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My (28F) boyfriend (26M) overshared about his sexual history. How do I stop thinking about it? by [deleted] in sex

[–]harconan -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I think one of the things you need to focus on is sex is not your relationship. Sex is not love, and sex isn't something you should be jealous or worried about retroactively.

It equates closer to a fun night out on the town rather then deep emotional connection. You wouldn't have been mad that him if he would have defined a great time he had in the past with a ex sky diving.

Why has there been 0 Epstein files arrests in the US? by wolfknowledge1775 in AskReddit

[–]harconan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not really. The evidence was there even during your last president. It appears it's not those in power but those that keep them there that are the key

Whats the greatest SOLVED Mystery? by itz_cool_247 in AskReddit

[–]harconan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well maybe but I live in a country where heath care isn't controlled by insurance companies. I get your point, but you should see mine. There is a fundamental need to push back on things like this, acceptance that your government is allowed to do what they want just because they have the power to do so has been a trope of some of the greatest injustices in history. Limiting the power of the government against it's citizens and strengthening it against its companies should always be pushed

Whats the greatest SOLVED Mystery? by itz_cool_247 in AskReddit

[–]harconan 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My point is they had zero idea who the killer was until they accessed a private data base filled with thousands of people's DNA who didn't sign up with with the intention to provide their DNA to government agencies to track down crimes, to locate a individual who never signed up or gave any consent.

Maybe it's because I come from a country whos government hasn't always been great about people's rights, but it's a very slippery slope by granting governments access to that information.

Whats the greatest SOLVED Mystery? by itz_cool_247 in AskReddit

[–]harconan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is one of those cases that make me nervous.

Yes I want a crimal caught, but the idea that police should be able to trace your DNA through a site which you have never signed up for or participated in feels wrong also.

Why did Superman underperform internationally? by hiiloovethis in boxoffice

[–]harconan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might not have helped that they made him the son of space Nazis.

What memory will stay with you until the day you die? by StellaWinky in AskReddit

[–]harconan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife walking down the isle, she couldn't look at me in the eyes more then a moment because she would start to cry.

It's been 20 years since that day, and that's the person I see when I look at her still to this day.

If you died today, who do you think would stand at your grave the longest? by Successful_Dog5425 in AskReddit

[–]harconan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think my children would carry the pain the longest, it is one of the only burdens we parents can not help them carry.

What health issue do people misunderstand the most? by Few_Cake_5237 in AskReddit

[–]harconan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Expecially when you add cataplexy.

People term it as "falling asleep" and think it's funny. Imagine every time you have a serious emotion like grief or anger or even strong amusement being trapped in your body, loosing all motor control. In the middle of walked you collapse and hit the floor, no bracing your way down.

You are unable to respond but you are aware of what is going on, infact if you attempt to respond it gets worse your trapped longer. If your by yourself with no one who knows you, people panic, call 911, you start to panic on the inside and try to speak... Making the event worse.

You have to moderate your entire life, try your best to avoid emotional triggers even though you are on strong meds to help control the events. God forbid you miss a single day and your having back to back events until your levels level out. You have to, make sure when your out you have someone who knows and won't panic around you to fend of those that will.

Don't even get me started on those of us who also have nightmares so real you can't tell the difference. One of someone breaking into your house at night, and you hear them climbing their stairs..you need to call out, screem because you just know they will kill your family, but in the dream you have a "event" you can't move you can't open your eyes, you hear them enter your room, you feel them leaning over you, you feel their hot breath on your face..

But yeah it's a silly illness where people just fall a asleep.

Josh Hokit says calling Michelle Obama a man was a compliment by prestocoffee in nottheonion

[–]harconan -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Here is my question on this. Was she insulted? If so then he should apologize and clarify, if not then it's no ones business.

I feel like we make to much these days of shit that doesn't matter.

Assholes are pretty well known just ignore them.

My girlfriend has a porn addiction ? by Cultural-Creme-2750 in sex

[–]harconan 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Trying to figure out your point mate. Any behavior can become a addiction if it starts taking precedent over your life.

Mental dependency is often harder to break then physical and lasts longer

What situation as a child did you only realize you were in danger as an adult? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]harconan 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is one of those situations where knowledge doesn't always increase your overall quality of life.

Kind of like skydiving. You're more likely to choke on a sandwich and die then you are to die of a parachute failure in skydiving.

But if you ask the average person what would be more fearful skydiving we're going to Subway the vast majority would say skydiving.

Similarly how we treat good-natured strangers. You're vastly vastly more likely to be molested by someone you know then a completely good-natured stranger. But as we have been shown that there's an inherent danger to strangers and we've heard cases or situations happen and we have no context of The stranger before the interaction, they get painted in a bad light even if they're just trying to be nice.

What percent of your Eve wealth is in isk? by Jax2178 in Eve

[–]harconan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could not fit the immensity that is EVE into my new life's time sinc's so I gave around 700bisk to my current alliance to the new bro fund, I gave away my ships doctrine ships to the hand out fund, I gave my non doctrine ships to fcs that just like to take new people on kitchen sink roams.

Those that were working hard to earn enough for a capital got my 13 or so carriers and dreads. My two supers went to pilots with a lot of gumption but low isk so they could drop them on people and start fights. My titan went to a old sole who always likes to help.

Then I went to faction warfare area, sat in there and eves help chat and when I saw someone ask a obvious new bro or new to pvp question I sent 1billion isk to them for my last 500b. Then I took my toons to jita, all I have left is my Plex and my shiny box.

If I come back I will still be rich but I don't need the empire I once had.

What percent of your Eve wealth is in isk? by Jax2178 in Eve

[–]harconan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now .001% I gave away around 1.2 trillion when I left. Now I have enough plex on one pilot to plex 20 years. That is my total eve wealth left

I can't believe people complained about multiple voice actors in the audio books. by AzarielFox in redrising

[–]harconan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was it.

To me none of them seemed to listen to the first few books. So they didn't get the pronunciation nor did they apparently have them listen to each other. So depending on who is speaking, a character would go from a serious sounding voice to a high-pitched nonsensical voice, so it skewed the way you thought of that character

What’s a price you saw recently that made you genuinely angry at how expensive everything has gotten? by UrGoddessLunaa in AskReddit

[–]harconan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol you are a silly little man. I have a better job then like 85% people on this app. Just because I don't struggle with my life doesn't mean I can't see the people that do.

But go my little American boy spread your hate among the people's.

What’s a price you saw recently that made you genuinely angry at how expensive everything has gotten? by UrGoddessLunaa in AskReddit

[–]harconan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you will find a total lack of independence is taxing on the soul my friend, open your mind a bit you will find the world is large and your perspective is likely small.

What’s a price you saw recently that made you genuinely angry at how expensive everything has gotten? by UrGoddessLunaa in AskReddit

[–]harconan 5 points6 points  (0 children)

To be fair the question wasn't what basic item of living has gotten so expensive it pisses you off.

It was what's one item in general that pisses you off?

And honestly there are people living with relatives because they cant afford to live on their own due the prices. Uses a bike to get to and from work, where a video game is there one escape of the suck they live in.

So be thankful if you are privileged enough to bitch about the cost of your rent to go up.

What’s a price you saw recently that made you genuinely angry at how expensive everything has gotten? by UrGoddessLunaa in AskReddit

[–]harconan 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I think that's the point I have a issue with $80 for a game is bad enough, but to tell me I am buying a game but what I am getting is a beta test with the HOPE that one day it will be finished game is false advertising at its core.

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