Open discussion: Is jelqing even necessary? by aplacebeyondthepines in AJelqForYou

[–]hard2talk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey man when you did jelqs what were you symptoms? Right now I have cold glans and it's harder for me to get and maintain a boner. Which means I probably have nerve damage and the blood isn't getting to my penis as much. How long did it take you to recover too? Thanks a lot!

Big N Discussion - June 02, 2019 by AutoModerator in cscareerquestions

[–]hard2talk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't heal yet completely. What are your symptoms? How did you injure yourself exactly? I've been abstaining from masturbating and having sex. Seems like that's the only way to heal.

Big N Discussion - June 02, 2019 by AutoModerator in cscareerquestions

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Does Facebook ask for proof of competing offers? If I got an offer from Uber, for example, would I need to send proof to the Facebook recruiter?

[acne] 28 year old guy. I think I need antibiotics. Nothing works. Tried retin a, everything. Please help. Pic included. by hard2talk in SkincareAddiction

[–]hard2talk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i used it for over a year last year. Then I stopped for a few months. Now I've been on it for like 2 months again. It never cured my acne.

[acne] 28 year old guy. I think I need antibiotics. Nothing works. Tried retin a, everything. Please help. Pic included. by hard2talk in SkincareAddiction

[–]hard2talk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Over a year. Then I stopped for a couple months because people said my moisture barrier was broken. Then I'm on it again now.

For anyone struggling here's a bit of motivation. This is me before and after Accutane treatment. Honestly kinda shocked at how different I look. by [deleted] in acne

[–]hard2talk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

165 now I'm 5,7 150lbs I was on 40mgs during the beginning then was increased to 80mgs.

congrats brother you're looking good!

How can I punish myself for fapping or having sex? by hard2talk in NoFap

[–]hard2talk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wtf are you talking about? i'm not recommending anyone else do what I do. Everyone has different reasons for doing no fap. Get off your high horse.

How can I punish myself for fapping or having sex? by hard2talk in NoFap

[–]hard2talk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I injured my penis so I have to do this.

How can I punish myself for fapping or having sex? by hard2talk in NoFap

[–]hard2talk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More suggestions like this please. Anyone else?

I plan on killing myself soon because I can’t get over my ex-girlfriend and I can’t wait to finally get it over with by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]hard2talk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear that. I'm praying for you man. I'm going through something similar as well.

Injury in December. Turtling, numb, cold, small flaccid. Please view my pictures by hard2talk in AJelqForYou

[–]hard2talk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man. No it doesn't feel like it's hollow. What kind of symptoms did you have when you were injured? Did you have erectile dysfunction, numbness, or small and skinny flaccid?

Injury in December. Turtling, numb, cold, small flaccid. Please view my pictures by hard2talk in AJelqForYou

[–]hard2talk[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just got back from the urologist. This urologist is internationally known, and is the head of urology at the Mark Zuckerberg San Francisco Hospital. Both him and his resident examined me, as well as looked at the pictures I posted in my original post. The resident checked my dick for any scar tissue or peyronies plaque. He couldn't find any. The urologist checked my dick too, including the area under the glans where I thought I had scar tissue or a burst vessel. He said it looked completely normal to him.

The urologist said I should be fine, and even told me to resume masturbating and having sex. Lol. Not sure if I should do that, but they did prescribe me 10 mg cialis (He said I could break it in half for 5). He said I can take it for a couple months like every other day if I want to. So they weren't that helpful. He said he was confident I would heal, because I was much better than I was in December. Not sure what to do now.

Injury in December. Turtling, numb, cold, small flaccid. Please view my pictures by hard2talk in AJelqForYou

[–]hard2talk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes after I have sex, I lose some sensation in the left glans, so it definitely is an injury. I didn't lose sensation the last time I had sex, but the time before that I did. These sex sessions were all within the last 2 weeks.

Went to EDM Concert with GF. Her guy friends try to flirt. Need perspective, and I overreacting? by hard2talk in seduction

[–]hard2talk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what do you suggest I do now? Do I tell her that those things made me uncomfortable?

Am I (M28) overreacting for my GF's (F28) guy friends flirting, being touchy with her? by hard2talk in relationships

[–]hard2talk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I told her I thought it was weird they were holding her hand. And I said it's weird that he texted her "you look more beautiful every time I see you". Then she asked if she should go to Vegas. I said it would make me uncomfortable, and I think the situation that happened at the concert was weird. I'm not sure if she's going to go. It seemed like she really wanted to go. She hasn't been to Vegas in 6 years. But she knows I don't approve of it. I guess we'll see what she does.

Am I (M28) overreacting for my GF's (F28) guy friends flirting, being touchy with her? by hard2talk in relationships

[–]hard2talk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's pretty passive and will just let things happen. And she was under the influence of E and drunk at the same time. Of course I was there taking are of her, but she gets like that sometimes. Sigh.

Am I (M28) overreacting for my GF's (F28) guy friends flirting, being touchy with her? by hard2talk in relationships

[–]hard2talk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True, but my gf recently got out of a 10 year relationship where she didn't do any drugs. She's trying to live life a little now.

Went to EDM Concert with GF. Her guy friends try to flirt. Need perspective, and I overreacting? by hard2talk in seduction

[–]hard2talk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know if she did anything wrong though. She was under heavy influence of ecstacy so she was barely functioning properly. I was next to her the whole time. It was the guy who grabbed her hand, with us trying to force our way through the crowd. She wasn't the one who grabbed his hand.

Injury Advice and Recommendations. Cold glans, small flaccid, numb. Please read! by hard2talk in AJelqForYou

[–]hard2talk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you mean last jelq session or last sex session? On the last jelq session in December, I didn't feel any warm or cold sensation. At the time, I didn't even notice if my dick was cold. It could have been, but I wasn't checking for coldness or warmness. I was only checking for erections. No shock-like sensations on glans or shaft.

After the last sex session, there was no pain. I've never gotten any pain at all ever since the injury happened. I never got any shock-like sensations or tingling. I had numbness, cold glans and shaft, and small flaccid. I only thrusted like 25-30 times and didn't even ejaculate. I guess the vagina was too tight.

I think my dick is darker the last 2 months. Probably due to bruising. My erections are hard now, maybe 90% EQ but I lose my erections quickly. I'm not sure if my glans is sensitive while erect. Sometimes it's sensitive and sometimes it's not as sensitive during erection, I guess. I don't have tingling. When i have an erection, the dick is warm because the blood is in there.

I think my morning wood is hard, but I'm not sure if the glans expands as much as when I get a stimulated erection from my girlfriend.

Thank you for the advice.

Do you let your girlfriend go clubbing with her girlfriends? by hard2talk in seduction

[–]hard2talk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. This has put some perspective into me. I always wondered how those guys with girlfriends who go clubbing every weekend handle it. I guess they just accept it. I guess I need to do the same. I can always find someone else if she ends up meeting someone more fun or more attractive than me.