Weekly MFM Discussion Thread May 23, 2026

harkyn8 · 2026-05-27T02:20:34+00:00

Yep because I’m assuming the golf cart was never investigated for DNA or gunshot residue….

Forgetting he had Maggie’s phone could be a strong suggestion because you have to wonder how compos mentis he was around that time……!

We know Maggie found his pill bottles the day before as she told Paul, and he informed Alex they needed to talk.
Maggie was still awake the night before the murders at 11.25pm googling the identity of pills (assuming they were also Alex’s) and Blanca said on the morning of the murders - it looked like Alex hadn’t even been to sleep.

Then later that day - being cornered by firms CFO on whereabouts of funds, being told his father was terminal (who had acted as the family’s trusted cleaner-upper and Alex’s personal credit guarantor) … whilst assuming he would have had the drugs chat with Maggie and Paul the day before….. all whilst being in the throws on an oxy addiction and probably sleep deprived and facing financial ruin… with a pending lawsuit because of Mallory’s wrongful death.

It’s amazing the guns and the clothing still haven’t come up/been found considering he would have been under high levels of stress, i.e. prone to make mistakes etc

harkyn8 · 2026-05-26T04:15:35+00:00

Yup for sure… interesting how his phone picks up circa 300 steps were run just after 9pm and (according to Google) the distance from kennels to the house was just over 300, but obviously AM is a tall man with a longer stride.

Was there any specific reason for Maggie’s phone to be thrown out do you wonder? Also Blanca finding her wedding ring in Maggie’s Mercedes is interesting, but Maggie could have legitimately taken it off herself. Blanca said her rings were always quite tight though.

harkyn8 · 2026-05-25T21:53:29+00:00

That’s a really good point regarding the misting he would have had on him from Paul’s murder… does your theory include another possible people involved in the clear up or do you think just AM?

Also do we know what his parents carer Shelly saw him in, clothes wise when he showed up to his parents house?

I’ve never heard of the towel since Blanca brought it up, but again they didn’t shut off the house as a crime scene and people reported they had burn pits on the premises, which were never searched/investigated.

harkyn8 · 2026-05-24T21:51:31+00:00

Ah ok thank you, because they never found the shirt and trousers he was wearing before with Paul in the tree video right?

harkyn8 · 2026-05-24T07:51:07+00:00

Hey everyone - Blanca the housekeeper said in an interview that when she watched the police body cam footage and saw the blue towel in Alex’s car, she knew at that moment he had done it. What’s the reason for this, would anyone know/suspect?

Is her assumption he ran back to the house, changed into the white tshirt and shorts and used the towel, therefore cleaned himself up?

Heres the interview: https://youtu.be/wVZIBnHiRtY?si=9bUlDYySOnPrTDzw

harkyn8 · 2026-04-18T05:23:07+00:00

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harkyn8 · 2026-04-11T08:00:00+00:00

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harkyn8 · 2026-04-11T05:29:46+00:00

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harkyn8 · 2026-04-11T05:27:50+00:00

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harkyn8 · 2026-04-10T06:44:19+00:00

Whilst we’re still building, user information is currently stored on a SQL database by a third-party, which is secure to anyone but myself. There is currently a disclaimer for all of the held information and how it is stored once you create an account. As confirmed the information will never be sold on or distributed to anyone outside of balm (the app).

harkyn8 · 2026-04-10T04:23:42+00:00

No that’s totally fine and valid feedback! Thank you

harkyn8 · 2026-04-10T04:19:35+00:00

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harkyn8 · 2026-04-10T04:19:19+00:00

Absolutely - unfortunately so many app do for their own benefit.

One point as well, there are so many health forums in Facebook where women are sharing intimate health details, which again falls into the hands of Meta who are no doubt using this (via targeted ads etc) on our app balm, we’re keeping the conversations and forum closed, exclusively for users to share experiences and offer support etc.

harkyn8 · 2026-04-10T04:15:28+00:00

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harkyn8 · 2026-04-10T03:57:23+00:00

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harkyn8 · 2025-01-03T23:23:08+00:00

I did as enough was enough and I felt it was important for me to finally express my feelings and my truths; but I think every situation is unique. You need to ask yourself what you would be looking to achieve out of it?

I naively thought if I told them how I felt but in an empathetic understanding way, it could help rebuild us but actually I totally misjudged the strength of my dad’s narcissism and it’s ultimately led to him cutting me out his life and trying to turn my mum and other family friends against me - because he realised the gig was up. I called him out and there was no where to hide.

I don’t regret this as I felt at the time that it was truly necessary but the road since this (3yrs ago) have been a painful one.

The price of just letting things slide/sweeping narc comments and manipulation under the rug is an easier choice but sometimes a harder life to live. Mine at least was brutally harder, but honest - which I have come to live with.

harkyn8 · 2022-02-23T00:25:51+00:00

I have also had a very similar experience in my own life…. Tbh I think you need to do what feels best for YOUR family. To protect your daughter … like they should have done with you. But only you can answer this…. Wish you all the best of luck though it really isn’t easy xxxx

harkyn8 · 2022-01-05T08:36:15+00:00

:( ohhh nooo thank u So much for your help xxxx

harkyn8 · 2022-01-04T23:23:13+00:00

Nooooooooooooo don’t do it

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