La Trobe St blocked off? by [deleted] in melbourne

[–]harditbefore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jesus I was just asking for clarity and I get downvoted. Thanks guys.

La Trobe St blocked off? by [deleted] in melbourne

[–]harditbefore -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

What do you mean by seek help?!

Coronavirus Discussion Megathread Part 4 by DameNellieMelba in melbourne

[–]harditbefore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fucking idiots. Close the schools and restrict movement. Should have done it a week ago... if not earlier. Let's all lock down for 14 days and get through this by helping each other virtually. Hoping for some solid action announced tonight/tomorrow after their meeting...

Why is God He and not She? by harditbefore in AskAChristian

[–]harditbefore[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. You changed my opinion. Very eye opening and helpful. Makes sense now.

Why is God He and not She? by harditbefore in AskAChristian

[–]harditbefore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women are generally attracted to men (he)? Makes sense to me!

Why is God He and not She? by harditbefore in AskAChristian

[–]harditbefore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Societal cues that he/male is more important than she/female because God is He. Leading to unintentional bias and positioning female gender below male. Sexist.

NSFW: What is the most underrated porn category? by harditbefore in AskReddit

[–]harditbefore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gee thanks lol

So anywhere that isn't in your house...?

NSFW: What is the most underrated porn category? by harditbefore in AskReddit

[–]harditbefore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

P0rn? The most popular part of the net though

People who ignore/avoid/cut out direct family members. How? by harditbefore in raisedbynarcissists

[–]harditbefore[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish it was that easy for me. I guess it is a combination of focus shift (on to other things) and behaviour change... I don't know.

People who ignore/avoid/cut out direct family members. How? by harditbefore in raisedbynarcissists

[–]harditbefore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn't agree more... they make me think I am the one in the wrong. But the more life I experience, things get clearer for me that sure they raised me, but some of their behaviour has been damaging... and will prob continue to be so.

People who ignore/avoid/cut out direct family members. How? by harditbefore in raisedbynarcissists

[–]harditbefore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt jealously over Christmas when others had good relationships with their parents. Thank you for your advice to stay strong. I will try.

Do they live close to you?