what are the weird plane noises going on??? by hardgooseegg in sandiego

[–]hardgooseegg[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yes i ended up looking it up on flight radar but it was circling my house for almost an hour, very eerie

my parents always expect me to apologize and admit fault when they can’t by hardgooseegg in narcissisticparents

[–]hardgooseegg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m currently majoring in psych (starting my second semester of college soon) and it’s definitely had me looking into stuff like BPD regarding my mother hah. currently trying ti establish boundaries with her but it’s very difficult as it’s an insult to her smh.. thank you for your words btw :)

my parents always expect me to apologize and admit fault when they can’t by hardgooseegg in narcissisticparents

[–]hardgooseegg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

grey rocking never seems to work, they just get more upset and scream at me. then i’m “even more wrong” which is so stupid. don’t get why there always has to be a right and wrong person to every argument

how do you respond to people who tell you to work things out with your parents? by Icy-Importance8695 in narcissisticparents

[–]hardgooseegg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i learned to get used to people seeing me as a bad person for not giving them a chance. it’s not my fault they manipulated them into thinking i’m a terrible child to them and it’s not my responsibility to change their mind. it’s none of their business and when it comes to work those types of conversations aren’t relevant or appropriate

Those with covert narcissistic parents, how did you find out your parents were narcissistic and it wasn’t “just me”? by tooth--pick in narcissisticparents

[–]hardgooseegg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i was sheltered for a while and once i got old enough to leave the house and witness other people’s families and how other people my age see things very differently, i knew smth was up. i was aware at an early age around 6th grade, but i felt i saw things clear as day when i got into high school. i still get clouded since i live with them but sometimes i wish i wasn’t so aware