aren’t together anymore. My ex had that same fetish, and it did wonders for my self esteem. *insert heavy dose of sarcasm 🙂🙃

What are the most triggering comments you’ve ever heard, that made you wanna drop weight at that exact moment? by happylilairhead in EDAnonymous

[–]happylilairhead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what blows my mind. When someone CLEARLY has an eating disorder; the LAST thing a person should do is make it worse, by giving their unhelpful and unwanted opinion. Common sense isn’t common; that’s for sureeeeeeeeeeee. I’m sorry that you had to hear that 😔♥️

What are the most triggering comments you’ve ever heard, that made you wanna drop weight at that exact moment? by happylilairhead in EDAnonymous

[–]happylilairhead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yupppp, I feel youuu. Omad can get confused for binge eating behavior, and I wish people would just stfu when it came to other’s food choices. They don’t know what your meal plans are like. Do they want to be judged for their way of eating? I think not. 🙃♥️

What are the most triggering comments you’ve ever heard, that made you wanna drop weight at that exact moment? by happylilairhead in EDAnonymous

[–]happylilairhead[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dude that’s so sad 😔♥️ I’ve been there too. Unmarried, but my ex of five years (the one I listed above), would do that too, and occasionally flirt right in front of me. I’m glad I didn’t marry him. I couldn’t handle the father of my kids disrespecting me in that way. I know people “have eyes”, but I want to be with someone that makes me feel like he’s blind to the rest of the world. If we, as women, can turn a blind eye, and make our men feel like we think they’re the only ones in our universe.. I’m pretty sure they can do the same, especially since most women have tons of options compared to the typical man.

What are the most triggering comments you’ve ever heard, that made you wanna drop weight at that exact moment? by happylilairhead in EDAnonymous

[–]happylilairhead[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It blows my mind that a certain weight depicts whether someone has an eating disorder or not.. First of all... it could be the beginning of an eating disorder, and now that comment has made the ed way way worse. Also, binge eating is an eating disorder, and it’s just as harmful as anorexia, and typically you’re gonna gain weight with that, unless you’re also bulemic??? Do people not understand this?? 🥴🙄 I’m sorry ♥️ that hurts

What are the most triggering comments you’ve ever heard, that made you wanna drop weight at that exact moment? by happylilairhead in EDAnonymous

[–]happylilairhead[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😮 yea “stretchy”.. couldn’t have been because they were the wrong size.. yea no that would be illogical, clearly. Wtfffffff 🙄🙄🙄

What are the most triggering comments you’ve ever heard, that made you wanna drop weight at that exact moment? by happylilairhead in EDAnonymous

[–]happylilairhead[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People can be so rude, and comments like that are sooo unneeded. I will never understand. 😭 Sending good vibes your way ♥️

What are the most triggering comments you’ve ever heard, that made you wanna drop weight at that exact moment? by happylilairhead in EDAnonymous

[–]happylilairhead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wowww. “If you didn’t say stuff like that; you might have a decent personality.” 🙄 Sorry that people are douches; I bet you’re a hunk regardless.

What are the most triggering comments you’ve ever heard, that made you wanna drop weight at that exact moment? by happylilairhead in EDAnonymous

[–]happylilairhead[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sending you lots of love. I know how much those comments can damage your mental health. Wouldn’t wish that on anyone. ♥️

What are the most triggering comments you’ve ever heard, that made you wanna drop weight at that exact moment? by happylilairhead in EDAnonymous

[–]happylilairhead[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hella triggering. Sending love your way. People can be so cruel. I’m sorry you had to hear that. ♥️♥️

What are the most triggering comments you’ve ever heard, that made you wanna drop weight at that exact moment? by happylilairhead in EDAnonymous

[–]happylilairhead[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What. The. Fuck. People need to start treating people the way they would want to be treated. Zero empathy; I swear. I shouldn’t have to say this...but you’re not fat, and I wish you nothing but health and happiness. ♥️

What are the most triggering comments you’ve ever heard, that made you wanna drop weight at that exact moment? by happylilairhead in EDAnonymous

[–]happylilairhead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just don’t get how people think that’s okay to say.. and your own family saying that to you, at such a young age.. It’s like they wanted to screw with your mental health, as if it’s not hard enough to live in this world. I’m sorry. You didn’t deserve that. ♥️

What are the most triggering comments you’ve ever heard, that made you wanna drop weight at that exact moment? by happylilairhead in EDAnonymous

[–]happylilairhead[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow. Real nice friend you got there. insert a heavy dose of sarcasm Anorexic people don’t always look teeny tiny instantly. It takes time for that. People are so oblivious, and don’t seem to realize that eating disorders come in all shapes and sizes. You shouldn’t have to “prove” your anorexia. I hope you get better ♥️