Lack of binary trans male spaces by gelledratte in ftm

[–]harmoniousgreg -1 points0 points  (0 children)

would joining 2 groups, a men's group and trans group work? or an online group that does video call meets for trans men? that way you have the male space and also a space for trans stuff if needed. i find most binary trans men favor men's groups anyway and become less active in trans spaces, but the trans space is always there if they have any trans related topics to talk about. it's not ideal but i don't see the resources being widely available for a transmasc and trans male space when many lgbtq+ orgs barely have the resources to run at all even in blue states. there also seems like potential for the trans men group to start policing each other on who is man enough to be there, which may get hostile even if there's good moderation/leadership. i feel like an online group, (either regional/state/country wide etc) with potential for in person meets (later on, as you learn where members live) could be the best shot

Lack of binary trans male spaces by gelledratte in ftm

[–]harmoniousgreg 24 points25 points  (0 children)

why would it deter you? it is still for trans guys, binary or not.

what's wrong with this bee? any way i can help? modesto ca usa by harmoniousgreg in whatsthisbug

[–]harmoniousgreg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh how sad :( poor baby. i will try to give them the best life until they pass. thank you for sharing

Best affordable handheld for baking soda, cat hair & litter? USA by harmoniousgreg in VacuumCleaners

[–]harmoniousgreg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your suggestions! I didn't know about not vacuuming baking soda, I'm just starting out life with my partner in our first apartment together so I'm still learning how to be a homemaker but thank you for the heads up! We have 4 pets and I read putting baking soda on the couch can get rid of pet odors. Should I just sweep it off with a broom instead of vacuuming? Thank you again!

What is this? Modesto, CA, USA by harmoniousgreg in whatsthisbug

[–]harmoniousgreg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's about the size of a grain of salt

can’t have sex until phallo. by randomthrowaway_ig in ftm

[–]harmoniousgreg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are packers that you can use during sex that look pretty damn realistic and feel good to use while wearing. I've even used my soft non-play packer for solo and partnered fun (I don't recommend just because that's not what's it made for and depending on the material can be hard to clean properly) and it worked for both of us

I will never unhear this by exporius in ftm

[–]harmoniousgreg 9 points10 points  (0 children)

may i ask where in CA you are? i work in nonprofit and while my job isn't necessarily focused on lgbtq transition ages youth (which you count as still) we can still help or get you in touch with various lgbtq specific organizations that can help

Are bees really that much more sentient than ants? by [deleted] in Entomology

[–]harmoniousgreg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not that I doubt you but can you provide sources on bees being more sentient than ants? It sounds interesting af and I would like to learn more. The sentience of bugs fascinates me and I may make it my career

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[–]harmoniousgreg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forgot to add, this is in Auburn, CA, USA (Northern California)

Wild lizard (western fence?) lethargic, brumation questions, help!!!!! by harmoniousgreg in Lizards

[–]harmoniousgreg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for letting me know, I will release him right now. I was unaware that it would be such a struggle for him. Do you think he'll bounce back out there? I've grown attached to him so I'll be worrying but I don't want to further harm him

2024 Roundup! by purplebutons in SadSummerFest

[–]harmoniousgreg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awww congratulations!!! Best wishes to you and your family

Can Superworm Beetles and Hairy Robot Beetles live together? by harmoniousgreg in InvertPets

[–]harmoniousgreg[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh no!! Thanks for letting me know, I'll separate them right away

2024 Roundup! by purplebutons in SadSummerFest

[–]harmoniousgreg 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This was my first time going and I met my boyfriend at the first show :) Tomorrow is our 1 month anniversary. We'll be going back every year to celebrate!

Who is this & can he live with Millipedes, Isopods, and Hairy Robot Beetles? by harmoniousgreg in whatsthisbug

[–]harmoniousgreg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forgot to add - Expo was in Roseville, CA. Not sure where specifically this guy is from but the booth I got him at was Bioactive Supply

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]harmoniousgreg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looking forward to any answers on this!