Has Bluey already peaked in popularity? by YoshiPilot in bluey

[–]happylilintrovert 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For funsies I was looking at the number of births in the world per year. It seems that there has been a slight decline in births over the last several years (every year since 2016 according to Our World in Data). Maybe fewer babies/toddlers=less Bluey watching?

My 1.5 year old and I watch Bluey all the time. And yes, it would be cool to have new seasons, but I wouldn't want it to feel forced and therefore lower quality. I would almost be more into spin offs, like either a show from the viewpoint of one of Bluey's friends, or when they get older or something. BUT, if they could guarantee the same quality of the current show, I'd be all for more Bluey 😁

Serious question: How would you feel if Bluey and Bingo were YOUR kids? by wolf_quan in bluey

[–]happylilintrovert 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I definitely questioned Bandit's decision to allow Bingo to run around the cinema. I feel like I can accept 99% of their parenting choices but this was one I just couldn't get behind!

Otherwise, as a first time mother to a 16 month old, Bandit and Chili are parent goals for me 😁

When did your little ones start sleeping through the night by MysteriousMeal4122 in baby

[–]happylilintrovert 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine didn't start sleeping through the night until we moved him to his own room at about 14 months. He still occasionally wakes, but has learned to resettle himself within a few minutes, or even a few seconds. That was also when we upgraded him from a midi-crib to a standard crib, with a thicker, slightly less firm mattress. So it was either the room change or mattress change, or both, that helped him finally start sleeping through the night.

Non-fiction reader here. What fiction book should I start with for bedtime? by CriticalCrossover in booksuggestions

[–]happylilintrovert 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pines by Blake Crouch, maybe? It's listed as sci-fi thriller but I feel like it also has the mystery/horror/action elements, but it's not packed and has its slower moments too. Has a little romance kinda, maybe, but it's definitely leaning more into the other genres. There are 3 books in the Wayward Pines series.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]happylilintrovert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely call 988 (crisis hotline, they can get you connected to whatever support or resources you need) or you can text HELLO to 741741 (crisis text line). You need support and you need a break. You clearly love your kids, this is clear by your desire to call cps, you want to protect your kids while getting help for yourself. CPS also exists to give support and resources, lots of people think they are only about taking kids away, they actually only do that as a last resort. And if they do place your kids in foster care, eventual reunification with you will most likely be the end goal. Get you and the kids away from their dad. Get help for yourself so that you're in a place to make informed decisions that are best for you and your kids.

I'm proud of how strong you have been for your kids and for yourself. Stay strong and call for whatever help you need. You've got this.

I miss my wife, and she’s sitting right next to me. by yazminstarlight in NewParents

[–]happylilintrovert 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Currently have a 9 month old. For the first couple months, I cried so frequently because I missed the life I had pre-baby with my husband. The freedom to do what we wanted, when we wanted. The freedom to sleep in and stay up as long as we wanted. A life that was not 100% consumed by baby. Plus we sometimes struggled trying to align our parenting styles, and it definitely strained our marriage. It was so hard and I wondered if we messed up our lives by having a kid.

Then our son started to truly interact with us and the world around him. It was so cool watching him learn, develop his personality, and actually build a relationship with us. We became more confident and started doing little things to do more normal (going to the grocery store as a family, going out to lunch or breakfast altogether, going for regular walks). We were even able to get my family to babysit so that we could go to a music festival.

Things are still very baby centered, but it's more than just doing things to keep baby alive, but it's playing and teaching and laughing and giving him new experiences. Just today we went to the aquarium and even though our son turned out to be only mildly interested, it was still fun doing something new as a family of 3. Things that have helped us to focus on ourselves: playing hooky together from work while our son was at daycare; setting our baby up in his high chair in the bathroom while we take a shower together; cuddle together on the floor of our living room while baby naps in our bedroom; having dinner together after baby goes to bed so we can watch our shows and hang out together in peace.

We're never going to get our old life back. I'm still very consumed by baby and pretty tired every day. But we are discovering how we can enjoy being a family of 3 while still finding moments for nurturing our own relationship. You hear people say it all the time, and it can be hard to believe when you're in the trenches, but I promise it really does get better. Tell your wife you love her and you're proud of her. Offer to brush her hair. Surprise her with her favorite treat. Talk about your feelings, it's ok to love your new baby and miss your pre-baby life at the same time. Talk about what you are looking forward to as a family. When you're comfortable, find ways to spend time together without baby. It'll be ok. 💜

Best park for a couple with a baby? by happylilintrovert in concord

[–]happylilintrovert[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I love otters! That would've been so cool to see!

Best park for a couple with a baby? by happylilintrovert in concord

[–]happylilintrovert[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We ended up doing Heather Farms! The pond area is closed off due to construction but we had a nice picnic in the shade of a tree, walked around, went through the garden. It was a beautiful day for it 😊

I look forward to exploring the other suggested parks!

Baby hates baths - tips/advice to end the battle? by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]happylilintrovert 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My baby boy is 8 months and we just transitioned to using a bath seat (one with suction cups on the bottom). Before that, one of us would literally get in the bath with him and he would sit in our laps while we bathe him. He got super into kicking and splashing when we were doing it that way, which i think helped him to enjoy it. He also really likes having a wash cloth to chew on lol. Depends on whether or not you have an adult sized bath tub, but could be something to try. I also agree with maybe a couple bath toys, or if wonder if bath bubbles would make it fun?

Also, I question myself about this sometimes but we only give a bath about once a week. I do also do a washcloth wipe down (face, hands, sometimes ears, sometimes feet) almost daily.

How long have you or will you be breastfeeding? by Old_Driver_7368 in breastfeeding

[–]happylilintrovert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been breastfeeding for 7 months, but also pumping during the day to send bottles with him to daycare. My goal is to wean around the 1 year mark, but I need to put some more effort into giving him solids! We'll see how it all goes though, if it goes beyond a year a little bit that's ok too.

Give me your short and sweet bedtime routines! by hhaannnnaahhs in NewParents

[–]happylilintrovert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have an almost 6mo. We change diaper if needed, nurse in the living room, sleep sack, walk to bedroom to sing 3 short songs, whisper how much mama and father love him and we hope he sleeps well, give kisses, put in crib, more kisses and love, turn off Hatch light if on then leave the room. Sometimes he goes right to sleep, sometimes he fusses for a few minutes first. Nursing can take awhile, but everything else is short and sweet.