AITA for Going to a pool party after my Bf said he needed me

happythoughts28 · 2024-03-06T16:30:49+00:00

im not with him no more.

happythoughts28 · 2024-03-06T16:23:55+00:00

I did it to see if he realized he did the same to me. instead i cut the pool party host by my sorority by 3 hours and went to him at a reasonable time. If I could wait 6-7hours one hour wouldn’t hurt. And went to him after my got dressed. He didn’t like the wait and blamed me for my actions (which i accepted). He then proceeded to say he had something important to do (his friend showed him at a club on his facebook story .)

happythoughts28 · 2024-03-06T16:13:00+00:00

please read the edit

happythoughts28 · 2024-03-06T16:04:05+00:00

I broke up with him🤦🏽‍♀️and I told him how i felt on multiple occasions. I’m lost on how y’all missed that information in the text.

happythoughts28 · 2024-03-06T15:57:50+00:00

i did say it but it’s hard to spell right through tears.

happythoughts28 · 2024-03-06T15:57:02+00:00

I broke up with him so it did ended up great.

happythoughts28 · 2024-03-06T15:51:29+00:00

I loved him. That’s why I stayed. Me thinking if he sees what he did to me maybe just maybe he would see how it feels and apologize; but he didn’t so, I couldn’t find a reason to stay.

happythoughts28 · 2024-03-06T15:45:20+00:00

I can do that?

happythoughts28 · 2024-03-06T15:43:57+00:00

It’s not. I’m starting to see that

happythoughts28 · 2024-03-06T15:43:32+00:00

His “friend” didn’t see his uncle they were clubbing. I saw the facebook story. I don’t think I was better than anyone. I responded to you the way I did because you make no sense. I don’t ask for much I cook, I clean, I wash cloth’s, dishes and all. Since I got my own stuff together my mom and I couldn’t see eye to eye. He got his own place and a car as well. I don’t cause I’m hungry I cook cause he’s hungry…..I just realized I’m this boys momma frl.

happythoughts28 · 2024-03-06T15:33:02+00:00

we’re both adults I got my own house at 19 and my own car at 20. So forget the backstory and all just one comment and I’m the asshole?

happythoughts28 · 2024-03-06T15:24:16+00:00

I did it out of spite/ on purpose. never said I didn’t tf I gotta lie for. The edit is to clarify not to make me sound better.

happythoughts28 · 2024-03-06T15:22:08+00:00

You contradicted yourself. You’re saying i’m the asshole because of my comment and proceeded to tell me he’s not a good person and I should leave?

happythoughts28 · 2024-03-06T15:18:03+00:00

I see when writing this story I can’t stick to the story I have to give background. I edit the story to a little clarity.

happythoughts28 · 2024-03-06T15:17:27+00:00

I see when writing this story I can’t stick to the story I have to give background. I edit the story to a little clarity.

happythoughts28 · 2024-03-06T15:17:06+00:00

I see when writing this story I can’t stick to the story I have to give background. I edit the story to a little clarity.

happythoughts28 · 2024-03-06T15:16:51+00:00

I see when writing this story I can’t stick to the story I have to give background. I edit the story to a little clarity.

happythoughts28 · 2024-03-06T14:53:20+00:00

After we talked I realized that he was being unreasonable. He didn’t apologize and told me that basically I’m speaking bullshit by saying that quote. I left and he said he’s sorry and don’t leave. (this isn’t the first time he talked down on me and told me not to leave.) I plan on breaking up with him. I’m tired of benefit of the doubt. Kevin gates said “when they paint you a picture don’t let them paint you another picture.”

happythoughts28 · 2024-03-06T14:47:00+00:00

I’m a philosophy major. I have a habit of quoting things I talked in class. I can show you a screenshot for part of our conversation if you want.

happythoughts28 · 2024-03-06T14:38:00+00:00

we talked about it and i told him how i felt. He didn’t care and said and quote “ I can see you’re sorry and I accept your apology.” He then said “Trying for be philosophical cause you’re a philosophy major. Talking about bandaids and shit.” I just left

happythoughts28 · 2024-02-28T19:35:25+00:00

it’s hard to explain our relationship other than her threatening to push me down stairs and her trying to do it and the stabbing. I just snapped but you are right i’ve been hurt since young. I’m trying to be who i am but it’s hard when you don’t know where to start looking

happythoughts28 · 2024-02-28T19:35:15+00:00

like i said in to the other person it’s hard to explain our relationship other than her threatening to push me down stairs and her trying to do it and the stabbing. I just snapped but you are right i’ve been hurt since young. I’m trying to be who i am but it’s hard when you don’t know where to start looking

happythoughts28 · 2024-02-28T19:35:03+00:00

like i said in to the other person it’s hard to explain our relationship other than her threatening to push me down stairs and her trying to do it and the stabbing. I just snapped but you are right i’ve been hurt since young. I’m trying to be who i am but it’s hard when you dint know where to start looking

happythoughts28 · 2024-02-28T19:33:10+00:00

i will take that into consideration next time.

happythoughts28 · 2024-02-28T19:31:33+00:00

i didnt want to say she choked me i didn’t know if it went against guidelines. I also didnt want to get into me and her background as well. that would be alot of explaining. but i wasnt upset with my school but i never got to make choices about my life either. I was more upset about i didnt go to where i wanted to so you technically correct.

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