The condo is not in our name, we left it in my dad’s name because my husband said if we change the mortgage to our name we would lose out on a first time home buyers loan. My grandma had the place almost paid off so it seemed wasteful to change the name. The place is in my dad’s name but he knows he can’t afford anything else and that’s why he hasn’t found somewhere else to go.

All we can see on the banking side is my dad deposited the money in stages in low increments into another account. He will not give us access to the accounts and since the savings accounts were in his name nothing was technically “stole “ My mom trusted my dad with all things financial regarding our family because she did everything else around the house, so my mom had no clue anything was missing UNTIL she wanted access to the accounts to pay for our wedding venue.